I feel like such an Idiot!

[Prison Mike]

I wouldn't worry about the sink incident. You didn't insult her at least. Try to become friends with her first. Find out her likes and dislikes. Don't come on too strong. I wouldn't ask her out just yet. Become friends first!

 

[Zephyr Alexian]

Aw Jal, it's alright, nearly all of us have been there.
You choked, it's ok. You'll get another shot, you work with her. If she does have an interest in you, she won't let something like that ruin it. Keep your head up man. Whenever you feel comfortable and feel like saying something to her, go for it.

Are you telling him to grab a Snickers?

Forget that JAL. Go buy a maglite, some chloroform, and get busy son.

 

[The Apatow Crew]

Aw Jal, it's alright, nearly all of us have been there.
You choked, it's ok. You'll get another shot, you work with her. If she does have an interest in you, she won't let something like that ruin it. Keep your head up man. Whenever you feel comfortable and feel like saying something to her, go for it.

It's like i wanna say things all the time . I open my mouth and no words come out. I've been doing that for years. ever since i was young. Its almost like i'm kinda afraid to ask.

 

[The Apatow Crew]

I wouldn't worry about the sink incident. You didn't insult her at least. Try to become friends with her first. Find out her likes and dislikes. Don't come on too strong. I wouldn't ask her out just yet. Become friends first!

Thats what I was kinda planning on doing. or atleast try doing. Without slipping into the dreaded friends zone.

 

[Prison Mike]

Thats what I was kinda planning on doing. or atleast try doing. Without slipping into the dreaded friends zone.

if sparks are there, then I don't think you'll slip into the friend zone. I think that happens when there is no sexual attraction between the two people. It's clear that you like her, but how has she responded toward you?

 

[The Apatow Crew]

if sparks are there, then I don't think you'll slip into the friend zone. I think that happens when there is no sexual attraction between the two people. It's clear that you like her, but how has she responded toward you?

She put her hands on my shoulders before. And was lookoing at ,e.

 

[The Guard]

I mean i was at the sink and she came over real quick to fill it up. she wasn't standing next to me. was there for like 30 seconds or so

So...maybe..."Hey", for starters.

I thought it was dont **** where you sleep?

That, too.

 

[The-Dark-Knight]

Are you a funny guy? women love the funny. aside from that just be yourself. Be friendly with her, ask her how her weekend was, talk about movies see if you have any common ground. First things first concentrate on a freindship and hopefully something will develop from there.

And whatever you do ignore Black dusts advice of 'get her number from a friend and ring her' worst advice in this thread. The only time you should be ringing her is if she gives you her number.

 

[Prison Mike]

She put her hands on my shoulders before. And was lookoing at ,e.

have you seen her do that with other people though? Maybe she does that naturally. Sometimes it could be unintentional and not mean anything. I would observe how she acts in front of other people. If she's just naturally warm like that, then maybe you looked too much into it. Otherwise, I would continue the "friend" plan if she really likes you.

 

[Ronny Shade]

But beyond that...it's generally a really, really bad idea to become romantically involved (or even interested) with your manager or a coworker.

Don't **** where you eat.

Don't **** where you eat.

Don't **** where you eat.

See? I never understood this sentiment. I realize that if it goes bad then things at work will be awkward.

but on the other hand?


How else are you supposed to meet people?

 

[The Apatow Crew]

So...maybe..."Hey", for starters.



That, too.

Isaid Hi the other day before and she said it back.

 

[The-Dark-Knight]

Gotta ask,

Is she hot, we need pictures (actually that'd be all kinds of wrong) or atleast a description of the future Mrs. Crew.

 

[The Apatow Crew]

have you seen her do that with other people though? Maybe she does that naturally. Sometimes it could be unintentional and not mean anything. I would observe how she acts in front of other people. If she's just naturally warm like that, then maybe you looked too much into it. Otherwise, I would continue the "friend" plan if she really likes you.

Thats why I said i'm not sure. I mean I don't wanna state too long and get caught.

 

[The Guard]

See? I never understood this sentiment. I realize that if it goes bad then things at work will be awkward.

but on the other hand?

How else are you supposed to meet people?

School. Through friends. Clubs, social events, bars, out in random public places.

Fact is, most relationships fail. Many people do not take this failure well. Many people whose relationships fail (especially young people) tend to want to make the other person miserable. Work is the perfect place for this to happen. There are other kinds of stresses working with your significant other can have that have an adverse effect on the relationship.

Now, it's one thing to sleep with someone you work with every so often, or to go out with them once or twice. But to engage in an actual relationship with someone you work with, especially with a supervisor or subordinate isn't always the smartest thing in the world. You'd better be damn sure the person you're with isn't a psycho hose beast. I'm not saying it always ends up badly, but most of the time...it's not the best idea in the world.

 

[The Guard]

Ok, so we need to get beyond "Hi".

What do you want to know about her?

 

[Prison Mike]

Thats why I said i'm not sure. I mean I don't wanna state too long and get caught.

remember what Jay said to Andy in The 40 Year Old Virgin? "Use your peripherals!"

 

[The Apatow Crew]

Gotta ask,

Is she hot, we need pictures (actually that'd be all kinds of wrong) or atleast a description of the future Mrs. Crew.

Yeah she is. Almost a little too hot for me i think. lol.

she kinda looks like this celeb. I mean with rhe same skin tone and curly dark long hair.

Spoiler

 

[The Guard]

You don't have to stare to look at someone. It's not like people walk around expecting never to be looked at. If she catches you looking at her, she'll do one or two things: She'll ignore it, or she'll go fishing for compliments, at which point, you provide one.

"You look nice today" or "That's a nice rack you're wearing", etc.

 

[Prison Mike]

Yeah she is. Almost a little too hot for me i think. lol.

she kinda looks like this celeb. I mean with rhe same skin tone and curly dark long hair.

Spoiler

how tall is she?

 

[The Apatow Crew]

remember what Jay said to Andy in The 40 Year Old Virgin? "Use your peripherals!"

I tried doing that also. Looking around without moving my head.

 

[Prison Mike]

I tried doing that also. Looking around without moving my head.

how did that work out for you?

 

[The Apatow Crew]

how tall is she?

shes kinda short. or maybe thats cause i'm 6 foot. shes like 5'4 or so.

 

[The Apatow Crew]

how did that work out for you?

I only did it once real quick, thats how i heard about the party.

 

[Prison Mike]

shes kinda short. or maybe thats cause i'm 6 foot. shes like 5'4 or so.

at least you can reach stuff for her. lol

 

[Ronny Shade]

How else are you supposed to meet people?

School. Through friends. Clubs, social events, bars, out in random public places.

Fact is, most relationships fail. Many people do not take this failure well. Many people whose relationships fail (especially young people) tend to want to make the other person miserable. Work is the perfect place for this to happen. There are other kinds of stresses working with your significant other can have that have an adverse effect on the relationship.

Now, it's one thing to sleep with someone you work with every so often, or to go out with them once or twice. But to engage in an actual relationship with someone you work with, especially with a supervisor or subordinate isn't always the smartest thing in the world. You'd better be damn sure the person you're with isn't a psycho hose beast. I'm not saying it always ends up badly, but most of the time...it's not the best idea in the world.

I started to write a long response to this but it was coming out emo so I decided to stop.

JAL, take notes.