Gymrats & Stalkers: "I Was Assaulted In A Public Restroom"

[Nivek]

Damn dude, and I thought I had crappy luck.

 

[Twitch]

He wears a uniform. But I will admit that I was also very impressed with how he handled that guy on the phone. I even asked him if he enjoyed that because he was getting into character a bit too much (talking sexy and provocative like). He just looked at me like , rolled his eyes and went off to the kitchen to get himself a Bud-light. Came back and just turned on the TV and told me to get ready to take a ride up the express way. Like it wasn't s***.

Like I said...dude has ice water in his veins.

lol

 

[mrvlknight21]

No, Jason checked for that and there are no cameras anywhere. And it's a good thing too because if there were, they'd pick up some interesting s***. [BLACKOUT]I've noticed that since this whole David mess has been going down, Jason has been really uh....coming out of his "shell" if you know what I mean. He's like a rabbit on f***ing catnip and while the activity is (not to mention a great reliever of stress for both of us) I'm more concerned about what is fueling this new appetite. He acts like he has something to prove to me now. Wouldn't most couples facing our situation have less sex out of paranoia? Personally, I'm so worried/depressed about what's going on that sex is the last thing on my mind. But Jason has this RAWR switch that he turns on at the most weird times...like right after we learn something more terrible about David's stalking activities. I mean, who wants to get busy after learning their name and number was scribbled on a rest stop stall? [/BLACKOUT]

I think this whole experience has made him feel very insecure and my actions at the hotel last week did not help matters. Everything about these two relationships is very fragile right now.

A rabbit on catnip? LOL!

Yeah, I have to agree, I would think the activity would decline a bit...even his involvement with you to an extent. It does sound like Jason is trying to prove himself (?) in some sexual way or something.

 

[redmarvel]

Actually, danger does tend to increase most peoples libidos... a survival trait - spawn so the race can survive.

Why do you think I like to increase the sense of danger my partners are experiencing

 

[Scarlet spidey]

Is there any possibility you can inform whoever collects the payment for your rent that the other owner is going to start paying the rent, and you just move to a different apartment or something?

 

[Honey Vibe]

The thing I am REALLY trying to avoid here is a legal battle with this man. It would get very, very nasty and if he feels antagonized he will bring the battle to my doorstep in an ugly and unexpected way. There is so much on the line financially and I have to tread carefully. If I can just ride out this stupid wave of anger he's surfing right now perhaps he'll leave me alone.

Hate to say it dear but it sounds like the hostile legal situation is already upon you. It is sure to follow his wrath, so you need to prepare for it.

 

[Speedball]

No, Jason checked for that and there are no cameras anywhere. And it's a good thing too because if there were, they'd pick up some interesting s***. [BLACKOUT]I've noticed that since this whole David mess has been going down, Jason has been really uh....coming out of his "shell" if you know what I mean. He's like a rabbit on f***ing catnip and while the activity is (not to mention a great reliever of stress for both of us) I'm more concerned about what is fueling this new appetite. He acts like he has something to prove to me now. Wouldn't most couples facing our situation have less sex out of paranoia? Personally, I'm so worried/depressed about what's going on that sex is the last thing on my mind. But Jason has this RAWR switch that he turns on at the most weird times...like right after we learn something more terrible about David's stalking activities. I mean, who wants to get busy after learning their name and number was scribbled on a rest stop stall? [/BLACKOUT]

I think this whole experience has made him feel very insecure and my actions at the hotel last week did not help matters. Everything about these two relationships is very fragile right now.

Maybe he's trying to help take your mind off of it... or maybe he's trying to show that this **** David is doing isn't making you less attractive to him as a partner and that it's not going to affect what you two have.
But what do I know...

 

[Honey Vibe]

End this relationship now.

Why Darthums? I go to get a bud every time we do it

 

[Hound55]

I think it was the "Bud-Lite" part more than just going to get a beer...

Why you guys even have light beer in the States is beyond me, it already seems light from what I've had of it...

But then, I digress...

 

[Speedball]

I think it was the "Bud-Lite" part more than just going to get a beer...

Why you guys even have light beer in the States is beyond me, it already seems light from what I've had of it...

But then, I digress...

That's probably right, but I don't think Darthphere remembers that they're gay. Us gays go right for the light beer, it's instinct.

 

[Honey Vibe]

Actually, danger does tend to increase most peoples libidos... a survival trait - spawn so the race can survive.

Why do you think I like to increase the sense of danger my partners are experiencing

:dumps Darthphere for redmarvel:

 

[Hound55]

 

[Honey Vibe]

[BLACKOUT]I've noticed that since this whole David mess has been going down, Jason has been really uh....coming out of his "shell" if you know what I mean. He's like a rabbit on f***ing catnip and while the activity is (not to mention a great reliever of stress for both of us) I'm more concerned about what is fueling this new appetite. He acts like he has something to prove to me now. Wouldn't most couples facing our situation have less sex out of paranoia? Personally, I'm so worried/depressed about what's going on that sex is the last thing on my mind. But Jason has this RAWR switch that he turns on at the most weird times...like right after we learn something more terrible about David's stalking activities. I mean, who wants to get busy after learning their name and number was scribbled on a rest stop stall? [/BLACKOUT]

Perhaps he finds all this drama exhilarating, in its way. [blackout]Or maybe there's a pattern to the kind of men you date[/blackout]

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

.....

Well, Dave got his a$$ beat.

And I am sure we are now heading for litigation.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

.....

Well, Dave got his a$$ beat.

And I am sure we are now heading for litigation.

O.O

What happened?

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

O.O

What happened?

*sigh*

The very thing I was hoping would never happen: the two of them finally met and got into a physical altercation. It's been a very exhausting last few days. I'm so f**king tired; I don't even know why I logged on here.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

Oh dear....

Well you know you have our support, and we care about you. That's why you logged on. *hugs*

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Oh dear....

Well you know you have our support, and we care about you. That's why you logged on. *hugs*

I know. Thanks...I really, really needed to hear that. I've gotten a number of instant messages and PMs asking if I was okay because I've been off-line here for a few days. That made me feel guilty so I thought I'd "check in". Not in the mood to type a lot right now but needless to say I really appreciate the concerns.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

Well, we're all one big, happy, nerdy, dysfunctional family. What more could you ask for?

Go make yourself as comfortable as you can and get some rest. I suggest a long hot bubble bath, personally.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

(I'm assuming he still has a key), could he have snuck in that Christmas night when that was going on?

Yes, it's entirely possible I suppose. I shudder to think about it because we certainly would've been too preoccupied to really hear him come in. I doubt it...but at any rate, he does still have a key to the penthouse and that's why on January 1st I moved in with Jason. It's temporary at this point. I've only got some of my stuff but I will go back for more.

We're actually talking about getting a larger apartment together. And get this: it was Jason's idea.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Is there any possibility you can inform whoever collects the payment for your rent that the other owner is going to start paying the rent, and you just move to a different apartment or something?

Well, I can pay the note for the current place and still move somewhere else--that's not the problem. My concerns revolve around Dave coming in there some night and trashing my belongings. As it is, he's already on some Angela Basset/Waiting To Exhale s***.

That's probably right, but I don't think Darthphere remembers that they're gay. Us gays go right for the light beer, it's instinct.

It is? I didn't know that. I do Budweiser straight up; I stay away from the Lite s***. LOL

 

[mrvlknight21]

.....

Well, Dave got his a$$ beat.

And I am sure we are now heading for litigation.

*sigh*

The very thing I was hoping would never happen: the two of them finally met and got into a physical altercation. It's been a very exhausting last few days. I'm so f**king tired; I don't even know why I logged on here.

I was wondering what happened.
Give details when you can.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Hate to say it dear but it sounds like the hostile legal situation is already upon you. It is sure to follow his wrath, so you need to prepare for it.

Yeah, we are expecting the worse, especially after what happened last week. I might as well tell the story although it's so unbelievably f***ing embarrassing.

Thursday I went to the gym to blow off some steam after Jason went to work. It was mid-afternoon. Did my routine and all that jazz. Well, after I was done, I went to go take a shower. What I didn't know is that David's crazy-Jeffrey-Dalmer ass had followed me to my gym and was watching me from the street as I worked out. When I went into the locker room I guess he took it as a cue and came in there after me.

Here is where it got really f***ed up: Jason was casing David and Dave wasn't aware that his ass was being stalked. Apparently Jason saw something the morning he left for work and decided to double back. So by time Dave came into the lockeroom Jason was like his goddamn shadow. He confronted him head on. Now keep in mind that I have soap in my hair/face because I'm handling my business. I hear all of this shouting and stuff and I'm like "WTF"? I thought it was some sort of Columbine situation. So I'm trying to cover up with my towel and everything while at the same time realizing that both of these guys are in the space--which totally took me for a WTF moment. By time I could really see and understand what was happening Dave had got pissed and pushed Jason off. This obviously gave Jason the go-ahead to rough him up, and he brought his ass to the ground with his knee on the back of Dave's neck.

Jason said that he was going to arrest him right then in there (he was in uniform) but I told him not to. That would only antagonize David and I was really hoping that this fight with Jason might put the fear of God in him. It was the first time I've really seen Jase like...get REALLY pissed off. He wasn't as cool as "ice" like normal. Face was red and all that and he was threatening Dave pretty explicitly. He said the uniform and badge would come off and no one would be able to find Dave. LOL And thankfully no one was around to see the majority of what happened. By time this one fat guy walked in to change Jason had his knee on the back of David's neck and it was pretty much over. We don't know if David intended on attacking me in the shower or not. He had no weapons of any kind on him. His hands were empty. And he didn't even get a word to speak to me before Jason was on him. It was crazy...utter craziness.

Now I must say this: Jason is making me feel like a little beeyotch. My ego is so bruised right now. This was the second time that he's basically "rescued" me in a public restroom....and naked/defenseless at that. What are the odds of that s***? And Jason has been ribbing me about it too...calling me Lois Lane Rocking With My C**k Out.



Anyway.

Jase told David that if he saw him around us again he would break his neck and then haul his ass off to jail. Dave told him to piss off. Jason brought him to his feet and told him to "get your punk ass outta here." Dave looked at me like he was crazy. He had like...satan eyes or something. Murder eyes. For the first time in 12 years (as of now) it was like I did not know the man at all. It was so damn sad. But he left though. And as far as we know he is back in Los Angeles now because he had some cases to tend to this week.

After that altercation I must humbly agree that it's really not safe for me where I'm at now. So I've moved in with Jase.

 

[Marx]

I'm glad you're ok man. It sounds like Jason is a great guy to have around.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Yeah he is. Although I would've preferred different circumstances to necessitate us living together, I am appreciative that he's been really supportive. I am surprised everyday that he doesn't just pack his stuff and say, "Yo Dudage...this s*** is crazy as hell--I'm out!"