Gymrats & Stalkers: "I Was Assaulted In A Public Restroom"

[david icke]

I think Jason was just drunk. I've done ridiculous things on a dance floor after drinking a few too many.

Yeah, I agree, and have done crazy stuff myself in clubs after wall flowering and drinking my shyness away.
The thing is, he was not only shy about being in a different kind of club, but about coming to terms with himself, so that was all building up in him, like an arrow being pulled back on a bow.
The more tension goes into that bow, the further the arrow is going to fly when it's released.

edit: I see it as kind of healthy for him, he had all these demons keeping him down, not wanting to be seen dancing by onlookers, and then got so into having a good time he decided to trample all over those things that had been holding him back. Of course with the booze being involved there will be a little comedown off that, but that doesn't mean the fighting spirit is not there naturally, and will come out again without the need for drinking. Hopefully you will both look back at this night as a watershed night and will be laughing about it for a long time to come as a cherished memory. Right now though he'll be coming down from it and be a little worried about public exposure as you say, only natural. When nothing of that nature happens(hopefully), he will most likely be more willing to talk about it and might even be a little proud of himself. Didn't mean to go on about this, probably pointing out the obvious, but had to say.

I have been following the thread, and am very sorry to have read about all the upsetting things that have happened to you LS. I hope it all gets sorted and this is a new beginning for you, all the best.

 

[mrvlknight21]

I think Jason was just drunk. I've done ridiculous things on a dance floor after drinking a few too many.

Agreed.

Ditto.

Yeah, I agree, and have done crazy stuff myself in clubs after wall flowering and drinking my shyness away.
The thing is, he was not only shy about being in a different kind of club, but about coming to terms with himself, so that was all building up in him, like an arrow being pulled back on a bow.
The more tension goes into that bow, the further the arrow is going to fly when it's released.
.

Hurm. I guess I can add that to the reasons I dont drink then. Only God knows what I would act like if I were drunk.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

You learn your limits quickly, then you're good for life

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

LS, I have to ask, did David ever do anything like this/act like this?
Just curious.

You mean as far as acting out in public like Jason? Um, definitely not. David was a lot more reserved. Out of the two of us, our friends always said I was the more wild one.

I think that's why I was so shocked. For the first time I think I may have met my match and it took me by surprise.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

WOW, sounds like Jason was quite a wild-man. However, it also sounds like he had a hell of a fun time. He's a grown man, so if he wants to get drunk and shake it on a bar, that's his choice. It doesn't sound like you egged him on or anything. He's probably stressed over all the drama lately, and just let loose.

I definitely did not egg him on. LOL It's kinda funny, while he was "performing", this one girl came up to me and said "Is your man a stripper for a living? He's good!" And I told her, "I don't think he's a stripper but er uh...I'm definitely learning more about him everyday. Especially today."

I'm not sure if I would force a conversation about the night. If he wants to talk about it, hopefully he'll bring it up.

Which he hasn't. Not just about his "personal event" but about the entire night. It's like we never even went. Weird.

You seem to be overanalyzing every little thing in your relationship LS, things seem fine between you two, just calm down.

I know! And the weird thing is, I'm not normally this way. Everything just seems so new and shaky in my life right now.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

I want to make it known that I have zero problem with Caliph having this thread. In fact, I'm still upset over whoever it was that complained over the "graphic nature" of the whole thing.

But you know just as well as I do that if I made a thread like this, that it would be instantly merged with the Relationship Advice thread. While I don't particularly care that Caliph has, and is allowed to have his own thread (and I don't say this to get anything merged, so don't take it that way), it's an obvious double standard that Caliph is allowed to have this thread, when many other posters would have their threads merged if they made the same thread.

Nell, that's not necessarily true. As a moderator I don't have a problem with users using this board to vent about their experiences in life. Did someone cut you off on the expressway and it pissed you off? Fine. Write about it. That's what this board is for.

Listen: This is not where we have 15 threads complaining about the Fantastic Four's Thing's Brow, or 9 threads b****ing about Sony's decision to discontinue Tobey Maguire's Spider-Man franchise. Those kinds of threads you'd merge. But I'd never disrespect a user's personal problems--and the need to get things off their chest--in such a manner by clumping everything together.

But that's just me and how I moderate.

As it is, my situation is not solely about a romantic relationship. It didn't even start out that way. It's just happens to be focusing on a bad time in my life right now. This place has been a great way for me to cope...to vent about these things because it's not like I have a family of my own to confide in (my family kinda cut me off when I came out). When this storm is over--and I pray to God it will be soon--there will be something else for me to write essays about...trust me.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

If LS had posted this in the relationship thread he would have just taken it over and that thread would be this thread anyways. I don't see what the problem is with this thread....it's the most interesting thing on the site right now IMO. If members don't like the thread just don't click on it.

I'm not so sure I'd say it's the "most interesting thing on the site" but I will say this: I REALLY appreciate the round table discussion that my friends here have supported in my behalf. I genuinely listen to what everyone tells me on this thread and try to reflect on it because there are some things I've not been prepared to experience/deal with in life.

I have been following the thread, and am very sorry to have read about all the upsetting things that have happened to you LS. I hope it all gets sorted and this is a new beginning for you, all the best.

Thank you very much.

 

[ComicChick]

this thread goes through more name changes than Gaga changes crazy outfits

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

this thread goes through more name changes than Gaga changes crazy outfits

I thought that the whole "Misadventures Of Lightning Strykez" was a bit self-serving, ya know? It was recommended to me by several of my friends but I've never really liked it.

 

[ComicChick]

what works for you, works for me

 

[AndThePickles]

Which he hasn't. Not just about his "personal event" but about the entire night. It's like we never even went. Weird.

Eh, he's probably embarrassed. Maybe even embarrassed that he had so much fun going wild? I'm sure it'll come up eventually, even if it's just to laugh about it.

 

[Marx]

Eh, he's probably embarrassed. Maybe even embarrassed that he had so much fun going wild? I'm sure it'll come up eventually, even if it's just to laugh about it.

I agree.

 

[TheDreamMaster]

Wow, I stayed off the internet for one day and look what I miss. Though I probably wouldn't have been in a gay bar (or any bar for another 2 and a half months), sounds like Jason's show would really have been something to see. Gotta admit, my first thought was the scene from American Wedding in the gay bar, although much more...extreme
Sorry to hear he's sort of drawn up again though LS. I'm really pulling that you two are through the worst now.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

Wow, I stayed off the internet for one day and look what I miss. Though I probably wouldn't have been in a gay bar (or any bar for another 2 and a half months), sounds like Jason's show would really have been something to see. Gotta admit, my first thought was the scene from American Wedding in the gay bar, although much more...extreme
Sorry to hear he's sort of drawn up again though LS. I'm really pulling that you two are through the worst now.

Thank you. I think that good things are in store for both of us.


That being said, this thread will be coming to an end soon; it's nearing the end of its Hype life course. I don't want to bore ya'll with the remaining details, but needless to say I think Jason and I are gonna be alright.

But again I want to say thanks to everyone for all of their comments, experiences and advice over the last several weeks. I really and deeply appreciate all of you.

 

[TheDreamMaster]

^
Naw, I'm not that sad to see it go LS, especially if you're ending it happily. I've become much more Hype-social from this thread, and really this was one of the few reasons I visited the Community forum so much. I can only imagine what everyone else will say. But promise us you'll keep us update if anythign else goes down, I'm sure everyone will still be around to listen and hopefully give soem more helpful advice. t:

 

[knowsbleed]

You learn your limits quickly, then you're good for life

You do? You are?



I think LS should get Jason to create an account here... then we can have another Hype couple.

 

[Ace of Knaves]

I had a stalker once. I killed him with an oversized, inflatable banana.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

You do? You are?



I think LS should get Jason to create an account here... then we can have another Hype couple.

There are more here than you'd think...

 

[Colossal Spoons]

You do? You are?

most people

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

If I do any further updates, it will be simpy be about what happens when we meet with the lawyers and David, which will be on Friday. I am hoping that that meeting will bring closure to this entire situation.

Also, I've been so wrapped up about Jason/David that I failed to tell you all what the outcome was of the two men that confronted me in the restroom. I might share that too before I get out of here.

As far as being a Hype couple...I'll have to think about that. He is a Marvel fan to an extent but...that would mean that Jason would be like...intermixing with my peeps here. Not sure how I feel about being a "Hype Couple"...I'm more of a standalone cat.

Although he might be able to give ya'll advice on how to get out of paying your speeding tickets and other misdemeanors.

 

[Lightning Strykez!]

If I do any further updates, it will be simpy be about what happens when we meet with the lawyers and David, which will be on Friday. I am hoping that that meeting will bring closure to this entire situation.

Also, I've been so wrapped up about Jason/David that I failed to tell you all what the outcome was of the two men that confronted me in the restroom. I might share that too before I get out of here.

As far as being a Hype couple...I'll have to think about that. He is a DC fan to an extent but...that would mean that Jason would be like...intermixing with my peeps here. Not sure how I feel about being a "Hype Couple"...I'm more of a standalone cat.

Although he might be able to give ya'll advice on how to get out of paying your speeding tickets and other misdemeanors.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

I guess all good things must come to an end

Meaning this thread of course.

Well I am glad for you that things look to be turning out okay for you man. Best of luck to you and Jason in your new lives!

 

[Hound55]

Heres a few suggestions for any thread renames

"Everyone Hates David"
"Everyone Loves Lightning Strykez!"
"The New Adventures of Lightning Strykez"
"Lock, Stock & 2 Dumbbells"
"The Chronicles of Lightning Stykez!"
"Boyz In The Restroom"
"The Breakup"
"Collateral Damage"

& I'm done...

Days of our Li-ghtning Strykez..?

 

[Hound55]

UPDATE:

I'm back.

I have spoken with David; he called me tonight. The conversation was fine and handled via speaker phone (so that Jason could overhear it--and Dave was made aware of his presence). I told him that I want to wrap everything up before he catches his flight back to LA. He agreed. He asked why I haven't replied to his text messages and I informed him that out of respect for Jason, effective immediately the whole texting s*** has come to an end. Any further conversations between us after our phone call tonight would require a third party presence. He didn't like the sound of that, but f*** him.

This is the plan as of tonight: We are going to meet for lunch at a local restaurant tommorrow afternoon. Jason will still be on duty and he will be with me when we sit down with David. Dave reinterated that he mainly wants meet with us so he can apologize for his actions (which is a confession). I told him that was fine.

I informed him that Jason will be chairing and mediating our meeting as a COP ON DUTY. Jase will obviously be armed just in case something goes down with Dave, which, if it does, Jason will have just grounds to arrest him on the spot. I've decided to handle it this way because it will nullify any possible future claims that Dave might make that Jase is abusing his power/authority.

Jason says he will arrange to have his cop partner stationed in the restaurant within view of us, but out of earshot of our conversation. This is for added protection.

We are going to deal with this face to face. The meeting's purpose is for me to reveal my intentions legally and to see where Dave's head is at right now. I hope he is being sincere but like I said...if he tries to pull anything Jason will have his face on that table and foot on his neck in a heartbeat--and Jason will have back-up on top of that. Obviously I cannot beat his ass myself because then Jason would be obligated to arrest me. LOL

While I didn't mention to him on the phone (our convo was very brief), I will tell Dave tommorrow that I am retaining a lawyer of my own to represent me and that I suggest he get one of his own.

I am done pu$$y-footing around with this s*** now.

Sorry for the delays... I've been off spending the week up in the Gold Coast (Surfers Paradise is the f***ing sh**, incidentally)...

This is EXACTLY the right course of action for the situation that you were in (in my opinion... as best as I can tell from what you've said) and I look forward to wading through the dozen-odd pages I have to catch up...

 

[Hound55]

Besides, Jason and I can move to another city if we need to. Jase could get a transfer I think right? *looks Marvel Knight*

He's probably already responded (an with an answer more relevant to your country and people in Jason's position...) but down this neck of the woods. Yes, that's possible. But you also have to think about vacancies and numbers. My own home town of Adelaide would take any and all the help they can get... they import Pommy coppers all the time to shore up numbers since there's regularly shortages of recruits in Adelaide (only a million populus).

So obviously its easier to transfer to some areas than others... but I would say its likely to be yes.