SD was leaps and bounds better than what they did with SM3 and WoS
Other than the zip attack, wall fights, some funny dialogue, and free roam swinging, WoS is worthless, but it still plays a tad bit better
SM3, weeeeellllll, I got far luckier than you did with it, but even if I had the issue you faced it's still much much much much much better than SD
Jumping is better, swinging is better, web attacks are better, speed of defeating thugs is better, jumping from walls and wall sprinting is really fun, pole swing is glorious, mission variety is better. It felt like a Spider-Man game with more freedom, plus there are those "Spidey tells you what you need to do, but you can do something else to pass" moments
Fighting against New Goblin, one of the best fights in any video game (after QTE sequence), I love letting him get hit by a train
There is no way I can see what makes SD a decent game, let alone better than an actual good game (even with its flaws)