I liked Uncanny X-men 600. Structurally it was pretty messy and Bendis is kind of awful with resolutions to his plots, though. Iceman coming out was handled decently and wasn't worth the controversy at all. At the end of the day we have an entrenched gay A-list X-man that won't go away like Northstar does (also Northstar just sucks). I'll always remember Bendis' run fondly for elevating Magik to her current status, bringing Jean back with a hell of a lot of agency, and giving Cyclops some introspective stories.
I like the new stuff as much as I can I guess. I don't like that the X-men are once again fighting for survival, especially because this time it doesn't have the gravity like it did during the post-M-Day stuff (and Messiah Complex and Second Coming were great events that came out as I started reading comics regularly). That being said, I love the core team on Extraordinary and their new looks are pretty cool. The team dynamic is great.
All-New X-men is way better than I thought it would be. I love the idea of Cyclops fighting the ghosts of Cyclops. And I'm glad Evan and Idie are regulars on a book. It's really weird going from 600 where Cyclops united mutants on a march in Washington to him being the most hated man ever apparently.
I have no interest in reading Inhumans under Marvel's current attempt to push them at the cost of the X-men.