The thing is, as Webbs spidey was not originally planned for the MCU it would feel shoe horned. The more outer this wolrd elements of the MCU would feel out of place in this take of spidey.
But they have those connections. And they are still out of this world elements that would not fit this more grounded take on Spidey.
We don't know how much influence Marvel had on TASM. Someone from Marvel or Sony (can't remember who) said that Marvel has had more influence on TASM than any other non-Marvel Studios film though I'm not exactly sure what they mean by that but it could be a sign.
Plus, Marvel and Sony's "friendship" (for lack of better term lol) started out in 2010 when Marvel get the merchandising rights back. That was also when production on the reboot started.
Honestly, TASM isn't any more grounded than TIH or Iron Man IMO. The science in TASM is just as out there as the science from TIH and the tech that we saw in Iron Man (heck, both TIH and TASM had giant green monster in NYC lol). It's not grounded in the same way the Nolan films are grounded, where they cut down on things that can't happen in real life. It's more grounded in the sense that the characters feel and act as if they were real but it doesn't limit the franchise to not using anything from the Spider-Man comics like how Nolan limited Batman to not using anything like Clayface, Mr Freeze, etc.
If there is going to be a Spidey in the Marvel films, easy solution would be to let Marvel us their version of the spidey character to fit in with the MCU.
Ignoring the fact that I think TASM would fit perfectly into the MCU, I'm not sure I would be happy to see that. I mean, Andrew Garfield is such a perfect Spider-Man and the rest of the cast is so spot on

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I would say the casting is spot on with the casting in the MCU so it would break my little heart

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I was thinking about this. Iron Man and TIH where released in the same year. This was the start f the Marvel plan. And it was developed further. In the end, all these films do have an overall plan to fit the MCU.
They haven't done any movies with characters from outside the Avengers like the Punisher and Daredevil so we don't know if every single film they make will be that way. We do know that every single film featuring an Avengers member will be that way though.
Which but is that sorry?
Don't know if they're totally ignoring it. Fair point. But I just got that little feeling about it. But that might just be my view.
I just think they don't know where to take the character from here.
BUT, if Marvel did them, they would do their own takes from scratch, which would make it easier to include them in the MCU world. Whilst Webbs spidey already exists where there where no plans to include it originally.
Again, they are starting this film from scratch. And so can plan it from the start how to incorporate it into the MCU.
Well, like I said, we don't know that. Plus, and this is just me, but I think TASM would fit in just fine. That's just my view though and I guess we can't convince each other so we'll have to agree to disagree on this.
Mater of perspective here. It is a grittier take on spider-man, no doubt.
I wouldn't call it gritty because in my head, although it's grittier than the Raimi films, this is similar to the general grit we see in your average Spider-Man comic.
Again, loving the debate bud
Same here

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