Whiskey Tango
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It's hard to wade through the literally hundreds of dumb articles about the obituary, but I think this is it.
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It's hard to wade through the literally hundreds of dumb articles about the obituary, but I think this is it.
A 20+ year marriage is not a court of law. Skylar knew her husband was lying to her, even if she couldn't prove it yet, and she was absolutely right.
Not being able to prove it yet means jack**** when in the end Walt ruined his entire family's life with his lies, his deceit, and his greed. Hell, maybe if Skylar had been more vigilant earlier, she could've stopped it all sooner and minimized the damage. Being a *****y nag early on pales in comparison to what Walt became.
People root for Walt because Bryan Cranston and the writers have created a very interesting character.
There used to be a funny meme floating around that had a picture of Skyler smoking, and it said something like, "gets mad at husband for smoking weed when he has cancer....smokes while I'm pregnant".Plus, her suspecting Walt of something is not a valid excuse to track Jesse down to tell him he can't sell pot to a grown man that bought it all with his own consent. Or to get mad at Walt whenever he wants some time alone. Or to try to hurt Holly by smoking just to get back at Walt.
There used to be a funny meme floating around that had a picture of Skyler smoking, and it said something like, "gets mad at husband for smoking weed when he has cancer....smokes while I'm pregnant".
I always thought that was funny.
Eh. It's 50/50. His intention was always to leave money for his family, he wasn't just going to leave them in the lurch after he checked out. He wasn't doing what he was doing pro bono, so in that way he was doing it for his family. But he was doing it the way he wanted to. He wasn't sticking with a job that paid him too little or taking charity from the Schwartzes. He was doing it his own way, and convinced himself that that could all work out for the best.
No, I didn't miss the finale. I agree that from around the "I'm in the empire business" time, he was in it for himself until Skyler(and his cancer returning) convinced him that it was time to stop. He had a "Remember why you're doing this in the first place?" moment.
I don't believe, despite what Walt said in the finale, that everything he's done since day one was for himself and himself only simply because that's not what we were shown. I think he felt repentant toward Skyler and wanted to apologize and validate her feelings that he's made some selfish decisions, but he obviously didn't want or need to split hairs during what he knew was going to be his last visit with his wife and go, "Everything I did...for the past year, was because I enjoyed what I was doing".
Right...but that's not what married adults do. Her first instincts weren't to go, "Walt...what's going on with you? You need to tell me right now...", it was to "play Walt" and copy his behavior, adding to the dysfunction. That's like if Walt ran over a dog and she went out and ran over one to show him how that feels. That's crazy.
You can't lash out at someone for having, you suspect, a dark secret that you desperately want to find out and then punish them when they try to tell you. That's crazy.
Walt started cooking before Elliot & Gretchen even offered him the money. Plus, they offered him money for his cancer treatment, not for his family. Though he did pay his treatment with some of that money, the main reason he started cooking was to make sure his family had enough money after he was gone.
Also, who exactly did Walt and Jesse drag in their business? Skyler joined by her consent and Walter even hesitated at first for a bit. Jesse never dragged anyone into the drug business (not counting the friends he had already in the business or related to it). In fact, he did the opposite. He was reluctant to tell Jane about what he does. He broke up with Andrea to keep her out and he himself wanted to be out of the business for the entirety of season 5 (which takes place in the span of a year).
Being a bit suspicious of the way he sounded on the phone constitutes her tracing the phone call all the way back to Jesse, finding personal information about him and then confronting him over the weed? It's not like Walt consistently sounded a bit weird on the phone. As far as we know, it was the first time it happened. There is no evidence Walt lied to her before. If anything, everything we've seen suggests that Walt's constant-lying gig only started post-meth cooking. She made it clear she would divorce him because he's a liar.
Her "female intuition" is not an excuse for her being a *****. It takes some level of critical thinking to go out of your way and do what she did based on the little-to-no evidence she had to suspect Walt.
She gave Walt crap for it long before Holly was born. She gave him crap for it since the very start of the show.
If Walt had just told her he needed time alone? He did tell her he needed time alone. Back in Season 1 when he first started his chemotherapy.
She was. She did that and leaving the house for entire days just to get back at Walt's BS "fugue state". The "fugue state" she just knew was and accused Walt of lying about based on no proof whatsoever.
That's why Skyler was so disliked early on. As many other people have said, she lashed out at Walt before she had anything solid to go on.
Doesn't matter. She had no evidence to anything Walt was doing and lashed out at him regardless. With no solid points, her argument is rendered invalid for the same reasons why we don't just throw people in prison without evidence that they committed a crime.
That seems a little harsh. Not like he could just overlook Walt being a drug kingpin, and he gave him ample opportunity to come quietly.
I really don't think I'll ever understand how some people can seemingly hate everyone on the show EXCEPT Walt. I really, really just don't get it. I feel like pointing each and everyone one of them to that article about bad Breaking Bad fans.
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I think that's where we're at here.Vince Gilligan has said in a couple interviews that his intention in writing that scene was that Walt was finally being completely honest about what he was doing and why he was doing it. You can feel differently, of course, because that's the nature of interpreting art.
I'm so glad you wrote that. I've heard and read so many, "What else would you have done?" comments. I'm like, "Not that!"Her passive-aggressiveness bugged me too, especially when she gave him the cold shoulder after the fugue state incident, but it wouldn't've mattered what she did. He was never going to come clean with her because he knew she wasn't going to approve of meth cooking.
I still don't get how her reaction makes sense.You can if you suspect that the deep dark secret your husband is keeping from you is an affair, then it finally clicks with you that it's something much, much worse than that.
Gus ended up being right in Season 3:Eh. It's 50/50. His intention was always to leave money for his family, he wasn't just going to leave them in the lurch after he checked out. He wasn't doing what he was doing pro bono, so in that way he was doing it for his family. But he was doing it the way he wanted to. He wasn't sticking with a job that paid him too little or taking charity from the Schwartzes. He was doing it his own way, and convinced himself that that could all work out for the best.
Started watching this show last week, I'm now on 210 ("Over"). Loving it so far.

I'm at the point where I just find it hard to give Walt any sort of sympathy or rationalization for his actions, especially after him coming clean.
In fact, there's no real reason for him to have been such an underachiever in the first place. The guy was clearly a brilliant chemist, so he sells the shares of his startup company and becomes...a high school chemistry teacher? Not a college professor? Not a pharmaceutical chemist or something like that? It just seems like self-sabotage that he didn't do better for himself even after departing with Grey Matter. These jobs wouldn't have made him a millionaire, no, but jeez at least he wouldnt've have had to moonlight at the car wash and could've at least afforded some decent life insurance so he would've have had to worry about what he'd leave his family behind (btw, my mom is a single mom living off a teacher's salary and even SHE has decent life insurance, so I don't exactly buy that either). I think he just hated the idea of settling for "second place", so he lived his life on autopilot instead.
The guy turned to crime for two reasons: fear and pride. Fear that he'd leave his family with a bunch of medical bills and no inheritance (which again, he had himself to blame for), and the pride that this was his chance to be "the man" and scratch that itch for his enormous latent ego. And once he got over the fear part, he got off on the thrill of it all and actually enjoyed being a criminal, slowly giving up whatever he had left of his soul along the way.
F*** Walt.![]()
