Advice and Relationships Again: A Hypester's Tale

[Dreadstar]

Because for some strange reason, I became attracted to her. I understand the age thing and why things will not work out, but the heart wants what the heart wants. SO if this is not possible, I would like to sleep with her. We were close friends, now it seems we are drifting. She use to confide in me and she tells me things no one else in our little group knows.

 

[Boy Scout]

Weren't you going on about how much you liked that other girl just last week? You were practically crying your eyes out.

 

[The Guard]

You don't need to tell them you've been seeing other girls, anyone doing online dating is probably doing the same thing. My fiancee and I joke about who we were dating during our initial dates now, but when we got to the stage where we wanted to be exclusive, we just asked each other if there was anyone else. Both of us said no and that we had already turned off our profiles.

Eh...its probably a good idea to be up front about the whole "Not exclusive" thing.

 

[Dreadstar]

Look, I dont want to be alone, so I want to be in a relationship. Now I am in one, I am happy. But I dont like the entire "I am selling my house and moving" thing, so I keep my options open. If she were to say, I am selling my house and lets move in together, then comic chick would be gone!

I have feelings for both woman and this has never happened before. So I dont know what the hell to do! Thats what started all of this.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

I can't take the crazy anymore. Dreadstar, you are about to become the first person to ever go on my ignore list.

Man I wish everyone else would do the same, so we could all move on with our lives! This madness HAS TO STOP PEOPLE!

 

[Boy Scout]

Do you not realize how messed up, selfish, and downright scummy you sound? You're talking about cheating on your girlfriend because you're afraid she'll leave you like it's no big deal. On top of that, you claim you have feelings for both women, but in the same post you said you'd drop the other girl in a heartbeat if your girlfriend moved in with you.

 

[Dreadstar]

Yep, you want the truth, thats the truth.

I am kinda like Hawkeye in the new issue of Avengers #29. If these woman could read my mind, none of them would go out with me. Like Spider-woman says of Hawkeye!

http://www.comicbookresources.com/?page=preview&id=13238

 

[Boy Scout]

There's no two ways about it: you're an *******. Not just any *******, but a pathetic *******.

 

[Dark Raven]

I can't take the crazy anymore. Dreadstar, you are about to become the first person to ever go on my ignore list.

Man I wish everyone else would do the same, so we could all move on with our lives! This madness HAS TO STOP PEOPLE!

Done! Added to the growing list.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Done! Added to the growing list.

Woop!

 

[steintym]

Comic chick is not texting me everyday like she use to. Now I have to text her and these text sections do not go on for hours like they use to, I am not liking this at all!!!! I need her attention!!!!! She went for over 2 weeks and she did not text me and we have not gotten together either! Its driving me nuts! Will have to see what happens this wednesday at our weekly nerds get together. I get to drive her home, but I NEED to sit beside her and chat her up, just like I use to!!!

What a creepy post ...


I have a bad feeling some poor girl is going to wind up trapped in someone's basement Silence of the Lambs style.

 

[Dreadstar]

You guys just have no clue!

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

Comic chick is not texting me everyday like she use to. Now I have to text her and these text sections do not go on for hours like they use to, I am not liking this at all!!!! I need her attention!!!!! She went for over 2 weeks and she did not text me and we have not gotten together either! Its driving me nuts! Will have to see what happens this wednesday at our weekly nerds get together. I get to drive her home, but I NEED to sit beside her and chat her up, just like I use to!!!

No, those were not her exact words, she mentioned that its been over a year since she got laid.

Just what I told you.

She just wants attention and she'll casually move on once you bore her or creep her out enough. Which may have both occured by this point.

Like I've tried to explain your 'relationship' with her is interchangible. You lack any honesty or emotional connection, so it's no friendship. You were just her free attention tree.

The current bout of one-itis you're displaying is exactly what I'd expect. B****es act that way after all.

The fact you 'need' her and 'need' to give her "a good d***ing" is just proof of what I said before: she's the one in control.

 

[Dreadstar]

I will let the universe decide if I will have her or not. It has never steered me wrong in the past.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

No dude, we have a clue. You have a history of being a borderline molester / rapist, you constantly talk about these girls in disgusting terms, you are plotting and schemeing on ways to trick them into letting you in their pants, talk a big game about how smooth you are and how much they want it, but then tell stories about how they break up with you and stop texting them and how you -need- them.

You are a creeper, and at this point, pretty scuzzy dude. You claim you're in your 50's, and you're trying to start relationships with girls more than half your age. You are attempting to build these relationships on deception and manipulation. Every story you tell is one of trying to decieve these girls and take advantage of a weakened mental state, because the only thing that matters is not these girls as people, but rather giving them a "good dicking". I used to just want to make fun of you for your creepy wardrobe choices, but now I know that you are just a predator and I feel sorry for these young women in your stories and hope for their sake they get (and stay) away from you as soon as possible.

 

[Kane52630]

Comic chick is not texting me everyday like she use to. Now I have to text her and these text sections do not go on for hours like they use to, I am not liking this at all!!!! I need her attention!!!!! She went for over 2 weeks and she did not text me and we have not gotten together either! Its driving me nuts! Will have to see what happens this wednesday at our weekly nerds get together. I get to drive her home, but I NEED to sit beside her and chat her up, just like I use to!!!

No, those were not her exact words, she mentioned that its been over a year since she got laid.

 

[Dreadstar]

And the bars and night clubs are full of these "predators" as you claim, yet women flock to these places to get picked up. SO why get all uppity?
Its not predator, its being a real man and getting some! That is all! And I have been getting some all summer long!

 

[Erzengel]

I will let the universe decide if I will have her or not. It has never steered me wrong in the past.

You mean your past relationships that never really lasted past a year?

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

I will let the universe decide if I will have her or not. It has never steered me wrong in the past.

See, here's the thing, you and her see each other in a structured gathering. So it's not as if she can completely avoid you.

I can be "real" as they say, but the annoying people I work with I just placate. I make them feel like they know me personally so the boat isn't rocked.

There's a lady who flirts with me at work. I allow it. It's not going anywhere but I allow it.

Partly because it is a nice ego trip.

I get nice daily affirmations I look good. I'm so this, I'm so that. Why would I want that to stop?

You were that in reverse.

People like that form of attention. It makes them feel powerful.

Slick, cool, suave people don't give a sh**.

 

[Dreadstar]

You mean your past relationships that never really lasted past a year?

Thats correct. 1 year max. Actually 13 months. How did you know?

 

[Coca Cola Duracell Franklin.]

Dreadstar is a true legend.

 

[Erzengel]

Thats correct. 1 year max. Actually 13 months. How did you know?

a) If this is how you act with women since puberty? It's not surprising. Actually surprising that it made it to a year.

b) You mentioned it previously.

What I find funny though is throughout this saga with both girls, people would give advice and it was always, "You are so right." "Great point."

Now that people are telling you things you don't want to hear its, "You people have no clue." "We don't know what we are talking about."

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

And the bars and night clubs are full of these "predators" as you claim, yet women flock to these places to get picked up. SO why get all uppity?
Its not predator, its being a real man and getting some! That is all! And I have been getting some all summer long!

Usually at bars and clubs you don't hook up with randos. You usually hook up with people you know or have known (or went there with). Whenever I go out it's usually know who I'm going to see.

The whole notion of these 'playas' who go out and 'slay tail'...most of those guys don't get laid NEARLY as much as they claim. They're usually the worst.

Clubs posit themselves as hedonist pleasure palaces because it tricks people like you into spending all your monies on women there.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

One of these days someone is going to come along in need of actual relationship advice, and no one's going to notice because we're all too busy allowing a twisted old pervert to be the centre of attention.

 

[Dreadstar]

Why would I not give a hoot? Its not like I interact with 23 year olds. This is it! People my age do not meet 20 something females and if we do, they want nothing to do with people my age because of the age, unless your loaded with $$$, thats a different story. Thats similar to a prostitute.