Ha, ha... okay I get your drift. Re: the bolded part, let us all understand that it was only "changing the very nature of the character" PER THE COMICS.
Um...yeah...the comics...the medium in which the character
debuted...and is most widely known for. Add up every Hulk appearance
outside of the comics and it adds up to quite the minority compared to the 46 years of Hulk
comics.
Or your perception of the Hulk, per the comics.
MY
perception is that the Hulk wouldn't strangle Betty.
The
fact is the Hulk
has never strangled Betty anywhere else than in Ang Lee's movie.
And I would probably go on to say that they didn't change his nature at all.
And, hey, that's cool. And I wouldn't, that's all.
Bruce still willingly released his grip from Betty's neck.
Great. He shoudn't have had his hands around her neck in the first place.
No, I think confused would be, "Why are soldiers attacking Hulk?" The Hulk just wants to be left alone...he's minding his own business and gets a tank shell in the back of the head. That's the "WTF?" to the Hulk.
"Accidentally" choking your girlfriend isn't confusion.
If you're going to say Ang & Co. changed his nature, then I think you've some obligation to prove that they really changed the Hulk's bent or inclination toward being confused... which is a part of the Hulk, is it not?
Again, the Hulk is confused as to why he gets attacked unprovoked...not "Oh, my bad! I thought I was choking a 'Hulk-Dog' not the love of my life. Whoopsie!"
The Hulk goes on being misunderstood - which is probably more the thing that you didn't like
I don't mind the Hulk being misunderstood; it's a great dramatic element in his
comic. People look at the Hulk, assume he's going to harm them (based on his looks or what they've heard), flee from him, and the army attacks; he's misunderstood. In trying to take his cousin to the hospital for a bursting appendix, he's viewed by his peers as trying to abduct an innocent woman. THAT'S being misunderstood. Seeing the hero of a tale choke the heroine is not misunderstanding or confusion. It's just plain bad.
If you liked the scene or think it was the most true to the Hulk, that's fine. I'm not on a crusade to change everyone's mind. I just disagree, that's all.