I know some people were annoyed that Peter didn't [SIZE=-1]clairvoyantly KNOW that Tony and Reed were going to turn into evil jerks who would go ridiculously overboard in enforcing the SHRA... and now they [/SIZE]are just so focused on and thrilled that Peter finally stood up to Tony, that they are missing the fact that Peter is NOW being STUPID.
Less than bright moves:
He KNOWS Tony is suspicious of him. He KNOWS how HIGH the stakes are. He KNOWS Tony listens. But he announced to May and MJ that he's switching sides, IMMEDIATLY triggering a reaction (big surprize) from Tony.
He KNOWS that since he revealed his identity to the world, May and MJ are not safe beyond the walls of the mansion (and may-be not even there). And I think it is safe to assume that Tony is not going to hurt them. But Peter's great plan is "get out now." And go WHERE, exactly?
So... instead of feigning approval to put Tony at easy, while he PLANS on how to contact the resistance, who might also have some idea of how to keep May and MJ safe AWAY from Tony... he tips his hand, leaves May and MJ vulnerable, while he goes out to fight Tony in a suit that Tony designed.
There was not an immediate threat. Him and his family did not HAVE to run for their lives... until NOW.
I'm not against Peter switching sides and working with Cap - although I'm not sure the way they are going about "resisting" makes much sense - but, has he totally LOST his mind?!