The Offcial "How To Get A Girl Thread" Written By Members Of Hype.

[Deep Thinkin'!]

Compliments work great too. Don't say "I like your shirt" say ..."You look great in that shirt"

i know alot about women, and i'm still single. lol

That'll change soon my bro. Some girl will find you and love you to death. Trust me. Sweet and smartness are a key factor. Sure looks are a big part, but what the real good women are looking for is quality and substense, not skin.

 

[Shuley]

i wish i was 13 again, everything was so simple then, being 16 suxxorzz!

Get some of that young stuff while you still can...As you get older, the girls in your school become more and more attractive.Then you'll say...Man, I wish I was 16 again!

 

[Shuley]

That'll change soon my bro. Some girl will find you and love you to death. Trust me. Sweet and smartness are a key factor. Sure looks are a big part, but what the real good women are looking for is quality and substense, not skin.

good, I was really sweating the 0 votes I got the HHM tourment...lol.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

Girls can be irritatingly complicated. Especially if they play hard to get. Ugh.

When playing hard to get, most do it to find out how badly you want them. How far you'll go. It's a way to test you.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

good, I was really sweating the 0 votes I got the HHM tourment...lol.

You're a hidden jewel. Play it to your advantage. Once one girl has you and brags to all her friends how sweet you are to her, then all of them will come running after you.

 

[Fran]

Interesting intel.

Your itinerary is today at 2:45 P.M.

 

[Ghostvirus]

Girls can be irritatingly complicated. Especially if they play hard to get. Ugh.

Word.

It seems to be a lot like playing poker, & you don't know if the person is bluffing or not.

 

[Shuley]

When playing hard to get, most do it to find out how badly you want them. How far you'll go. It's a way to test you.

That's when you back off and down play it,she'll wonder where you went.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

That's when you back off and down play it,she'll wonder where you went.

Exactly.

If she really wanted you, she'll respond by your absense. If she doesn't respond, she wasn't even playing hard to get, or she realized that you didn't want her that bad.

 

[Master Chief]

http://www.laddertheory.com/

The ladder theory. Unbelievably true. Read it, I can guarantee annnnyone with woman experience can connect with it.

I always land on the friends ladder, and I like it there. Either that or I've convinced myself so over a while, but, it is what it is and being a confidant is awesome.

 

[WorthyStevens]

When playing hard to get, most do it to find out how badly you want them. How far you'll go. It's a way to test you.

Still, it plays into insecurity/trusting issues. If she's that insecure with trust that she has to test me, then that speaks volumes to me. And not in a good way.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

Still, it plays into insecurity/trusting issues. If she's that insecure with trust that she has to test me, then that speaks volumes to me. And not in a good way.

Yeah, I disagree with the play-hard-to-get manor. Just confuses everybody.

Most girls who do it are betchez, don't waste your time.

 

[WorthyStevens]

I'm not. There are plenty of other women I can have, so I'm not stressing.

 

[Shuley]

Yeah, I disagree with the play-hard-to-get manor. Just confuses everybody.

Most girls who do it are betchez, don't waste your time.

Men don't admire women with self esteem issues. Guys like a woman with self respect and morals.Sure I wanna sleep with Tera Patrick till the cows come home,but I'd never take her home to mom.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

I'm not. There are plenty of other women I can have, so I'm not stressing.

Good choice.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

Men don't admire women with self esteem issues. Guys like a woman with self respect and morals.Sure I wanna sleep with Tera Patrick till the cows come home,but I'd never take her home to mom.

That's why you need to get to know the shy women. Yes they might not be most amazingly gorgeous thing, but most will be wonderful in the long run.

 

[Addendum]

But if you don't live with your parents, why the hell should mom get involved

 

[Shuley]

But if you don't live with your parents, why the hell should mom get involved

It's a figure of speech.

 

[Shuley]

That's why you need to get to know the shy women. Yes they might not be most amazingly gorgeous thing, but most will be wonderful in the long run.

I do like the shy ones, they are usually the best actually...problem is that they are always taken lol. I've heard "I have a boyfriend" that if I had a nickel for each time I heard it.....

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

I do like the shy ones, they are usually the best actually...problem is that they are always taken lol. I've heard "I have a boyfriend" that if I had a nickel for each time I heard it.....

Really? All the shy girls I know are single and praying for someone to come along.....

 

[Shuley]

Really? All the shy girls I know are single and praying for someone to come along.....

I'm going on 31...not 15,it gets harder as you get older,for men anyway.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

I noticed lately that I've met a lot of attractive men... but I'm not attracted to them. They're friendly and nice guys too....

I rather be with an average looking guy with an actual personality than constantly plain and boring nice guys. I'm not talking about a dangerous guy, but one who shows depth... who isn't afraid to be himself and isn't worried about what others think of him. That to me and several other girls (I've talked to a few about this) agree. An average lookin' guy with depth is much more attractive to us than a hot buff plain personality guy.

I'm going on 31...not 15,it gets harder as you get older,for men anyway.

I know of several women 20 and upwards.... I was not describing my age group.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

The total and real truth, just be yourself.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

http://www.laddertheory.com/

The ladder theory. Unbelievably true. Read it, I can guarantee annnnyone with woman experience can connect with it.

I always land on the friends ladder, and I like it there. Either that or I've convinced myself so over a while, but, it is what it is and being a confidant is awesome.

Not completely true.

I have one female friend in particular, who I am -very- attracted to (she's easily the most attractive woman that I know), but I do -not- want to have sex with her.

And it's more than just the fact that she has a fiance` who I am friends with; if they weren't together, I couldn't see us doing any of that kind of stuff together, because of how close we are as friends.

Also, said woman is not with her man because of money, or power, or any of that shallow stuff.

Really, that whole "ladder theory" thing, while true for -some- women, basically sounds like some disgruntled ******* who couldn't get any, so he went on this huge long tangent about how the female psyche works.

Granted, I'm just as frustrated with women as anyone (I am 24 years old, have never been in a real relationship, and yes, am still a virgin ) but I really don't buy into any of this non-sense.

 

[Superman79]

I know of several women 20 and upwards.... I was not describing my age group.

Please send pictures and pass my # on to them