I've had female friends confide in me that they're afraid to out-and-out tell a guy friend they're off-limits because they know that the guy will dump them as a friend in a hot second once he knows he won't get into their pants.
There is an old adage in business that you shouldn't slam the door in someone's face because you never know when you might need their service.
If someone brags about dumping someone after the first night of sex then maybe just maybe that person is a jerk.I'm guessing Dave is you?
You see this here is a complete story. There is nothing further you need to add to it. Lisa doesn't like Dave, I don't understand what's so confusing about this. Maybe Lisa's not turned on by Animal Rescue charities, and before you say "she says she loves animals" that whole aspect of Dave's character is eronious because clear Dave is not the guy she is looking for.
Question: Why do you assume Brad is a "jerk" for doing this. I mean bragging is a little *****ey, but maybe, just maybe they were sexually attracted to each other and there wasn't much else to the relationship. Sometimes that's just the way it is.
I'm guessing Brad asked her out and she said yes
Yeah probably.
You know people who aren't "capable" of dumping other people? Dave knew nothing about Lisa, he could've gotten her home like Brad and found out she was a complete psycho b*tch who takes things to fast.
Well I think hotness is one of the initial reasons why a guy would go after a girl in the first place, but making generalizations about what ALL women are like if you get rejected is not very nice.t:
At the same time it usually makes people feel bad when they think they're leading someone on.
I'm not going to outrightly defend that behavior, but I will say that's not uncommon and is more or less a guy thing. It's not nice, but if Lisa found out she'd get over it fairly quickly. The fact that Brad brags about banging someone probably isn't an overall good representation of his character, and it's not as off the wall as you seem to think it is. Dave wasn't there for the "dumping" so I'm guessing Dave doesn't know jacksh** about what went on between Lisa and Brad.
I know of guys who kept up the nice guy charade until they had a woman's heart then they showed their true colors.
but Brad isn't bragging about sex, he's bragging about dumping someone after sex.
That's irrelevant. You're making snap judgements about both Brad and Lisa, which ultimately is what's doing in Dave. Brad may be a super nice dude overall (or maybe he's just hung like a horse) and Dave is only seeing what he wants to see about him. Same with Lisa. Lisa could be a dumb f***ing headcase who falls for Brad's routine and would drive Dave up a wall if they ever started dating. Point is people are not two-dimensional objects. What makes Brad attractive to Lisa may be completely incidental to their situation, which is something Dave has no control over. You talk about Brad as a manipulator, but Dave's just as bad if not worse. He's sociopathically willing to superficially alter himself in hopes that Lisa will fall for him, at least when Brad realizes he cannot keep a charade going he cuts it off to spare her the grief.
I never said Dave was phoney with Lisa.
I don't think like that. Perhaps my standards are too high.
This reminds me of when Christians say stuff like "have you ever lied? Then you're a sinner!" As if that time you lied defines your entire character. You don't see how anyone who brags about dumping a girl could be a nice guy because you're so focused on that one aspect you assume it defines the whole person. You think Brad defines himself by that? Probably not. Similarly it seems you think Lisa is just some dumb b*tch who if she just wised up would **** Dave's ****. Seems like Dave is the a**hole here.
Yeah, there aren't many female friends or acquaintences I haven't thought about doing.
Chris Rock - Platonic female friends are just women we haven't had a chance to **** yet.
As a dude, I won't lie...every female friend I have had I have thought about what it would be like to have sex with, but either never had the opportunity or just eventually stopped posing the question.
Chris Rock - Platonic female friends are just women we haven't had a chance to **** yet.
As a dude, I won't lie...every female friend I have had I have thought about what it would be like to have sex with, but either never had the opportunity or just eventually stopped posing the question.
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