If you want to see over-thinking, read up on Jimmy Carter's handling of the Iran hostage situation. Or his "Man on the Mountain" soul searching that led to the "Malaise" Speech over two weeks later. Yikes.
It's hard to read about the Clinton-Obama relationship because the DNC is still divided so closely on that, it's hard to say if it is as strained as the article says. What is clear is that Hillary wanted the no-fly zone and Obama wanted as much international support as possible before he would do it. So, I can believe in the disconnect and frustration there.
However, HIllary has been signaling for the last 6-9 months that she would not return for a second term. So whether she is furious over the Libyan situation or not, she's already on her way out. She has to start organizing her base for 2016, after all....
I'm just saying.