PS- JewishHobbit I wasn't calling you out in this post or anything. I just saw the discussion going into this and picked your posts because I don't know how to multiquote the rest. Love and peace my man.
No problem. I know I've become fairly jaded through the years, particularly regarding Spider-Man, Marvel, and events. Call me out as often as you see fit. It's often justified
If you don't like the direction of characters, or titles, etc why not show it with your wallet? Comics are a consumer driven industry. Marvel pulls out these god awful events because they're so starved for readership. And all over comics related forums I see criticism and negativity for the way things are, with Spider-Man, or whichever character.
First off, the "speak with your wallet" mentality doesn't work for me because my $4 means nothing. My not buying an issue will not change a thing or show anyone my feelings on the comic. In fact, no one at Marvel even notices. The only people who notice are me (missing the character) and my comic shop (who lost sales). If enough people do this, then sure, it'll be noticed, but that seldom happens. I've bought very little Spider-Man since OMD, yet it's consistently been the highest selling Marvel ongoing for over a year or more. Obviously speaking with my wallet is doing nothing.
I personally would be fine with them if they developed a status quo that meant something, instead of the regression into old roles. It's boring. It's uninspired writing when it's pulled off badly and gives improper voicing to a character's "typical" judgments and morals, just to revive them or mysteriously return to how another writer did it with them.
This is the main reason why I have a hard time getting back in to Spider-Man. Prior to OMD there was progression with the character. We might not always like the progression, but at least we always felt like we were getting somewhere. After that story, I've realized that nothing will ever change in the life of Peter Parker and none of these current tales matter because they will always revert to 70s Parker at the latest and start over. I might get in to it for a while when I'm really missing the character who was my favorite for 15-20 years, but I quickly get bored when I'm reminded at how far off the character is from where he was pre-OMD. Sadly, I've come to the realization that this is the future of this title until it's reverted to an even younger Parker again in ten to twenty years.
But despite the negativity, still guys who don't like the product continue to buy it. Why? Loyalty? Why waste your money if it goes to something you do not enjoy (I say "waste" there because it seems appropriate when people nag and even send death threats to Slott but go out and buy his book)? The characters are fictional. You're not doing them any favors if you personally feel their iconography or characterization is being dragged over coals.
As I stated above, I don't buy Superior Spider-Man. After missing the character, I decided to give his book a fair chance with the start of Big Time and was instantly burned by the marriage mocking in the very first issue. Despite that, I kept going and bought maybe 10 issues of it. I enjoyed those 10 issues, but it never felt like the Spider-Man I loved reading about prior to OMD. It could be Slott's writing, it could simply be that it ISN'T the Spider-Man I loved, but I could only take so much of it before I lost interest (the price and double-shipping didn't help). So I no longer collect, though I do skim every issue to keep up with the plots. I'm buying the current arc, but that's just for Spidey 2099.
Like I said, I'm aware there's plenty of people who enjoy polarizing stuff like Superior (I being one of them, it's the greatest plan Ock has hatched in years and a firm kick in the ass for Peter Parker who has been stagnant for nearly 20 years) and stuff like big crossover events (I am not one of them). So my confusion is not directed towards them. What baffles me is people who continue to give money (3.99 an issue

but to each his own) to something they seem to know they are not going to like, or at least spend their time voicing mostly negative opinions on it. Is it really doing Iron Man favors if his comic sucks (in your eyes), but you continue to support it financially? Do you apply that reasoning to other aspects of your life?
Comics go through ups and downs, and if it's a genre or title that you've been with for years or decades, you know that it'll eventually get better, so why not stick with it? Sadly, I can no longer apply that to Spider-Man as the very fiber of the character I enjoyed has changed (some say for better, but I disagree).
As for events, they're different with each one. You don't KNOW that you aren't going to like it until it happens and you've already paid for it. Sometimes an event starts slow or lulls in the middle so you stick with it for the payoff. And most times an event is only 4-10 issues, so by the time you realize that you just really aren't enjoying it, you're already halfway through the event or more so you might as well finish it out to see if it picks up or not.
While the first "event" that I dropped partway was OMD, which I refused to buy the final issue of; Age of Ultron was the first real drop for me. I picked up the first 5 issues and realized that I just really hated the direction of the book and the characterizations. I know I'll eventually pick up what I didn't buy when I find them for cheap, but I didn't want to give Marvel my sales on those. Guess what? Those issues still sold like mad and Marvel didn't notice.
I hate to get philosophical in the Spider-Man comics forum

t: but I've just been noticing this trend since like Avengers Disassembled with it getting to extreme levels over all this Superior controversy. And I'm sure it's been going on well before that. Frustrated consumers who continue to line up for a producer that does not satisfy them. It doesn't make sense to me. Understanding your power as the buyer means Marvel or DC or whoever is inclined to listen to your grievances, as well as tastes that drive books getting sold. You already know what you do not like, so there's half the battle.
You must also keep in mind that while we may not like the current direction of a title, we still love the characters. Especially if you've been reading them for decades like myself. You keep going for the character, not the stories themselves, and when you do drop the book due to the direction, you still miss the character. It's unfortunately a hard battle to win mentally.
And typically, speaking for myself here, there are very few titles that I loath. When I speak about potentially dropping books that I'm not enjoying as much as others, it's more about finances than actually thinking the book sucks. My main complaints aren't on the comics themselves (because I have to be honest... Marvel's doing fairly well right now story wise) but on Marvel's business practices.
I mainly lurk around these boards, as I don't read comics as often as I used to. Most if not all of it due to what JH talks about here and Colossal Spoons and TMOB earlier. I think I'd participate more if I could understand the seemingly overall mentality. I'm aware guys like themanofbat enjoy the stories, but for those that don't, why buy into it?
Stop lurking. Join in more if for nothing else than the comrade.
