Okay.. since trip and I have been talking about this in IMs and I'm too lazy to try and regroup my thoughts and type them out again, I'll just repost a transcript of sorts here - with trip's permission, of course.
But first I want to say that this is just MHO! I understand that we all see things from different perspectives. So..while I'm okay with some discussion about it, I'm really not interested in arguing with anyone about things. Wuss? Probably.. or just weary and disinclined to be in defense mode - whether it's about my show in general, Tom, or Lana...
rene: I dunno.. I've given up thinking that the writers will have Lana make sense. It's funny.. but I see people who hate Lana *****ing about how Al and Miles "worship" her.. but the Lana fans all say that Al and Miles must hate her because of how ****ed up they've made her character.. all they do is torture her. I'm just trying to take it all in stride... Unless they start with Chlark.. in which case, I don't know what I'd do.
triplet: But they torture clark relentlessly, you can't have drama without pain for the characters... the stakes have to be heightened for them. I think Lexana is a good thing for her character in the long run. It's forced her to choose between Clark and Lex and her choice of Lex will have a lot of consequences for her in the sixth season... It'll make for great tv.
rene: But in making her choose Lex, they've set her up against Clark - which is unforgivable in the eyes of most fans. That's what's so annoying.. her "choice" of Lex in light of Clark pushing her away and continuing to refuse to share with her (even though she's in more danger now than ever) makes sense to me. Why wouldn't she choose Lex.. Clark doesn't want her anymore - or so he
very clearly told her. Lex tells her the truth - or so she thinks. But still, her choice makes her the bad guy.. It breaks my heart - so many people already hated her, now it's even worse.
triplet: I don't hate Lana, I can even understand why she snapped at Clark in Vessel the way she did.. he's not explaining himself and lying and that translates to not being worthy of her love to her...
rene: I think it's just years of frustration finally bubbling over. She's had it with him.. and then she overhears him saying he's going to MURDER someone.. and he
still refuses to explain to her. The world was about to ****ing END.. and still he just looks at her when she practically begs him to tell her what's going on. She has a right to ask after all this time. From the beginning of the season until Hypnotic, she was giving him space and not pushing him on sharing his secrets.. she even said she was willing to wait
as long as it takes in Hypnotic.. But then he kicks her in the teeth! So, I totally get her anger and frustration.. and even her saying that she "doesn't know how she could have ever loved him.." She doesn't know who he is anymore.. he says he's going to kill someone.. but won't explain..
triplet: Exactly... I would probably have felt the same way in her shoes. He KNEW that Lex would be changed and how and yet wouldn't explain how he knew... He could have said something that wouldn't have revealed his secret, anything, and yet he didn't... he's seen the results of her knowing in Reckoning so I can understand his hesitation, yet he still didn't see how much worse things are for her not knowing than they were when she did know...
triplet: His lies have gotten to be too much and I don't blame her at all for being done dealing with it.
rene: I just dont know what people expect? For her to just drop it? She did.. for a long time, but he still broke up with her because the secret is too big to try and ignore in a relationship. So dropping it didn't work.. and asking about it doesn't work..Again, I don't know what people expect of her. I think Clark was wrong in his not saying anything to her, and she was overboard in what she said to him.. but I can see why both are doing what they are doing.
triplet: Yeah.. me too...
Adding:
I'm frustrated not just about Lana.. but also about Clark. His reasoning of not telling Lana because it puts her in danger just doesn't hold water anymore. She's in more danger now than ever now (c'mon..she's with ZOD). I think it just makes him look bad now, and I don't like thinking that he looks bad. He too smart for that.. or he should be. I want him to tell her the truth even more than I want them to be a couple anymore.