I got a date!

[Malus]

You know less than me about dating

Now that's funny.
You're the one asking for advice on a superhero website. t:

 

[kainedamo]

Is that even a verb?

Your mother's a verb

 

[Harlekin]

The whole 30 second thing is hogwash. I've seen enough cases where that was proven untrue once people really got to know one another. I mostly agree with Erzengel, except about the "paying for her own candy thing", since that's what women usually insist on these days. They'll feign some indigment at being paid for when it comes to tickets and will pay for the sweets as an expression of their individuality.

Remember fellow, chivalry is dead.

 

[CyberFaust]

holly mother of twelve bastards!!! not the friend zone, anything but the friend zone

 

[Erzengel]

I don't know if he's in the friend zone just yet. Sounds like she's just taking it very slow and cautious and trying to determine which way she'd like to take things with him. I say he's not out of the running just yet.

jag

Agreed.

There's hope. Well if he doesn't f' it up.

 

[Sloth7d]

large.... chocolate... BALLS.
Put 'em in your mouth and suck 'em.

Noway theres three of them. Thats not normal.

 

[Erzengel]

The whole 30 second thing is hogwash. I've seen enough cases where that was proven untrue once people really got to know one another. I mostly agree with Erzengel, except about the "paying for her own candy thing", since that's what women usually insist on these days. They'll feign some indigment at being paid for when it comes to tickets and will pay for the sweets as an expression of their individuality.

Remember fellow, chivalry is dead.

That could go either way.

Some girls prefer to pay for half of dinner because they don't want to have to be indebted to the guy they are on a date with.

If the movies cost $18.00 which KD paid for, and snacks were like $10 or so, it's still could be the same scenario.

 

[Malus]

The whole 30 second thing is hogwash. I've seen enough cases where that was proven untrue once people really got to know one another.

I think 4 out of 5 times it's true.
But there are exceptions to everything.

Remember fellow, chivalry is dead.

Hardly.
Though from the sound of things, it's on life support.

 

[Sloth7d]

I think 4 out of 5 times it's true.
But there are exceptions to everything.



Hardly.
Though from the sound of things, it's on life support.

You know what they say about life support. Treat it the same a bathtub filled with water. Pull the plug.

 

[kainedamo]

I think 4 out of 5 times it's true.
But there are exceptions to everything.

I don't think so. I think SOME girls are that quick to judge, but not all.

I don't know, though. Girls are weird. They're far more capable of having guys around them without thinking of them in a sexual way than what guys are with girls around.

 

[amazingfantasy15]

What makes you say that? She's not gonna sex me on the first date

It's not because you didn't have sex. Her leaving fairly soon after the movies over is a big sign, she said she might be late because she wanted to finish her work before going out with you, then says she's still has some more to do, if she was really into you she'd probably want to stay later. She's not too talkative or are you not asking the right questions? You just saw a movie, if nothing else that should have given you some topics, that may be the reason she left fairly soon, you two weren't exactly connecting with conversation topics. How did the date end, a wave, handshake, hug, kiss?

Obviously I can't really tell since I wasn't there, but I've had dates that ended with me in the friend zone too many times, not to recoginize the signs.

 

[Malus]

Girls are weird. They're far more capable of having guys around them without thinking of them in a sexual way than what guys are with girls around.

Complete agreement there, buddy.

 

[chamber-music]

large.... chocolate... BALLS.
Put 'em in your mouth and suck 'em.

someone please make a chocolate balls thread t:
Maltesers are date food!

 

[Darthphere]

I'm making a thread next time I get an erection!

 

[kainedamo]

I'm making a thread next time I get an erection!

So that will probably be in a couple of months then!

 

[ShadowBoxing]

I don't know, though. Girls are weird. They're far more capable of having guys around them without thinking of them in a sexual way than what guys are with girls around.

I don't believe that is true.

 

[Superman79]

I don't believe that is true.

second!

Chicks think of sex just as much as guys do (sometimes MORE)...they are just better at hiding it most of the time.

 

[kainedamo]

I don't believe that is true.

I think it is. Girls are far more capable of having guy friends without thinking of taking it further.

 

[Erzengel]

I don't think so. I think SOME girls are that quick to judge, but not all.

I don't know, though. Girls are weird. They're far more capable of having guys around them without thinking of them in a sexual way than what guys are with girls around.

Heh.

You seem to be learning. LOL.

Most girls can be friends with guys on a platonic level. However, it's hard for a lot of guys to do the same. Different chemicals, personality whatever.

That's why Vicki was just friends with you. She didn't see you as much as a boyfriend but liked you as a person, that's why you 2 are friends.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

I think it is. Girls are far more capable of having guy friends without thinking of taking it further.

That's not true. I know plenty of women who have been, or are attracted to me who I just don't care for. I don't mind getting hit on by them, or even hanging out with them...but I'm not taking it any further than that. You just don't think about it that way because you're constantly consumed by the people you do like that you "can't the see forrest for the trees". Think about, honestly, all the platonic relationships you have over the course of your lifetime...I'd bet it's safe to assume half of those would be women. Girls aren't attracted to every guy, you just have happened to be that guy...more often than not it seems. But then guys, honestly, don't go after every piece of tail either.

 

[Sugarculted]

someone please make a chocolate balls thread t:
Maltesers are date food!

Oddly enough, they are. Every woman I've gone to the movies with, has always bought Maltesers

 

[WorthyStevens]

That's not true. I know plenty of women who have been, or are attracted to me who I just don't care for. I don't mind getting hit on by them, or even hanging out with them...but I'm not taking it any further than that. You just don't think about it that way because you're constantly consumed by the people you do like that you "can't the see forrest for the trees". Think about, honestly, all the platonic relationships you have over the course of your lifetime...I'd bet it's safe to assume half of those would be women. Girls aren't attracted to every guy, you just have happened to be that guy...more often than not it seems. But then guys, honestly, don't go after every piece of tail either.

QFT

 

[WorthyStevens]

second!

Chicks think of sex just as much as guys do (sometimes MORE)...they are just better at hiding it most of the time.

Yup. Girls play hard to get moreso than guys do.

 

[Sloth7d]

second!

Chicks think of sex just as much as guys do (sometimes MORE)...they are just better at hiding it most of the time.

Yeah. I've friends who were girls, that I had no attraction to in the past.
I mean unless you were a social outcast in highschool you've had female friends who were just friends before.

 

[amazingfantasy15]

Yeah. I've friends who were girls, that I had no attraction to in the past.
I mean unless you were a social outcast in highschool you've had female friends who were just friends before.

"Were" they aren't anymore? Makes sense that you weren't attracted to them.