Hulk/Betty
Kong/Anne
I really can't see it as the same thing...
True, it's more than just a stretch to compare Hulk to kong...
To me it;s like when people are comparing Hulk to Shrek...
There's no particular similarities (big green monster ok, then what???) it's just a way most aof the time to express "how much they dislike the movie".
It's easy to go like, "it's stupid big like kong and green like shrek, grrrr, i hate Ang lee, bladi blada....) instead of actually making points of why the size was a problem or not, why the color an issue, etc....
I don't really mind the idea of Hulk growing size, as from an artist to another, he easily cahnge from 9ft + to 15 ft +
But i have to admit that it has to be consistant if done in a 2hours movie....
But then, going to the route of veins, and tense muscles and etc to show the anger, thus exponentianl increase of power might be a more subtle way of showing things.... (who wants the Hulk to be subtle??

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