I feel like such an Idiot!

[Erzengel]

Are you trying to say something? Then say it!

And asfor the relationship they take time, and i think I can make it work.

if i need to get two jobs so be it. Working during the day and then at night.

Ugh, that was not a shot at your intelligence.

 

[Erzengel]

But honestly, in the Lounge you are talking about buying cds and dvds when you get paid this week? How about saving your money?

 

[JLBats]

Are you trying to say something? Then say it!

Only you could think he meant that you were mentally handicapped from what he just said

 

[The Apatow Crew]

But honestly, in the Lounge you are talking about buying cds and dvds when you get paid this week? How about saving your money?

I said i might but i'm prolly not. I'm just making conversation. I said i might save up for my license and go soon, after reading the book i have.

 

[The Apatow Crew]

Ugh, that was not a shot at your intelligence.

When you say mentally not ready, some might take it the wrong way. I'm just sorry, but i'm tired of proving to people i'm not ******ed like they all think. I've had to do it all my life. Just cause a guy doesn't smile all the time doesn't mean theres something wrong with him.

 

[Gilpesh]

I said i might but i'm prolly not. I'm just making conversation. I said i might save up for my license and go soon, after reading the book i have.

Seriously. You can't be spending money on CDs and DVDs... you have a backroom abortion to save up for.

 

[Sarge 2.0]

You will one day

Jesus, I'll be sure to never get on your bad side.

 

[Star]

Jesus, I'll be sure to never get on your bad side.

He's not on my bad side... the truth just hurts?

 

[Showtime]

Don't you think i know that?

Its why i've been hounding them on hours.

I'm not sure if you do or not. I'm just putting it out there. This is all the adult things you now have to think about now that you slipped one past the goalie.

 

[Sarge 2.0]

He's not on my bad side... the truth just hurts?

I think telling him that he's going to be living in a trailer park is a wee bit extreme.

This is coming from a person whose made a sport out of antagonizing JAL.

 

[Showtime]

How about we take it down just a notch before this spins out of control and the thread goes to places nobody wants it to go.

 

[Prison Mike]

No, my life is great. I am going to university, I will get a good job and I use birth control and will therefore not be having a child until I am absolutely ready.

It's good we don't talk because you're an idiot for getting yourself into this stupid situation.

remember, birth control doesn't work 100% of the time...

 

[Star]

remember, birth control doesn't work 100% of the time...

True, but I still don't intend to bring a child into the world unless I know I'll be able to provide for them.

 

[Captain Planet!]

Fine, I'll say EXACTLY what I think about this entire situation.

I think that from the beginning, it's evident that you have some SEVERE social anxiety issues. To start a thread on a relationship you want to start is already weird enough, but to continue to post as the relationship 'grew' is weirder.

This girl of yours obviously is no catch, considering she's '27/28' and clearly working a less then ideal job. You think her family's rich, that's nice, but do you honestly think they want to support her for the next 18 years while she raises your possibly bastard child?

Considering you say you think she'd be better off without you, maybe you should consider asking her to put this child up for adoption. It's too late to abort, but sweet jesus this kid is going to have a terrible poverty ridden life.

I'm not judging you but IF this story is real then you are ****ing up the rest of your life for some ****ty bimbo who wants to sleep around without being on the pill like some dirty trailer park ****e.

 

[Showtime]

True, but I still don't intend to bring a child into the world unless I know I'll be able to provide for them.

JAL's case aside, sometimes these things aren't necessarily planned. In such a situation it isn't the fact that what you didn't plan for happened, it is how you deal with it once it has.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Gilpesh is a total dumbbell!

 

[AndThePickles]

remember, birth control doesn't work 100% of the time...

If used correctly, and using more than one method, the chances of pregnancy are ridiculously rare.

 

[Prison Mike]

True, but I still don't intend to bring a child into the world unless I know I'll be able to provide for them.

well JAL never intended for this to happen. the condom just broke...

 

[Gilpesh]

Are you people dumb or just deaf oreven perhaps both?

You do understand... you're not talking, right?

And you all say I need to mature. about you take soem of that advice and look in the mirror.

One, I didn't say that to you.

Two, I don't have a kid.

 

[Star]

JAL's case aside, sometimes these things aren't necessarily planned. In such a situation it isn't the fact that what you didn't plan for happened, it is how you deal with it once it has.

Abortion, or if you don't support that, adoption. Even if he keeps it, as you pointed out, he's not exactly dealing with it properly.

 

[Captain Planet!]

remember, birth control doesn't work 100% of the time...

My Mom had at least 4 kids while on BC.

 

[Gilpesh]

Gilpesh is a total dumbbell!

Yeah, that's me to a tee.

 

[Showtime]

Abortion, or if you don't support that, adoption. Even if he keeps it, as you pointed out, he's not exactly dealing with it properly.

Those are both valid options if you do indeed veer from the plan not to bring a child into the world, the problem is that unplanned children are brought into this world all the time. Hopefully JAL will do the right thing for his child, whatever that may be.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

JAL, could you leave this chick's life completely if you wanted to? I mean, would she demand some monetary support from you?

 

[ShadowBoxing]

JAL, could you leave this chick's life completely if you wanted to? I mean, would she demand some monetary support from you?

Yeah, I mean you said she wanted space.