Lord of the Advice: Return of the King of Relationships

[Optimus_Prime_]

I will hope to never test that theory.

 

[Anubis]

1 in 4 people have it.....odds are, you'll probably have to.

 

[Dreadstar]

me either!

 

[JJJ's Ulcer]

Most people have oral herpes without even knowing about it. Cold sores, canker sores... could be a sign of oral herpes.

 

[Anita18]

Most people have oral herpes without even knowing about it. Cold sores, canker sores... could be a sign of oral herpes.

Only cold sores, which are on the outside of the mouth. Canker sores, which are inside, are usually caused by stress or injury to the mouth or nutritional deficiencies.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

That's a very curious statistic actually. Doctors have told me that it's usually not a big deal, and there are cases where it may be curable. Then the statistic is only 16.2%, which has stayed stable. The stability throws me because with statistics dealing with diseases that either means resistance or that something is skewing the data. From what I've heard they have poor information on it, something to do with not directly testing for it I think. Either way it's a pretty curious thing.

 

[Anita18]

That's a very curious statistic actually. Doctors have told me that it's usually not a big deal, and there are cases where it may be curable. Then the statistic is only 16.2%, which has stayed stable. The stability throws me because with statistics dealing with diseases that either means resistance or that something is skewing the data. From what I've heard they have poor information on it, something to do with not directly testing for it I think. Either way it's a pretty curious thing.

It's a virus, and usually when you "cure" it, you don't really get rid of it. It'll always be around in your nerve cells in some tiny amount. It's when you get stressed or some other thing that weakens your immune system, that the viral load can increase and cause a flare-up.

But otherwise it's just hanging around, chillin'.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

I'm also having that problem at times. I really want to get off this medication but my doctor is a nazi and I swear she must be making some kind of profit on the money I pay for the meds.

Is it something you'll eventually come off? Because if it is, just wait it out. As soon as your off them, things should return to normal.

Weed is awesome. I'm pretty sure it just cures everything.

Except the problems caused by weed

 

[Nave 'Torment']

well if we're going to talk about sex issues... i'll put mine in. [BLACKOUT]I seem to be getting more and more lethargic every time i jerk-off. It wasn't this tiring before, but then again before I hadn't been suffering from a drastic drop in my weight. Did any of you ever notice that post-climax tiredness increasing after losing too much weight? I'm losing a lot of my hair too, and I'm guessing it has to do with the weight loss more than the obsessive need to pleasure myself.[/BLACKOUT]

 

[Nave 'Torment']

i dont think i've ever had to go to a doctor for my nether regions... yet. in fact, i'm pretty sure i have zero clue on what sort of doctor that is....

oh wait googled. yes. hmm.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

well if we're going to talk about sex issues... i'll put mine in. [BLACKOUT]I seem to be getting more and more lethargic every time i jerk-off. It wasn't this tiring before, but then again before I hadn't been suffering from a drastic drop in my weight. Did any of you ever notice that post-climax tiredness increasing after losing too much weight? I'm losing a lot of my hair too, and I'm guessing it has to do with the weight loss more than the obsessive need to pleasure myself.[/BLACKOUT]

There's good reason for that. Scientifically speaking you should get sleepy after you climax, that's pretty typical. Certainly fits my experience. I don't remember exactly what I've read on it, but in both books about the brain and books about the body I've read the topic has come up.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

What's causing the drastic drop in weight?

 

[Nave 'Torment']

it was originally depression, loss of appetite, and then i started running because that was the only thing that felt good.

thing is i know i'm supposed to get sleepy after climax but it just seems more so now than it was before. i dont think depression is the reason for that, right?

 

[Dreadstar]

So all is well believe it or not in my world. I am NOT over reacting and have actually listened to some good advice.

Fling girl is testing me to see if I have any of the qualities that let to her husband and her divorcing. For example, if she wants to get together and I have work assignments to complete, then I have to refuse her. But if she wants to get together and I have some other pressing need and cannot see her, then she will see this as a pattern. It will signal to her that she is not a priority in my life and she will bolt. She just wants to know that I care about her and will listen to her feelings and make her a priority in my life. Generally speaking, woman are insecure creatures.

SO I am relaxing and enjoying what I have. I now text fling girl everyday. And see her a few times a week. So far, so good. Cant believe things are actually working out!

 

[The Guard]

Originally posted by Nell:

Spoiler

well if we're going to talk about sex issues... i'll put mine in. I seem to be getting more and more lethargic every time i jerk-off. It wasn't this tiring before, but then again before I hadn't been suffering from a drastic drop in my weight. Did any of you ever notice that post-climax tiredness increasing after losing too much weight? I'm losing a lot of my hair too, and I'm guessing it has to do with the weight loss more than the obsessive need to pleasure myself.

It's called "Getting older". And what Optimus said.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

it was originally depression, loss of appetite, and then i started running because that was the only thing that felt good.

thing is i know i'm supposed to get sleepy after climax but it just seems more so now than it was before. i dont think depression is the reason for that, right?

Well do you feel any more or less tired the rest of your day?

I mean, when you eat healthy and excersize, you may feel you have more energy. But because your so not used to feeling groggy anymore, perhaps that kind of tiredness you get after climax feels stronger.

Alternatively, if you have lower energy than usual and are more tired all the time, then anything that normally takes a bit of energy could feel like it costs more.

If there has been absolutely no change to your energy levels tho... Then I dunno

Maybe you're just over thinking it.

It's certainly not an issue worth any kind of worry.

 

[Nave 'Torment']

As are men Dreadstar , some people are just better at overcoming them than others. Is fling girl a priority in your life though? As in, do you want anything more out of her or is the nick-name solid?

 

[Nave 'Torment']

It's called "Getting older". And what Optimus said.

Well that's a relief

Well do you feel any more or less tired the rest of your day?

I mean, when you eat healthy and excersize, you may feel you have more energy. But because your so not used to feeling groggy anymore, perhaps that kind of tiredness you get after climax feels stronger.

Alternatively, if you have lower energy than usual and are more tired all the time, then anything that normally takes a bit of energy could feel like it costs more.

If there has been absolutely no change to your energy levels tho... Then I dunno

Maybe you're just over thinking it.

It's certainly not an issue worth any kind of worry.

Nahh, I'm not overtly concerned about it, but that seems to be the only thing relevant i could add to the conversation :P but um, no i think it's the second one -- i do feel more tired most of the time so it would make sense.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

It's called "Getting older". And what Optimus said.

Ha! Love how you associated this with Nell, and not Nave. Like it's assumed he chronically *********est:.

I'll weigh in on the *********ion topic:

Spoiler

I find that when I'm dating someone I effectively stop *********ing unless, of course, we stop having sex at all. In fact unless I've gone through a drought, porn generally doesn't appeal to me. It's crude and effective though, but if I have a someone available at least, I tend to not really find myself tempted to do it.

Also...

Spoiler

Anyone notice a size increase when they are getting laid regularly. I feel like I've read that somewhere, and it would make sense to me scientifically. Glands definitely respond to increased sexual activity in other ways.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

Except the problems caused by weed

As long as you can pay for your drugs, they are good drugs.

 

[Figs]

Is it something you'll eventually come off? Because if it is, just wait it out. As soon as your off them, things should return to normal.

I'm about to lose my health insurance in a week so I'm going to let the doctor know that I want off of it. Especially since it costs $600 a month with no benefits.

 

[knowsbleed]

Only cold sores, which are on the outside of the mouth. Canker sores, which are inside, are usually caused by stress or injury to the mouth or nutritional deficiencies.

I have learned something new today, and it brings me great relief as I sometimes get the occasional canker sore but never cold sores. Are canker sores contagious?

 

[Nave 'Torment']

Ha! Love how you associated this with Nell, and not Nave. Like it's assumed he chronically *********est:.

I thought that was a typo... or a general indictment of my non-existence in any group of people


As for the diminished need to *********e when with someone, yeah I'll admit you're not the only one there. It's even moreso if you're already having sex with her.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

As long as you can pay for your drugs, they are good drugs.

Not if you got panic attacks and paranoia from smoking too much in your teens

I'm about to lose my health insurance in a week so I'm going to let the doctor know that I want off of it. Especially since it costs $600 a month with no benefits.

Yeah defo sounds like a good plan then

 

[The Guard]

Ha! Love how you associated this with Nell, and not Nave. Like it's assumed he chronically *********es.

Typo.