super-bats said:
ok.....but the actions have to fit the character......
I'm not a fan of Men in Black........so I can't really speak to their characters.....but I don't think we look to MIB for inspiration or role models.....
but......it doesn't fit the character of SUPERMAN........Superman is supposed to be the pinnacle of moral responsibility..........
As Jor-El says.....Supes is supposed to be our LIGHT....our inspiration.......what kind of role model is a guy who sleeps with a girl.....gets her pregnant......erases her memory of the whole incident......and then...on top of all that........leaves her for 5+ years without a world.........
that's not Superman to me.....that's not a role model or inspiration to me......nor would it be to my kids, if I had any.....
THat's open to determination. There is no hard fast ethical breach on premarital sex. None. None whatsoever. Objections against premarital sex are simply mere opinion, typically derived from socio-religous foundations.
Premarital sex is not, say...murder -- which is typically regarded by most rational beings as "wrong."
Secondly, role models make mistakes. It's what makes them role models. They are able to be role models by virtue of being falliable like us. If they are not, then their inspirational roles are mooted by the fact that we can never be like them. For a religous example, The Old Testamenet could be seen as a failure of God's part to properly connect with his creation. Only after Jesus walked and lived as a man, became as falliable as one, was God's true inspirational message realized.
Third, Superman had no recollection nor idea that he had gotten Lois pregnant. For all intents and purposes, he could safely assume his Kryptionian DNA would prevent such a thing. Also, Lois Lane could have legitimately been on the pill and the pill simply did not work with the added variable of extraterrestrial DNA. Perhaps they took all the precautions, but Jason still arrived.
Superman "erasing" Lois' memory is up for debate as ethical. Even still, this Superman is not neccessarily Singer's version, since Singer's actually recorded as saying that he just assumed Lois knew they'd screwed. So, to slam Singer and Singer's Superman for that action is both irrelevant and impossible -- it doesn't apply. But were it still, you'd have to explain the new found ethical barries of a situation that has never before existed on Earth. Also, the "wrongness" of this action is mitigated when one considers the above paragraph and how Superman may have had no reason to suspect he'd impregnanted her.
Lastly, him leaving. Yes, it was ****ed up for him to leave without saying Goodbye. That's about it. Yes, it was wrong. But considering the amount of pressure and the biological yaerning he was experiencing to meet his homeworld, I'd say this "flaw" is forgivable on Superman's part.
And, how is it not inspirational that after having experienced and gone through all that, Superman returns to make the right choices and even beseech his son to human parents for the sake of the child?