Raiders of the Official Relationship Thread

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[LOBO3315a]

Ignoring Dominques character, and back to down on earth right here.

Rape fantasy IS extremely common among women, especially when the rapist is in fact the epitome of the dominant and powerful male. This points to the root of the attraction being the power itself.

I see these "Rape fantasies" more as a desire for sex where the male is the one in charge, where he does not gently stop to ask her, interrupting the moment of passion, "does it feel good?", or "are you enjoying it?".

Where instead he really takes her and uses her sexually as if she were his possession for his own gratification. By that I do not mean being a two pump chump, but rather being rough, dominant, willing to call her names and talk really dirty too. To even go so far as to choke her, spit on her, and pull her hair. Where when the sex is done, the bed is a mess, books have fallen off the shelf, her hair is a giant matted sweat covered mop and she likely has some bruises from where he simply gripped her flesh too hard.

• That is what a lot of women do want/crave sexually and are in our modern and soft society they are often lacking in their lives. I should say literally starved of by the masses of low testosterone men who are her only options.

It is so uncommon to find, and so common in desire that if a guy does this for a girl a few times, she may become a stalker, and you will have to get her number blocked and still she will try to find ways to contact, and always seems to find a another way to just pop up in your life.

*waits for the ***-storm to roll in*

 

[bullets]

Hide your kids,hide your wife.....

 

[Lasirius]

Last night I was on the IMDB boards (I know) for American Horror Story and this chick had come up with a thread title "I want to be raped by Tate" and continued by saying that if nobody wanted it they're lying.

 

[Anubis]

50 bucks says that wasn't a chick.

 

[Lasirius]

Most probably

 

[LOBO3315a]

Internet Drag Queens. You know I love them!

 

[Lily Adler]

I've heard worse.

 

[SuperSoldier985]

Ugh, I think I'm gonna have to resort to online datign

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

In response to bullets from the last thread:

I texted her back today now that I have coherent thought again. She says that she had fun, and is still thankful for me inviting her.

I suggested we get together sometime when shes free, and id give her the cd and stuff. She agreed, so well see if she follows up.

In the meantime, I have some other girls I need to follow up with.

 

[Lasirius]

Ugh, I think I'm gonna have to resort to online datign

Start looking in the IMDB boards.

 

[SpideyVille]

But you know, happily ever after is never guaranteed. I was reading an engagement story by someone at another forum, and it was really cute (or lack of proper engagement, as it were, which is why it was so cute ) and they had a happy 15-year marriage. It ended because he died of brain cancer.

There's only here and now. If you are really happy for just a few years, or even just a few months, maybe that would be worth it. But if it's mostly pain and few moments of happiness, I don't think that'd be worth it. I've known couples like that - half the time they're lovey dovey and the other half they're at each other's throats. Salvaging that sort of relationship isn't worth it to me, but it might be for them. It's really an individual thing.

My first bf and I didn't work out but I don't really regret dragging out the relationship 6 months longer than it should have lasted. I learned a lot from that.

Yeah, I guess like at the end the day, the question you have to ask is is the good so great that it overcomes the bad. Like the example you mention is what happened with my mom and my stepdad. They were together for 16 years and that was her longest relationship, but they would fight and argue 75% of the time. So much that it ruined a few of my birthdays because they would constantly disagree. But now that they're done, its been 3 years and she still thinks about him and can't move on and talks as though everything was great between them. I always tell her to move on but she can't and doesn't and its kinda hard to understand why, other than she's old and he is the only guy who tolerated her enough to not leave or cheat on her.

 

[Anubis]

I like what they said in Fables......"And they lived happily ever after.....for a time."

 

[Hound55]

Pfft, here we were having a fine conversation about Ayn Rand and then someone comes in and s**** all over it asking for some relationship advice.What the hell do they think this place is?

 

[Sloth7d]

Now I just feel bad.

 

[SuperSoldier985]

I just went to eharmony and spent 20 minutes filling out my personality questionnaire:

Ok, I'm off to kill myself. Bye guys

 

[Boy Scout]

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Haha nice.

 

[Hound55]

Ask them if they have any "adequate" matches.

You know, something that'll get you through the next 15-20 years where your only reason for living is because you want to outlast the other person so that you get to be the one who can date again...

 

[SuperMike335!!]

From experience?

One might call it that.

 

[SuperFerret]

I just went to eharmony and spent 20 minutes filling out my personality questionnaire:

Ok, I'm off to kill myself. Bye guys

Try a different site. Try a bunch all at once. Keep every option open.

 

[Anita18]

Ugh, I think I'm gonna have to resort to online datign

What's wrong with it?

I just went to eharmony and spent 20 minutes filling out my personality questionnaire:

Ok, I'm off to kill myself. Bye guys

Oh dear.

Eharmony was waaay too expensive for me, and I didn't like the idea of being "matched." Works for some people though, my bf's coworker is marrying his 100% match on Eharmony. It was actually pretty funny - she messaged him and was like, "We are 100% compatible, we should get together."

That was unromantic for even unromantic me. I like the reading (and deleting) and sending of messages to people you think are cute.

 

[SpideyVille]

See that's the thing that makes me very reluctant to try a dating site. Not that I think it doesn't work or isn't helpful, but for me personally I'd feel pressured to like someone who was 100% match for me. Like I fell in love with my friend's friend before I met her just because she seemed to be a good match for me. But obviously the chemistry wasn't there because I was not comfortable with being set up or matched with someone. I think that's the biggest thing that has kept me from trying one of those sites out. I still want to believe that I'll meet some girl the old fashioned way because that's romantic to me.

 

[Erzengel]

Sorry, SpideyVille, you really over think things a little too much and it really sounds like you are just making excuses.