The Official Tom Welling Thread

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jas01724 said:
I guess it's the difference between being stabbed in the front and in the back.



No. Having an opposing viewpoint of an actor such as Tom Welling and engaging in a discussion is normal. However crossing the line is when you decide to discuss the topic but you have to throw in insults instead of just saying why you disagree. Stabbing you in the back would be to act like you are engaging in the conversation, only to all the sudden throw a needless jab in there.
 
JcDc said:
No. Having an opposing viewpoint of an actor such as Tom Welling and engaging in a discussion is normal. However crossing the line is when you decide to discuss the topic but you have to throw in insults instead of just saying why you disagree. Stabbing you in the back would be to act like you are engaging in the conversation, only to all the sudden throw a needless jab in there.


I THINK YOU JUST IRRITATE HER AND YOU DO THAT TO ALOT OF PEOPEL HERE, JUST LIKE YOU RECENT PICTURE POSTING OF BRANDON ROUTH ON THE TOM WELLING SHOULD HAVE BEEN SUPERMAN THREAD. YOU LIKE TO ANTAGONIZE PEOPEL, AND WEHN YOU GET PUSHED BACK, YOU CRY WOLF. LOOK jCdC OWN P AND BE A MAN AND THER EIS NO NEED FOR A FEUD. I GUESS YOU NEVER FELT THE WRATH OF A WOMAN LOL :p
 
JcDc said:
No. Having an opposing viewpoint of an actor such as Tom Welling and engaging in a discussion is normal. However crossing the line is when you decide to discuss the topic but you have to throw in insults instead of just saying why you disagree. Stabbing you in the back would be to act like you are engaging in the conversation, only to all the sudden throw a needless jab in there.
Jc, just admit you're not always an angel. I'm sure as hell not. Pat isn't. But Pat (and for that matter myself) will say it flat out, to your face. A personal insult is infinitely preferable to someone who minces and twists their words to insult you in a backhanded way, and then denies it later.

I'd take someone calling me a moron any day of the week over some of the things you've done on occasion. And in my estimation it's the constant denial of wrongdoing, rather than the act itself, that annoys the most people.
 
mehzeb said:
boy... u guys are really pissed at him arent you? :(

i think they have some issues :eek: look through the posts, he didn't do anything wrong. they are jumping on him like women at a shoe sale :eek:
 
mehzeb said:
boy... u guys are really pissed at him arent you? :(
No, I'm not pissed at him. I'm just pissed in general with the way certain people are treated around here, and with the hypocritical double standards.
 
jas01724 said:
No, I'm not pissed at him. I'm just pissed in general with the way certain people are treated around here, and with the hypocritical double standards.

i think there is a mob mentality in here :eek:
 
mehzeb, probably best we stay out of it since we know nothing about what happened and the smallville fans are going to automatically side against jc and the movie fans will side with him. me? i side with the eek smiley! :eek:

:up:

:eek:
 
jas01724 said:
Jc, just admit you're not always an angel. I'm sure as hell not. Pat isn't. But Pat (and for that matter myself) will say it flat out, to your face. A personal insult is infinitely preferable to someone who minces and twists their words to insult you in a backhanded way, and then denies it later.

I'd take someone calling me a moron any day of the week over some of the things you've done on occasion. And in my estimation it's the constant denial of wrongdoing, rather than the act itself, that annoys the most people.


Never said I'm an angel. I do think I have a right to post an opinion that differs from the general consensus of the board though. Have you noticed how I can post about ANYTHING on here and if it's a different opinion from you, pat, serene, etc... it's like a crime has been commited? Sometimes I feel you guys are being pretty unfair with me. I come to discuss things from another POV at times and instead of enjoying the discussion you guys get out of hand and resort to insults. Btw you want a hypocrite, check out Thunder Emperor. He's nuttier than I've ever been :p
 
EEK said:
mehzeb, probably best we stay out of it since we know nothing about what happened and the smallville fans are going to automatically side against jc and the movie fans will side with him. me? i side with the eek smiley! :eek:

:up:

:eek:

cant argue with that :up:
 
JcDc said:
Never said I'm an angel. I do think I have a right to post an opinion that differs from the general consensus of the board though. Have you noticed how I can post about ANYTHING on here and if it's a different opinion from you, pat, serene, etc... it's like a crime has been commited? Sometimes I feel you guys are being pretty unfair with me. I come to discuss things from another POV at times and instead of enjoying the discussion you guys get out of hand and resort to insults. Btw you want a hypocrite, check out Thunder Emperor. He's nuttier than I've ever been
See now, that's the denial of wrongdoing again. You make it sound like everyone is treating you unfairly and you've never done anything to warrant it.

You do not just come in with a difference of opinion. More often that not you come in with some kind of *****y, backhanded statement under the guise of an innocent difference of opinion.

Spot the difference; the first is a difference of opinion, the second is a pain in the behind looking to pee people off:

1) I don't think Tom Welling looks the part because his facial structure is wrong.
2) I don't think Tom Welling looks the part because his nostrils are huge and his face looks like a donkey.

They're essentially saying the same thing, right? Only the first is polite and tactful. It's easy to say that you just want a nice discussion, but which of those two statements is closer to your own, nine times out of ten? It's no surprise that people go for the jugular whenever you say something.

There's a little phrase that goes something like this: "It's not what you said. It's how you said it."
 
jas01724 said:
See now, that's the denial of wrongdoing again. You make it sound like everyone is treating you unfairly and you've never done anything to warrant it.

You do not just come in with a difference of opinion. More often that not you come in with some kind of *****y, backhanded statement under the guise of an innocent difference of opinion.

Spot the difference; the first is a difference of opinion, the second is a pain in the behind looking to pee people off:

1) I don't think Tom Welling looks the part because his facial structure is wrong.
2) I don't think Tom Welling looks the part because his nostrils are huge and his face looks like a donkey.

They're essentially saying the same thing, right? Only the first is polite and tactful. It's easy to say that you just want a nice discussion, but which of those two statements is closer to your own, nine times out of ten? It's no surprise that people go for the jugular whenever you say something.

There's a little phrase that goes something like this: "It's not what you said. It's how you said it."


You may have a point there, but it seems like some people have seperated from being a Superman fan to being just a Tom Welling fan. With that being the case it doesn't matter how you say anything I guess :o
 
jas01724 said:
I guess it's the difference between being stabbed in the front and in the back.
:up: :up: :up:
To quote Dr Phil(sorry) Trying to argue with passive-agressive people is like trying to nail Jello to the wall. Jc you push buttons till people react and then hold yourself superior for the behavior you caused.
 
JcDc said:
Never said I'm an angel. I do think I have a right to post an opinion that differs from the general consensus of the board though. Have you noticed how I can post about ANYTHING on here and if it's a different opinion from you, pat, serene, etc... it's like a crime has been commited? Sometimes I feel you guys are being pretty unfair with me. I come to discuss things from another POV at times and instead of enjoying the discussion you guys get out of hand and resort to insults. Btw you want a hypocrite, check out Thunder Emperor. He's nuttier than I've ever been :p



you got jokes. i think i will call you number one hypocrite as from now on. casue you are the worst. at least everyone knows where i am coming from. in your case you dance teh wire like a bad politican who wants favors form both sides but doesn't have teh slightest clue in pleasing both. :rolleyes: :p
 
AgentPat said:
Indeed, Bruce! I know the feeling...

unsafe7.jpg

Thanks for the picture, Pat ! Couldn't find it anywhere. Really loved the look on his eyes and the effect. Though I think there's another shot in which he looks more evil-like doesn't he ?
 
jas01724 said:
Especially when Pat has never caused any particular problems when compared to those instances you mention.

The comments about Tom have been far, far worse than "He needs a nose job" or "his teeth are yellow." But you've never linked any of those posts in order to cause trouble in the way you did Pat's. I really don't know what to say to that. I get that people can have bad days, really I do, but you always seem to pick on the same small group of people.

That shouldn't matter. I didn't think you were the biggest Routh fan, either, but you're still over on BT feeding Pat to the wolves. I'm sure there's some Welling bashing over on BT that you could link to and give us some of that good old "turnabout".

You've been around SHH! for years, so you must be aware that the Welling bashing over the years has far exceeded (in both viciousness and frequency) anything that has been said about Routh? You've even parcipated in some of it yourself.

It's this kind of thing that has caused many of the Smallville/Welling fans to stop posting on the Supes forum and, to a lesser extent, BT. There's bashing of Tom over there to this day, but if someone goes over there to be negative about Routh they're picked off like a fly. And then when they comment on that, they're told they're imagining it. Nobody's imagining anything, and now there's indisputable evidence to prove it.


Ok you seen what I done, I acknowledge wholeheartly. In the instance of the anti-Welling posts prior my modship, my unpleasant avatar and that BT post. In fact I have taken my account out at BT, having it reset and retired as a token of promise it won’t happen there – I can pm still at most but I don’t plan to post. If I didn’t mention anything I probably forgot – unintentional. Most times other people would not even think about doing anything like this. Keep mind of this when you read through whole post, I am not painting me or anyone else innocent.

So there you have it.

“Far worse”…

You are right about one thing Welling does get more flack than Routh. Let’s paint more of the picture shall we?

The height of the "Welling Wars" was around Late 2003- Late-August. But the problem is most of the other mods, (ie; Superman) were never promoted during this influx. To have equal consideration during such a period when Superman / C. Lee (who frequent moreso than the ones in the past) were never moderators would be nearly impossible for ALL those months.

Post of Routh and when Superman (mod) took over few anti-Welling gloating threads did not last very long. To consider all that is done in the past is ridiculous – impossible. Having to surf through all that pile of garbage to hold people accountable would be not fun.

It was a vicious cycle, hardly anyone was innocent. A pushed B AND B pushed A. Vicious cycle like I said.

Without naming names, certain people never went to extremes, but the quantity of propaganda in there from a year ago was mind boggling. I still have residual information from that. Like the 75% from the MSNBC poll, the whole public wanting him more angle and thus should be accounted for and how he looks like Reeve. I still remember Mirko getting bashed for not putting Welling in the front page poll, a bloody ****ing poll. To have a different choice for Superman walking down the Superman forum, was like dressing up in a clown suit and walking down Hell’s Kitchen with sign “I have money” slapped on the back.

Welling fans were invading other threads of people (Henry Cavill) who were making a push for and selling the "Welling Word". I still remember those homoerotic Bomer and Dean Cain pictures. I still remember the spinning. The consistency of these "invasions" was what provoked the likes of JcDc to arise. It was hard to spot to these “invasions” and it was an ingenius tactic, almost like an online version of guerrilla warefare. You can post your “information” in a thread and most people wouldn’t realize given the deceiving title. Some attempted this tactic but the success ratio and burning down threads is no where near the Welling stuff; they tried but you guys mastered this tactic. The numbers simply outweighed this - especially in support.

I have been here for 3 years approximately. It would be the first time I EVER at the hype, seen anything that borderline an online cult of that size of an organization. I seen massive support - I was at the Batman forums (I am a Batman fan first), Bale had real support. But the organization and means of getting support, it will NEVER top the stuff I saw at Superman and Tom Welling. I have asked others who were here much longer and they can attest to this fact. I don’t think it will ever topped (hopefully).

I still remember the one thread that seemed to cross borders between anyone was that one lone “I am making a teaser trailer thread”. That was one of the brighter spots to me that I remember, where everyone got along. It ended up getting spawned into a site, hell a Welling fan was accredited for coming up with the name.

A thread like “Tom Welling Should have been Superman” takes the cake for me. You know how hard I biting my tongue not to offer rationales to get closed down behind your backs? It sets up extremely poor precedence. If a thread like this continue on even when the casting issue was addressed already, it deserves flack, it is to me no different from a "Tom Welling is NOT Superman". Criticism and scrutiny must be expected with a thread like that. I was hoping with "that post" in BT, some fanboys would come in and defend but I guess were too cowardly to face the music and bashed Pat from there.

What actually split the group, was the choice of Routh, not because of poor Welling getting bashed only. Pro-Routh went to BT, Wellingites went to Smallville in this thread primarily and the mixed people + some Pro-Routh people (ie; JcDc) stayed behind. When Superman arrived and more order was instilled, that was when I notice a mass decline in the Welling’s pseudo organization – that and the fact Singer wanted an unknown and made it known. That was how I saw the entire thing. I am not saying us non-Welling people are innocent – hardly (I even admit my wrongdoings and others), but if you tell me poor Welling supporters got bashed far worse and are less guilty. That biggest load of bull and you know it. Look at the whole for once, the amount of people from various camps alienated from the Welling push was what created sum or massive support for Routh. Is it any surprising a lot of the supporters for Routh came from Cavill/Bomer/Caviezel etc... supporters? That is WHY Routh seems to have less flack, because of this build-up for over a year or so.

Please don’t think I am generalizing this group. I know some of you did not participate in those little activities. Some of you I have respect greatly, despite the different preference. In fact one of you guys – I nominated and made a push for modship in two forums (I think you know who you are). This position remains unchanged.

You can rip apart my little reply, break it down, anal-yze it to death. Save yourself the time and trouble and please just don't - I do not want stir up old crap. My point is, if I can acknowledge my wrongdoings, how about the others do the same regarding those days of Welling propaganda (edit; BOTH AGAINST AND FOR) and we stop pointing fingers? Is it possible to move on now - that Welling will never be Superman in a movie? Sure there are others who won’t do it (same people who caused you folks some grief) but do you want sink to that? I am over with pointing fingers now - after that BT incident. I needed this release.
 
:up: that about wraps it up :up:
*closes eyes... one minute of silence for Paradoxium out of sheer respect*
 
BRisSuperman said:
I acknowledge my wrong doings

M

muscles? Is that you?

You might get banned again if you're not careful...
 
check out the superman forums for my paragraph on routh and what I feel is a turn for the best out of me.
 
Muscles? dammit, I poured out my entire beer for you thinking you were gone, you s.o.b.
 
BRisSuperman said:
check out the superman forums for my paragraph on routh and what I feel is a turn for the best out of me.

I don't go to the SR forums anymore, so I guess I'll have to forgo reading your missive. I'm sure I'll hear about it, however, the next time you're banned.

Muscles, will you ever learn?

:triplet gives muscles an affectionately indulgent smile and ruffles his hair:

Our comic relief is back... ;) :D
 
Paradoxium said:
Ok you seen what I done, I acknowledge wholeheartly. In the instance of the anti-Welling posts prior my modship, my unpleasant avatar and that BT post. In fact I have taken my account out at BT, having it reset and retired as a token of promise it won’t happen there – I can pm still at most but I don’t plan to post. If I didn’t mention anything I probably forgot – unintentional. Most times other people would not even think about doing anything like this. Keep mind of this when you read through whole post, I am not painting me or anyone else innocent.

So there you have it.

“Far worse”…

You are right about one thing Welling does get more flack than Routh. Let’s paint more of the picture shall we?

The height of the "Welling Wars" was around Late 2003- Late-August. But the problem is most of the other mods, (ie; Superman) were never promoted during this influx. To have equal consideration during such a period when Superman / C. Lee (who frequent moreso than the ones in the past) were never moderators would be nearly impossible for ALL those months.

Post of Routh and when Superman (mod) took over few anti-Welling gloating threads did not last very long. To consider all that is done in the past is ridiculous – impossible. Having to surf through all that pile of garbage to hold people accountable would be not fun.

It was a vicious cycle, hardly anyone was innocent. A pushed B AND B pushed A. Vicious cycle like I said.

Without naming names, certain people never went to extremes, but the quantity of propaganda in there from a year ago was mind boggling. I still have residual information from that. Like the 75% from the MSNBC poll, the whole public wanting him more angle and thus should be accounted for and how he looks like Reeve. I still remember Mirko getting bashed for not putting Welling in the front page poll, a bloody ****ing poll. To have a different choice for Superman walking down the Superman forum, was like dressing up in a clown suit and walking down Hell’s Kitchen with sign “I have money” slapped on the back.

Welling fans were invading other threads of people (Henry Cavill) who were making a push for and selling the "Welling Word". I still remember those homoerotic Bomer and Dean Cain pictures. I still remember the spinning. The consistency of these "invasions" was what provoked the likes of JcDc to arise. It was hard to spot to these “invasions” and it was an ingenius tactic, almost like an online version of guerrilla warefare. You can post your “information” in a thread and most people wouldn’t realize given the deceiving title. Some attempted this tactic but the success ratio and burning down threads is no where near the Welling stuff; they tried but you guys mastered this tactic. The numbers simply outweighed this - especially in support.

I have been here for 3 years approximately. It would be the first time I EVER at the hype, seen anything that borderline an online cult of that size of an organization. I seen massive support - I was at the Batman forums (I am a Batman fan first), Bale had real support. But the organization and means of getting support, it will NEVER top the stuff I saw at Superman and Tom Welling. I have asked others who were here much longer and they can attest to this fact. I don’t think it will ever topped (hopefully).

I still remember the one thread that seemed to cross borders between anyone was that one lone “I am making a teaser trailer thread”. That was one of the brighter spots to me that I remember, where everyone got along. It ended up getting spawned into a site, hell a Welling fan was accredited for coming up with the name.

A thread like “Tom Welling Should have been Superman” takes the cake for me. You know how hard I biting my tongue not to offer rationales to get closed down behind your backs? It sets up extremely poor precedence. If a thread like this continue on even when the casting issue was addressed already, it deserves flack, it is to me no different from a "Tom Welling is NOT Superman". Criticism and scrutiny must be expected with a thread like that. I was hoping with "that post" in BT, some fanboys would come in and defend but I guess were too cowardly to face the music and bashed Pat from there.

What actually split the group, was the choice of Routh, not because of poor Welling getting bashed only. Pro-Routh went to BT, Wellingites went to Smallville in this thread primarily and the mixed people + some Pro-Routh people (ie; JcDc) stayed behind. When Superman arrived and more order was instilled, that was when I notice a mass decline in the Welling’s pseudo organization – that and the fact Singer wanted an unknown and made it known. That was how I saw the entire thing. I am not saying us non-Welling people are innocent – hardly (I even admit my wrongdoings and others), but if you tell me poor Welling supporters got bashed far worse and are less guilty. That biggest load of bull and you know it. Look at the whole for once, the amount of people from various camps alienated from the Welling push was what created sum or massive support for Routh. Is it any surprising a lot of the supporters for Routh came from Cavill/Bomer/Caviezel etc... supporters? That is WHY Routh seems to have less flack, because of this build-up for over a year or so.

Please don’t think I am generalizing this group. I know some of you did not participate in those little activities. Some of you I have respect greatly, despite the different preference. In fact one of you guys – I nominated and made a push for modship in two forums (I think you know who you are). This position remains unchanged.

You can rip apart my little reply, break it down, anal-yze it to death. Save yourself the time and trouble and please just don't - I do not want stir up old crap. My point is, if I can acknowledge my wrongdoings, how about the others do the same regarding those days of Welling propaganda (edit; BOTH AGAINST AND FOR) and we stop pointing fingers? Is it possible to move on now - that Welling will never be Superman in a movie? Sure there are others who won’t do it (same people who caused you folks some grief) but do you want sink to that? I am over with pointing fingers now - after that BT incident. I needed this release.



That sums it up perfectly. I guess there is a certain amount of hostility that lingers from time to time on subjects regarding Welling/Routh after all the mele. Of course the new people on here don't have an idea of this history and they end up missing the point of what's actually going on. Bah.
 
FWIW, I wish everyone who has issues with SV or TW would just go away. Go post your hearts out elsewhere, and leave this ONE place alone. You want to come here to discuss the show, great.. you want to come to stir the pot and let us all know how delusional we are.. bite me. Try reading a few posts to know what threads are *really* about.

I'm done with all of it. GTFU.

On to show discussions and drooling. And not necessarily in that order.

<ahem>
AgentPat said:

Sometimes a little RedK Clark is just what the doctor ordered. :D
 
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