I think it's great that you don't like this interpretation, even if is all about the suit, of the character, honestly, someone has to.
I understand and encourage myself to listen (read) people's differents opinions about the SEVERAL aproaches of the same comicbook superhero, to have a wider knowledge.
I didn't like SR, and I think it's the perfect example: SR have a excellent cast, the suit was more or less fidedign to the original suit and the characterizations were not bad at all.
But, I think that THAT Superman didn't worked out, it was flawed, didn't feel like Superman. Lex wasn't lex, and honestly the suit was stupid. But hey, it's my opinion!
Same with the SM trilogy, I loved the villains, william dafoe like the Green Goblin is EPIC, the megalomaniac persona was excellent; Doc Ock also, everyone of them were stars.
But the story wasn't really interesting, the scenes didn't feel emotional at all, and Peter Parker instead of a shy kid, extreme intelligent with deep emotions of isolation, was a goofy stupid boy.