The Last Crusade of Relationships

[DV8]

Yes I did, few more times actually.

She felt bad and wanted to make sure my gear still worked.

I think some women are really turned on by violence. It was not a self esteem issue either. This was a girl who knew she was good looking, and did not want to get tied down, was into partying, and had a lot of male attention and options. So, the only thing I can assume, is she is attracted to violent men.

HA!! Good form, old man . . . GOOD FORM

 

[SuperMike335!!]

OTOH, all that goes out the window if it's violence on THEM. I can't think of a single reason why any self-respecting woman would like to get a frying pan to her face or some other physical violence that sends her to the hospital.

Sadomasochism is one thing, but capability for extreme debilitating violence is another.

Then you will be glad to know that frying pan to a woman's face is not on my bucket list.

Seriously, DO you know someone that actually happened too?

 

[terry78]

Throttle the **** out of her for getting too big for her britches however, has a pin in it.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

OTOH, all that goes out the window if it's violence on THEM. I can't think of a single reason why any self-respecting woman would like to get a frying pan to her face or some other physical violence that sends her to the hospital.

Sadomasochism is one thing, but capability for extreme debilitating violence is another.

Totally true, but I agree with what SuperMike is saying, a lot of women do love violence.

I see it all the time outside our local club, there's always a few girls that cause a situation. They run over to their bloke saying 'waaa, that guy was just talking to me like scum' and off runs the boyfriend to smack the poor chum, who only made the mistake of speaking to her, in the face.

Personally, I think it's pathetic.

I did used to love getting guys to challenge one of my exes to an arm wrestle though. He wasn't a particularly big or muscly guy, but he had a real knack to it, and he NEVER lost. These big guys would come up and look at him like it was gonna be easy, and they were always so riled up when he kept beating them

 

[steintym]

I love this thread ....

That is all, thank you.

 

[SuperMike335!!]

Totally true, but I agree with what SuperMike is saying, a lot of women do love violence.

I see it all the time outside our local club, there's always a few girls that cause a situation. They run over to their bloke saying 'waaa, that guy was just talking to me like scum' and off runs the boyfriend to smack the poor chum, who only made the mistake of speaking to her, in the face.

Personally, I think it's pathetic.

I did used to love getting guys to challenge one of my exes to an arm wrestle though. He wasn't a particularly big or muscly guy, but he had a real knack to it, and he NEVER lost. These big guys would come up and look at him like it was gonna be easy, and they were always so riled up when he kept beating them

Arm wrestling is a lot more about technique than just brute power. I've seen strong guys break their own arms pulling.

They get stuck in a top roll and a hook, and they don't know what is going on, so they twist their body in a last ditch effort turning their chest away from their arm.

The humerus bone is not designed to take twisting force, and so they essentially cause a spiral fracture in their own arm.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Arm wrestling is a lot more about technique than just brute power. I've seen strong guys break their own arms pulling.

They get stuck in a top roll and a hook, and they don't know what is going on, so they twist their body in a last ditch effort turning their chest away from their arm.

The humerus bone is not designed to take twisting force, and so they essentially cause a spiral fracture in their own arm.

Ouch

Personally, I have absolutely no technique. Small childen can beat me

 

[SuperMike335!!]

Ouch

Personally, I have absolutely no technique. Small childen can beat me

One of my personal hero's, Magnus Samuelsson, all 200cm and 155kg of him, will be happy to teach you plenty:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLP1J1pea4M

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

The Relationship Advice Thread has turned into the Beat The **** Out Of Each Other and Flex While You Teabag Them Thread.

 

[SuperMike335!!]

The Relationship Advice Thread has turned into the Beat The **** Out Of Each Other and Flex While You Teabag Them Thread.

Hey, LibidoLoca started it.

Besides, it obviously has a lot to do with relationships.

 

[steintym]

The Relationship Advice Thread has turned into the Beat The **** Out Of Each Other and Flex While You Teabag Them Thread.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Relationship lessons/advice to be taken from the last few pages of discussion on violence:

1. For guys = Before you take a girl home, ask her if her father is a psycho who is likely to show up at your door and kick you in the nuts

2. For girls = smacking a guy in the face because he dissed your man is a little emasculating

 

[enterthemadness]

Funny you say that, as some people think I look like Goldberg a little.

Maybe cuz I'm a Jew with big traps?

You look kinda like a young Goldberg before his wild made up win streak of like 162-0. Seriously WCW...he wasn't wrestling 6 days a week..

 

[Anita18]

The Relationship Advice Thread has turned into the Beat The **** Out Of Each Other and Flex While You Teabag Them Thread.

This necessitates a certain Christian Bale gif, but I'm at work...

 

[Dark Raven]

Onto a different subject than nutcrackers, jawbreakers or spare ribs, how do people feel about dating someone with either the same name as a person in their family or someone with the same name as an ex?

Not that I've had the opportunity myself, but I think I would find it rather weird if presentated with that situation. I don't think I'd be able to get my head around it, especially someone with the same name as a family member. It wouldn't feel right. I'd always be imagining that other person whenever I spoke their name.

Thoughts?

 

[Anita18]

Onto a different subject than nutcrackers, jawbreakers or spare ribs, how do people feel about dating someone with either the same name as a person in their family or someone with the same name as an ex?

Not that I've had the opportunity myself, but I think I would find it rather weird if presentated with that situation. I don't think I'd be able to get my head around it, especially someone with the same name as a family member. It wouldn't feel right. I'd always be imagining that other person whenever I spoke their name.

Thoughts?

You could give them a cute nickname and never call them by their real name.

 

[Lily Adler]

To be honest, I could never do it. Similar to your reasons which will eventually lead to a weird place.

 

[SuperMike335!!]

You're looking at this all wrong.

If you date two different people with the same name, its less problems, as you won't mix up their names.

 

[Anita18]

I dunno, I think that's leaning toward being too darned picky.

My bf and his dad share the same first name. His mom (who's divorced from his dad) still calls them both by the same name, although adding the suffice "the younger" and "the elder" to differentiate the two. Although yeah, if one of them is your child, it's probably different, but you could also argue that every time she uttered the name, she'd be reminded of her ex-husband and might want to refer to her son by his middle name, etc etc.

YMMV, but depending on the commonality of the first names of your family members or ex's, it could very well whittle down the field by a lot.

 

[Dark Raven]

You could give them a cute nickname and never call them by their real name.

They might not like that nickname.

And also, imagine if your name is John Doe, and your sister is Jane Doe, and let's say she's even named after your mother. Then John Doe marries another girl named Jane, and she also becomes Jane Doe. Every time you see that name in print or hear someone else referring to her, you'll be reminded of your sister and mother. Not good!

 

[SpideyVille]

Onto a different subject than nutcrackers, jawbreakers or spare ribs, how do people feel about dating someone with either the same name as a person in their family or someone with the same name as an ex?

Not that I've had the opportunity myself, but I think I would find it rather weird if presentated with that situation. I don't think I'd be able to get my head around it, especially someone with the same name as a family member. It wouldn't feel right. I'd always be imagining that other person whenever I spoke their name.

Thoughts?

My sister is dating a guy with the same name as me and whenever she talks about him on the phone with my mom, she automatically thinks my sister is talking about me for a second. Luckily she lives in another state so my mom realizes quickly that she's not talking about me.

But personally, I've never liked a girl with the same name as a family member, though I have liked a couple with the same name as people that I know either through friends or family, and it can be weird. But I don't think it would bother me enough to make me feel weird. I mean it might sound weird at first because you automatically associate a certain person with a certain name, but I think that would go away after a while.

 

[Anubis]

I gotta tell you, that sounds pretty damn stupid to be weirded out over such a thing.

 

[Anita18]

They might not like that nickname.

Unless you're giving a nickname to your child as a baby, people have some say over what their nickname should be.

 

[Anita18]

My sister is dating a guy with the same name as me and whenever she talks about him on the phone with my mom, she automatically thinks my sister is talking about me for a second. Luckily she lives in another state so my mom realizes quickly that she's not talking about me.

See, that would never happen in my family because we ONLY refer to each other by our nicknames. It's frankly amazing that we don't have anyone else close to us that share my bf's name and my sister's bf's name, because their names are pretty darned common.

 

[SpideyVille]

See, that would never happen in my family because we ONLY refer to each other by our nicknames. It's frankly amazing that we don't have anyone else close to us that share my bf's name and my sister's bf's name, because their names are pretty darned common.

See, now my family never had nicknames or anything. We all go by our real names, and for the most part, we haven't really come by too many people with the same name. Ironically though, my brother was named after his dad, but since his dad walked out early in his life, mixing them up was never an issue.