How do you react when something like this happens?

[Nirvana]

Jesus dude, if you are in such a mess you should just seriously dump her. She's not worth it if she can't tell you the truth especially in a time where you need her the most.

 

[I SEE SPIDEY]

It seems really insenstive for her to just run around with her ex why the suppose love of her life is sick. I think you should talk to her when you get the chance, if you smell B.S, break up with her.

 

[Superman4ever]

Mask, given your condition, I think you have a LOT more important things to worry about then some girl. I know it's hard to do, I've been there...we all have, but get rid of her and move on with your life and start focusing on how to enrich your life so that you can get healthy.

 

[DarknessOfDeath]

and remember, happiness is your own responsibility. -JG

 

[Lunar_Wolf]

Break into her house the day she comes back, make sure the room is dark. Find a comfortable seat and wait in the shadows. Watch for her to come in and put her stuff down and walk into the room you're currently sitting in. She'll turn on the light and you'll say "Where were you Christina?" even if her name isn't Christina.

lmfao

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

I know it all too well.

It's happened to me.

Sorry.

 

[Superhobo]

How do you react when something like this happens?

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

Am I the only one who expected some witty banter from Hobo, but was disappointed that his standard has drastically fallen?

 

[spideyboy_1111]

be the bigger man, confront her.. just simply say "why didn't you tell me you were at your ex's brothers wedding?" why lie to me about that... say this is your relationship on the line... and if she can't come up with a good honest reason, kick her to the curb.

 

[Kidthor]

yup ^^

 

[Obi-Ron]

be the bigger man, confront her.. just simply say "why didn't you tell me you were at your ex's brothers wedding?" why lie to me about that... say this is your relationship on the line... and if she can't come up with a good honest reason, kick her to the curb.

Why give her the chance to lie? She had her chance to be up-front about things from the beginning, clearly that's not how she wants to play it.

 

[Erzengel]

99.9% of the time a girl doesn't need to be friends with an EX.

 

[Eggyman]

Why give her the chance to lie? She had her chance to be up-front about things from the beginning, clearly that's not how she wants to play it.

Agreed. She's had her chance. There's no point in letting her make excuses for something that she probably wouldn't have admitted to if she hadn't been found out.

 

[Sugarculted]

Throw her ex into the sun. That should solve some problems.

- But seriously, sorry to hear about your condition. Someone that lies like that is NOT worth your time.

 

[Speedin Bullet]

This is what I would say, "Why didn't you tell me the real reason you were going to Florida? Why did I have to hear it from the private investigator I hired? I want to hear your side of the story before I show you the pictures he sent me."

 

[amazingfantasy15]

Break up with her, then get some friends with bats to give her one final present, a bloody ex boyfriend to take care of.

 

[Star]

That's horrible.. I'm really sorry that women are such *****es sometimes. Honestly though, you should end it before she does.

On top of that, guaranteed that she will feel extreme regret in a few years.

 

[Venom 1988]

When she gets back from this lil "vacation" of hers, confront her about the wedding stuff. As someone else previously said, she doesn't give you a good answer and seems to just be lying, then just dump the cheating b!tch. Really I don't think shes gonna mind since all shes doing is hanging out with this doucebag ex of hers and apparently lying (or rather not saying the whole truth) to you.

 

[Figs]

In stories like these just about 99% of the time he/she is in fact cheating. There is no other reason for someone to do anything...anything! with their ex if they're in another relationship.

Dump the B****!

No excuses can change my opinion on that matter.

 

[The Spawn]

Dump her after she gives you a kidney transplant.

 

[Sugarculted]

I like Spawn's answer. Seems like the best option

 

[Superhobo]

Am I the only one who expected some witty banter from Hobo, but was disappointed that his standard has drastically fallen?

*crickets*

Go all Nicolas Cage on her. Just start screaming at her, randomly, while shoving a gun in her face. Then Judo kick her.


Make sure she's on a bike first, though.

 

[Scarlet spidey]

You know she's going to use the excuse of 'I didn't want to worry you in your condition.'

Oooh how I love that line.
Stick an banana in her cars tailpipe.

 

[spideyboy_1111]

Why give her the chance to lie? She had her chance to be up-front about things from the beginning, clearly that's not how she wants to play it.

ooo if you know someone you can tell if there lying or not... and he will be able to tell if she's lying to his face. "not telling" she was at her ex's bro's wedding is simply not telling. She could have been just dumb and thought he'd worry so made a call not to tell him. Dumb, yes but girls do dumb things sometimes. It'd be a shame if he kicked her to the curb without a confrontation and it was all 100% innocent on her part.

 

[jaguarr]

ooo if you know someone you can tell if there lying or not... and he will be able to tell if she's lying to his face. "not telling" she was at her ex's bro's wedding is simply not telling. She could have been just dumb and thought he'd worry so made a call not to tell him. Dumb, yes but girls do dumb things sometimes. It'd be a shame if he kicked her to the curb without a confrontation and it was all 100% innocent on her part.

Running around with an ex, including going on a trip to Florida with him for his brother's wedding without telling her current boyfriend, is not innocent. At all.

jag