What's with this talk about people being 'ungrateful?' Insomniac is a business. It's not like they just made this game out of the kindness of their hearts and handed it out on street corners. They made a product, the consumer gives them money. That's the transaction. No one is required to be grateful. Businesses want customer feedback, they spend millions on market research. And if not for the feedback after the E3 demo, this game wouldn't have had fast web swinging, the charge jump, or new game+. Those were all suggestions made by the fans.
That being said, I don't really mind that the Raimi suit isn't present. But I understand the frustration. If they said from the beginning that the suit wouldn't be there, it never would have escalated to this level. Instead, they chose to give the fans false hope, most probably to make more money on the DLC. And to make it more insulting, they put nearly 40 suits in the game, most of which are garbage.