So, Peter being a complete jerk and showing no regard with people is fine because they love each other. I am sorry, that does not excuse it. Spider-Man saving people is not dickish. Though that guy lost his flower, Styx could cause way more harm. That is not being a jerk. That is trying to do your best to stop something worse. That is noble. Not caring about the well-being for others cause you locked eyes with your girlfriend is just reckless, on top of bad writing. That is the kind of recklessness Peter is not guitly of. You know, great power and great responsibilility and all.