How do you react when something like this happens?

[Darthphere]

Ok. Here is what happened today.

She came back and immediately went to her own place to "freshen-up", and then called me to ask me for a lift to her sister's. So, we're in the car, I'm trying my best to remain cool, my breathing is hard, fast, forced. I can't concentrate on the road, when suddenly, her phone starts to ring. I look, and the Caller ID is that of her Ex's. I don't say anything, just look on. She says, "I can't talk right now. I promise I'll call you as soon as I'm alone."

I keep driving. Thinking the worst things that a person in my position could think of. The roads roll on, and suddenly her phone rings again. It's him again. She says, "Can we please talk about it later? Please?" *laughs* "Come on, don't do this. Please? I'll call you. Just be patient." *smiles* "Okay. Talk to you asap."

I finally decide to ask who it is. She says it's her Ex. No expression. Nothing. Just a statement of fact. I obviously ask what he wants. She says, "Nothing." I told her that it didn't sound like nothing, and she gave a nasty expression and said, "I told you, nothing!"

So, I drop it, and keep driving. It's eating me up inside, but I'm just driving. Then, of all the things she could've done, she said, "Do you want to see pictures of Florida?" I turned, and the first picture I see is her with her Ex on the beach, his arms around her, her head on his shoulder.

That killed me, right there. I just said (in true Spider-Man style) - "Yeah. That's what every boyfriend wants to see..."

She snatched it away from me, and sat all grumpily in the car. Then, I dropped her off at her office, coz suddenly she had something to take care of there. As I was turning the car, she waved me to stop. I did. She told me that she had a gift for me and that it would be best if I came by and took her home in the afternoon. I was shocked.

I froze right there. Waited a couple of seconds before I could muster the strength to say, "No. I can't. I have a doctor's appointment. Remember?" She gave me the same nasty look as before, and said, "Fine. Whatever." and just walked away.

I drove around for a while. Now I'm at a diner contemplating what a gigantic Loser I am. I can't help but feel frail, and vulnerable.

Does anyone deserve to be treated like this?

Dude, tell that ***** to hit the mother****ing curb.

 

[Figs]

I'll give you a little bit of advice. Take it for what it is. Listen to Jag, drop her. But, before you do:

When you first see her. Talk to her like nothing is wrong, tell her you miss her, blah, blah, blah. Get her all Horned up, and get yourself a BJ. When she's done, break up with her and leave her. Don't confront her, you'll know for the rest of your life you did the right thing. And, if you ever think about her again, you know that the last time you saw her with with your **** in her *****. HAH!

I've done that to everygirl I've ever broken up with, and believe me, you'll feel better in the end.

That's great!!

The Mask, after reading your new post...drop that ***** and give her a slap to the face for being such a ****e.

 

[knowsbleed]

Reading your story is very frustrating. Come back when you've made some progress.

 

[Superman4ever]

NO ONE deserves to be treated the way your "girlfriend" is treating you. I'd dump her quick and now.

I can't believe she had that conversation with her ex in the car like that...it's evil.

Dump her and go to your Dr. appointment and DON'T look back. She's no go for you.

 

[Darthphere]

Not to be harsh, but she probably did all that so you would dump her and she would leave the relationship without a guilty conscious because she didn't break up with you, you broke up with her.

EDIT: Also, her ex picked her up from her office and they're at his place bumping uglies right now.

 

[jaguarr]

Ok. Here is what happened today.

She came back and immediately went to her own place to "freshen-up", and then called me to ask me for a lift to her sister's. So, we're in the car, I'm trying my best to remain cool, my breathing is hard, fast, forced. I can't concentrate on the road, when suddenly, her phone starts to ring. I look, and the Caller ID is that of her Ex's. I don't say anything, just look on. She says, "I can't talk right now. I promise I'll call you as soon as I'm alone."

I keep driving. Thinking the worst things that a person in my position could think of. The roads roll on, and suddenly her phone rings again. It's him again. She says, "Can we please talk about it later? Please?" *laughs* "Come on, don't do this. Please? I'll call you. Just be patient." *smiles* "Okay. Talk to you asap."

I finally decide to ask who it is. She says it's her Ex. No expression. Nothing. Just a statement of fact. I obviously ask what he wants. She says, "Nothing." I told her that it didn't sound like nothing, and she gave a nasty expression and said, "I told you, nothing!"

So, I drop it, and keep driving. It's eating me up inside, but I'm just driving. Then, of all the things she could've done, she said, "Do you want to see pictures of Florida?" I turned, and the first picture I see is her with her Ex on the beach, his arms around her, her head on his shoulder.

That killed me, right there. I just said (in true Spider-Man style) - "Yeah. That's what every boyfriend wants to see..."

She snatched it away from me, and sat all grumpily in the car. Then, I dropped her off at her office, coz suddenly she had something to take care of there. As I was turning the car, she waved me to stop. I did. She told me that she had a gift for me and that it would be best if I came by and took her home in the afternoon. I was shocked.

I froze right there. Waited a couple of seconds before I could muster the strength to say, "No. I can't. I have a doctor's appointment. Remember?" She gave me the same nasty look as before, and said, "Fine. Whatever." and just walked away.

I drove around for a while. Now I'm at a diner contemplating what a gigantic Loser I am. I can't help but feel frail, and vulnerable.

Does anyone deserve to be treated like this?

You're not a loser, she is a cheating b1tch. Don't own other people's faults, no matter how much you care about them or how bad they make you feel. She's being insensitive and is probably trying to see how far she can push you and what you'll let her get away with before you say something about all of this. At best she's just playing games to mess with your head and elicit some sort of desired response (that only she knows she's after). She could be just truly clueless as to how out of line she is but my money is on her just being a cruel b1tch. No one is truly that clueless. Showing you a picture like that was calculated. Get rid of her, dude. You deserve much, much better.

jag

 

[Erzengel]

Or maybe she didn't even do anything in Florida but she's an idiot?

 

[jaguarr]

Not to be harsh, but she probably did all that so you would dump her and she would leave the relationship without a guilty conscious because she didn't break up with you, you broke up with her.

A good observation, Darth. Personally, I wouldn't even dump her. I'd just stop returning her phone calls and ignore her until the end of time. Don't give her the satisfaction of a "clean" conscience. Leave her wondering what the hell just happened for months on end. It'll suck the fun out of being with her ex for her.

jag

 

[SuBe]

Not to be harsh, but she probably did all that so you would dump her and she would leave the relationship without a guilty conscious because she didn't break up with you, you broke up with her.

EDIT: Also, her ex picked her up from her office and they're at his place bumping uglies right now.

Agreed, what kind of ***** shows you pictures as evidence?

 

[jaguarr]

Or maybe she didn't even do anything in Florida but she's an idiot?

Ehhhhh, I'll agree she's an idiot but I don't think it's because she doesn't know what she's doing. She wants her cake and eat it too, quite obviously.

jag

 

[Erzengel]

It's probable but not likely.

I agree though, I wouldn't do sh't for her anymore. Make her break up with you.

 

[Figs]

Agreed, what kind of ***** shows you pictures as evidence?

LOL, that reminds me of that line from Tom Arnold in True Lies. "What kind of sick b**ch takes the ice cube trays from the freezer!?"


I say he needs to do a combo, get head from her and THEN don't return her calls just don't be the one to break up with her. t:

 

[Superman4ever]

A good observation, Darth. Personally, I wouldn't even dump her. I'd just stop returning her phone calls and ignore her until the end of time. Don't give her the satisfaction of a "clean" conscience. Leave her wondering what the hell just happened for months on end. It'll suck the fun out of being with her ex for her.

jag

Agreed. Don't even give her the satisfaction of telling her that your hurt, or how vulnerable you feel. Everything she's done lately was in effort to hurt you. So, shrug it off. DON'T let her see your pain.

Ignoring her would leave her wondering for months.

OR takes Sube's advice and then IGNORE the **** out of her!

 

[SuBe]

Agreed. Don't even give her the satisfaction of telling her that your hurt, or how vulnerable you feel. Everything she's done lately was in effort to hurt you. So, shrug it off. DON'T let her see your pain.

Ignoring her would leave her wondering for months.

OR takes Sube's advice and then IGNORE the **** out of her!

100% agreed. Take my advice, but you have to be quick, go to the Doctors, get some, then go. Never talk to her again. Ignore all phone calls. Infact, post a pic of her on here, just so we can see her and throw darts at her for you. We'll do a SHH ban on the B*itch.

 

[jaguarr]

I'm normally all about trust, fidelity and open, honest communication in a relationship but this girl has gone out of her way to violate all of those things with Mask, that's why I recommend no mercy for her.

jag

 

[X-Ray]

Ok. Here is what happened today.

She came back and immediately went to her own place to "freshen-up", and then called me to ask me for a lift to her sister's. So, we're in the car, I'm trying my best to remain cool, my breathing is hard, fast, forced. I can't concentrate on the road, when suddenly, her phone starts to ring. I look, and the Caller ID is that of her Ex's. I don't say anything, just look on. She says, "I can't talk right now. I promise I'll call you as soon as I'm alone."

I keep driving. Thinking the worst things that a person in my position could think of. The roads roll on, and suddenly her phone rings again. It's him again. She says, "Can we please talk about it later? Please?" *laughs* "Come on, don't do this. Please? I'll call you. Just be patient." *smiles* "Okay. Talk to you asap."

I finally decide to ask who it is. She says it's her Ex. No expression. Nothing. Just a statement of fact. I obviously ask what he wants. She says, "Nothing." I told her that it didn't sound like nothing, and she gave a nasty expression and said, "I told you, nothing!"

So, I drop it, and keep driving. It's eating me up inside, but I'm just driving. Then, of all the things she could've done, she said, "Do you want to see pictures of Florida?" I turned, and the first picture I see is her with her Ex on the beach, his arms around her, her head on his shoulder.

That killed me, right there. I just said (in true Spider-Man style) - "Yeah. That's what every boyfriend wants to see..."

She snatched it away from me, and sat all grumpily in the car. Then, I dropped her off at her office, coz suddenly she had something to take care of there. As I was turning the car, she waved me to stop. I did. She told me that she had a gift for me and that it would be best if I came by and took her home in the afternoon. I was shocked.

I froze right there. Waited a couple of seconds before I could muster the strength to say, "No. I can't. I have a doctor's appointment. Remember?" She gave me the same nasty look as before, and said, "Fine. Whatever." and just walked away.

I drove around for a while. Now I'm at a diner contemplating what a gigantic Loser I am. I can't help but feel frail, and vulnerable.

Does anyone deserve to be treated like this?

Right after seeing that pic. You should have stopped the car & told her to get the **** out. Then drive on. You don't need this ****.

As for her "surprise" for you. The way she's treating you. I wouldn't be surprise if it were a sex tape with her & the "ex"

 

[Superman4ever]

100% agreed. Take my advice, but you have to be quick, go to the Doctors, get some, then go. Never talk to her again. Ignore all phone calls. Infact, post a pic of her on here, just so we can see her and throw darts at her for you. We'll do a SHH ban on the B*itch.

LMAO!

I'm normally all about trust, fidelity and open, honest communication in a relationship but this girl has gone out of her way to violate all of those things with Mask, that's why I recommend no mercy for her.

jag

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

That's cruel. Beyond belief.

 

[SuBe]

You have to remember, when you DO take my advice, to not touch her in her no-no parts. No good feelings to her. Only you.

 

[jaguarr]

As for her "surprise" for you. The way she's treating you. I wouldn't be surprise if it were a sex tape with her & the "ex"

That thought crossed my mind as well.

jag

 

[William_C]

Please update us this afternoon/evening Mask. I think with a few more postings from you, we'll all be able to make that finalized decision.

For real though, I think she's sneaking around. You either need to hit up Cheaters, or that one show on MTV [but I think both might be scripted]...one time for your mind.

 

[Viper81]

God, I am so furious for you right now. lol

What a pathetic waste of human flesh your girlfriend is. I'm sorry if that's harsh, but it's the frikin truth.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this right now while your health is in bad shape. So sorry for you man.

But dear lord it's time to make the decision for her and get her the hell out of your life. You're ALREADY facing emotional distress because she's cheating (she is ABSOLUTELY cheating) on you, so take the plunge get rid of this shallow ****. Seriously, for the sake of your health and well-being, get her out of your life and keep her out of your life. You deserve to be with someone who treats you better than this.

 

[Gilpesh]

Mask, you're a better man than me. She'd be out after the first call. Cause I would demand to know what that was about and why you need to be alone to talk to an ex. If she didn't be completely honest... I'd tell her to get out of the car and hit the bricks. I would then throw in, "It looks like you need it too, you're getting fat."

 

[DBella]

I've just caught up with the conversations here and I must say that I agree with the majority. She's not worth the grief, not worth your time. By showing the picture of her with her ex, she's being malicious beyond belief. She's a liar, a cheater and she's doing things to purposely hurt you an doing all these things knowing your health condition. You don't need someone like that in your life. You need to put yourself first and take care of yourself and get better.

A lot of good advice was given, and I hope you take those advice. This one here is my favorite for it's an advice I'd have given you myself:

A good observation, Darth. Personally, I wouldn't even dump her. I'd just stop returning her phone calls and ignore her until the end of time. Don't give her the satisfaction of a "clean" conscience. Leave her wondering what the hell just happened for months on end. It'll suck the fun out of being with her ex for her.

jag

 

[Viper81]

Mask, you're a better man than me. She'd be out after the first call. Cause I would demand to know what that was about and why you need to be alone to talk to an ex. If she didn't be completely honest... I'd tell her to get out of the car and hit the bricks. I would then throw in, "It looks like you need it too, you're getting fat."

It's the shear brazenness of the whole thing that's got me. This girl is trampling all over him and he's letting her do it.