The Relationship Thread: Single Posters on Patrol - Part 18

[Warhammer]

So to stick to this 'don't sleep with someone until your in a relationship' thing, i'd have to be willing to not have sex or any kind of closeness for a long time.

Do it.

As cliche as it might seem in movies/television, it's true. Ideally, after what you said about your bad experience earlier, it won't hurt you at all. Make the sex worth something. The man will have new respect for you because sex with you would have taken some work and time. Let's be real now. Sex isn't the end all be all. If you truly desire a solid relationship with a man, you'll be patient.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

There is like 2 women here.

But I'm sure there are women who would. There was that internet picture of a woman holding up her man on her back who didn't have any legs. I'm not exactly sure if those were an injury or he's always been like that.

I might be wrong, but I think the story behind that picture is that they met after he lost his legs? I don't recall. But I don't think he was born that way.

It's the opposite direction, but one of my really close female friends (one that I mentioned earlier) has Crohn's Disease, and it keeps her in a wheelchair / scooter quite often. She -can- walk, but a lot of times she needs her scooter to get around anywhere. She's had more than a couple boyfriends, and is currently in a serious relationship with a really good dude that she's known for awhile. Granted, I don't know where "part time immobilized by Crohn's Disease" fits on the handicap scale, but it's about the only thing I got.

I'm a dwarf.

Well, there's Peter Dinklage?

I can't really offer up an opinion though, I actually don't know anyone with Dwarfism, so I've never seen first hand how people respond to them.

Question - is it off putting if a women keeps money in her bra? Or is it sexy?

I can't give a simple answer to that, in all honesty. I've seen women do it where I just roll my eyes, because it feels like they are trying too hard to be "sexy", and I've seen women do it where... well... it's just convenient to do that and not have to carry a purse around.

 

[Erzengel]

Yeah, it's just I can't seem to find anyone who wants to date me anyway.

So to stick to this 'don't sleep with someone until your in a relationship' thing, i'd have to be willing to not have sex or any kind of closeness for a long time.

I would have slept with more people if the didn't have that attitude.

It's admirable and I'm sure after your recent experience its' something that would seem very tempting.

But I hope you realize how hard it can be in practice, just by some of the stories you tell. A few drinks, a few kisses, a ride home, or why don't you sleep here, makes that difficult. More of you have to be conscious of the situations you put yourself in.

Most decent guys shouldn't fault you for your new attitude.

 

[Hyde]

Question - is it off putting if a women keeps money in her bra? Or is it sexy?

I find it kinda attractive I guess. I have a friend who keeps her phone in her bra, one time she stole mine and put it down there. I'm not explaining how I got it back...

 

[Ms. Marvel]

I find it kinda attractive I guess. I have a friend who keeps her phone in her bra, one time she stole mine and put it down there. I'm not explaining how I got it back...

Did you dangle her by her feet and shake her until your phone dropped out?

 

[Hyde]

Did you dangle her by her feet and shake her until your phone dropped out?

Maybe

 

[Green Goblin]

Just put money in your wallet/purse. No need to have it in areas that should not be touched ladies and gentlemen... Lol

 

[Ms. Marvel]

My friend put her phone in her bra and you could see the light from the phone through her top. That's one way of attracting perverts/robbers at the same time.

 

[Green Goblin]

My friend put her phone in her bra and you could see the light from the phone through her top. That's one way of attracting perverts/robbers at the same time.

If I put my phone in my pants would a woman find that attractive.

 

[Ms. Marvel]

If I put my phone in my pants would a woman find that attractive.

She may find it funny and she may find that attractive.

 

[Green Goblin]

She may find it funny and she may find that attractive.

I could say "Baby you light up my world like nobody else" winkayyyyy face!

 

[Ms. Marvel]

I could say "Baby you light up my world like nobody else" winkayyyyy face!

 

[Green Goblin]

I take that applaud as a flirty comment

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Do it.

As cliche as it might seem in movies/television, it's true. Ideally, after what you said about your bad experience earlier, it won't hurt you at all. Make the sex worth something. The man will have new respect for you because sex with you would have taken some work and time. Let's be real now. Sex isn't the end all be all. If you truly desire a solid relationship with a man, you'll be patient.

It's not the actual sex that i'd mind going without (cause I have more success in the pleasure area by myself anyway), it's just the confirmation that i'm attractive.

But like my friend said earlier, you can still enjoy someones attention even if you don't go all the way.

I can't give a simple answer to that, in all honesty. I've seen women do it where I just roll my eyes, because it feels like they are trying too hard to be "sexy", and I've seen women do it where... well... it's just convenient to do that and not have to carry a purse around.

Yeah that's me.

I would have slept with more people if the didn't have that attitude.

It's admirable and I'm sure after your recent experience its' something that would seem very tempting.

But I hope you realize how hard it can be in practice, just by some of the stories you tell. A few drinks, a few kisses, a ride home, or why don't you sleep here, makes that difficult. More of you have to be conscious of the situations you put yourself in.

Most decent guys shouldn't fault you for your new attitude.

Yeah it will be difficult, but in the long run it'll be better for my integrity.

I find it kinda attractive I guess. I have a friend who keeps her phone in her bra, one time she stole mine and put it down there. I'm not explaining how I got it back...

Yeah, I keep my phone there. And sometimes my keys

My friend put her phone in her bra and you could see the light from the phone through her top. That's one way of attracting perverts/robbers at the same time.

Yeah that happened to me too, and my friend got really confused and thought it was someone with a laser pen flashing it on my boob.

 

[Anita18]

My mom volunteers as a cashier and she hates it when a woman carries her money in her bra. Especially when it's been really hot and the money is sweaty.

But we don't have nearly enough cleavage to do that, so it's not something I normally think about.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

My mom volunteers as a cashier and she hates it when a woman carries her money in her bra. Especially when it's been really hot and the money is sweaty.

Kinda like the time when I was working retail, I had a girl come in and pay for her purchase with a stack of $1's...

And they were gross and sweaty...

And she said "Sorry, I just got off work"

And I was like " "

 

[Anubis]

I'm not gonna bother doing a bunch of quotes, but I'll just give focus on a few things, if you'll indulge me.

Hopeful - Guy sounds like a kind of a dick. Your text was pretty good, but telling him [blackout]His Spunk tastes like moose piss[/blackout] woulda been nice too.

Yes, taking it slow for awhile might be a good idea. But God bless you for helping out a guy in need. You're a good person, and don't let anybody make you think differently. That guys a c**t, and shoulda, AT THE VERY LEAST, bought you a gift basket or something. Muffins woulda totally been appropriate.

Yes women who keep money in their bra is hot...and practical.

General Ramalamadingdong - There's somebody for everybody. Actually, there's multiple somebodies for everybody. I know several Little People who get tons of action. One particular was a Gangsta and a drug dealer, and has like 6 illegitimate kids running around with 5 different women....and that's just the ones we know of. What with Peter Dinklage being all awesome and ridiculously hot in GOT, you may get a little spill over because of it. But DO NOT let a girl make you dress up in renaissance outfits and start calling you the God of **** and wine. (unless you want to cuz that sounds kinda awesome.) Trust me, it works. You shoulda seen how many dark skinned brothas was gettin' it in left and right in the 90's after Wesley Snipes showed up.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Everytime Anubis posts, he wins this thread.

 

[Grievous]

I have a class with this girl, we knew each other before due to riding the same bus in high school but never really talked much, anyway I noticed she smiled a lot and made eye contact and wanted me to join her in the computer lab. Texted me one morning I am assuming to see if I was going to be going to the computers. I thought she might just be wanting someone she knows to keep her company but we really are not super close so in the lab I brought up the idea of doing something over the weekend which she smiled and said she could find out or something like that. Well a day passes and I decide to text her and I ask what's up and she says she is getting ready, and ask if she can do something like see a movie this weekend, and she says she has to help her mom with errands. I asked about Sunday or Monday and she said she had to go to her cousins house. She said she was sorry but I told her not to be and maybe some other time unless she didn't want to and that was it. She is Indian and my dad says her parents may not want her dating a white guy, or he said I may be trying to move too fast. I believe her story about the errands because she has said before that her and her mom share the car.

 

[Immortalfire]

A girl I know fairly well and find very attractive, looked at me tonight.

I guess things are getting serious.

 

[Anubis]

Heh.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Hopeful - Guy sounds like a kind of a dick. Your text was pretty good, but telling him [blackout]His Spunk tastes like moose piss[/blackout] woulda been nice too.

Yes, taking it slow for awhile might be a good idea. But God bless you for helping out a guy in need. You're a good person, and don't let anybody make you think differently. That guys a c**t, and shoulda, AT THE VERY LEAST, bought you a gift basket or something. Muffins woulda totally been appropriate.

Yes women who keep money in their bra is hot...and practical.

That post both made me laugh out loud and tear up from the sentiment

Thanks

 

[GENERAL RAAM582]

General Ramalamadingdong - There's somebody for everybody. Actually, there's multiple somebodies for everybody. I know several Little People who get tons of action. One particular was a Gangsta and a drug dealer, and has like 6 illegitimate kids running around with 5 different women....and that's just the ones we know of. What with Peter Dinklage being all awesome and ridiculously hot in GOT, you may get a little spill over because of it. But DO NOT let a girl make you dress up in renaissance outfits and start calling you the God of **** and wine. (unless you want to cuz that sounds kinda awesome.) Trust me, it works. You shoulda seen how many dark skinned brothas was gettin' it in left and right in the 90's after Wesley Snipes showed up.

Thanks. I wasn't sure it was the handicap thing or my shyness/antisocialness. So, yeah, eventually I'll meet someone. Thanks for the reply.

 

[webhead9707]

For those who remember my situation, today I hung out with her and her boyfriend and didn't act like a third wheel at all. I dominated. I'm starting to get the feeling I have a pretty good chance.

 

[Ms. Marvel]

For those who remember my situation, today I hung out with her and her boyfriend and didn't act like a third wheel at all. I dominated. I'm starting to get the feeling I have a pretty good chance.

I hope you're not planning on splitting them up or anything.