LOL . . . see, I knew you'd say that part in bold; the bottom line is, if you are physically attractive, DUDES ARE GOING TO TRY AND HAVE SEX WITH YOU; that is the way we're biologically programmed . . . maybe you're not understanding this because females are programmed to base their feelings of attraction more on personality or "swag" . . .
YES, you can have guy friends that like you for your personality but most guys are friends w/ girls because they wanted to bone them at one time; anyway, I'm confident that I made the point I was trying to make . . . I'm done now Lol
Look... it's obvious to me that you have simply lived a VERY different life to me.
In my world, I make friends with a man in exactly the same way I make friends with a woman. We talk, we have things in common, we have a laugh, we hang out some more, we like each other, we get to know each other. If there's no sexual chemistry or attraction, then it never progresses into anything more than friendship.
But i've always had ALOT of friends. Groups of us, that all would hang out, both together and one on one.
Let me illustrate with just a snap shot of what i'm talking about.
At high school age:
At college age:
University age:
Halloween this year:
Now, are you seriously suggesting that every single one of the people in those pictures, is only my friend because they secretly want to bang me?
Cause I can assure you, that's not true.
At this point, I just want to remind you of what you initially said which sparked this entire debate:
IMO your girl, if she is your girl, shouldn't even be talking to males "friends" unless they are gay; a "male friend" if he's not gay, a cousin, or been her friend since gradeschool is tryin to get in her pants in one way or another; she likes the attention and is not testing you, she's PLAYING you; it's a game; don't put up with it . . . that's all
Not to mention the blanket statement about all girls who aren't tomboys who hang out with male friends are *****.
I know that I have reacted very passionatly to your statements. But that's only because your statements are basically critiquing my ENTIRE LIFE and all my relationships with men.
I'm not saying that men and women who are friends don't occasionally consider each other in a sexual way even if they aren't that attracted to them. But that has absolutely no effect on whether or not a girl has the right to have male friends, talk to male friends, hang out with male friends when she is in a relationship.
And it certainly isn't the primary and most important reason that my male friendships began, nor why they are still going.
They are my friends because we have a lot of fun together. They are my friends because they are there for me in every way if I need them. They are my friends because I can talk to them when I am down, I can celebrate with them when I am happy.
I've lived with male friends, i've gone on holiday with male friends, I have male friends stay over on a frequent basis, and have even shared my bed with male friends completely plutonically.
If you don't have that with any women, then i'm truly sorry.
Cause your missing out by not being able to see women as anything but something you'd like to ****.
Having friends of the opposite gender is incredibly good for you IMO.
My girlfriend can hang out with whoever the **** she wants.
I knew I liked you
no, I haven't; I just have a hard time trusting people period . . . most women are liars bro; and most of the guys out here give them WAY too much credit . . . too many guys out here are soft; they approach women like they're going in for a job interview, they're trying to apply for the ass; I take the opposite approach
What makes you say most women are liars then? I mean, you've obviously have bad experience of that which has influence how you feel about them.
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