I came across good and bad on this site. And the events and such have made lasting effects in both social interaction and reflections of myself.
I
have had problems with letting things go. Like in school, if someone said something to me insulting at first I would fight them. Then I started relying on martial arts and wrestling lessons to control my temper and would just be annoyed, no desire to entertain a response.
Some people, here, push buttons just for the sake of it. I mean, it's the internet, so they feel safe that no one will bring them physical harm. And you can't argue back because a lot of "misunderstandings" can happen. So one can become very patient when dealing with people here, and it makes you so much more resilient to immature people in the real world.
Those that wish to actually have a good time and be playful or friendly, have attributed to having an escape or sense of home. Break-ups, monetary issues, depression and life issues, etc...Can bring one down or make murky their sense of place. But having a familiar place to go can allow you to "sit out" from life for a while, while you get better.
I had an accident a year ago. I had a lot of medical and other issues, but coming online and talking with people gave me something to do while getting better. Of course the downside is that many people here think that I'm a bit
touched in the head. But, hey, that's life.
So with good and bad, there is a sense of place. And while I'm not looking to make friends, I can still form connections with this place as well as some of the people.