personally I think the "forced" thing is a bit overblown
Nobody makes a big deal out of the Barry/Iris relationship shoving heterosexuality "down people's throats" or the fact that Lois & Clark had a whole series centered around their romance. Was L&C pushing the "heterosexual agenda"? Why is it a big deal when Sara makes out with Alex but not when Ollie jumps in bed with Helena or Felicity or Laurel or ...? Seriously, Ollie has been with more women than Captain Kirk!
if Batwoman is gay then great! If they play her as bi or straight then also great. If in the process she jumps in the sack with Sara or Alex and people gripe they had also better be expressing their displeasure if she also does the deed with Barry or Diggle or Winn.
Nobody makes a big deal out of the Barry/Iris relationship shoving heterosexuality "down people's throats" or the fact that Lois & Clark had a whole series centered around their romance. Was L&C pushing the "heterosexual agenda"? Why is it a big deal when Sara makes out with Alex but not when Ollie jumps in bed with Helena or Felicity or Laurel or ...? Seriously, Ollie has been with more women than Captain Kirk!
if Batwoman is gay then great! If they play her as bi or straight then also great. If in the process she jumps in the sack with Sara or Alex and people gripe they had also better be expressing their displeasure if she also does the deed with Barry or Diggle or Winn.