You may very well be right, I avoid both sides like the plague to be honest. For me it boils down to one thing though, which seems to come from the anti-Snyder crowd. And that is that they tend to question pro-Snyder folks as though attacking someone's preferences is like showing somebody why their math problem is wrong. It makes no sense, having the discussion is like each side addressing a door knob, nothing is going to change, there is no point.
Fact is Snyder is an above average film maker, with distinct aptitudes in some areas and distinct shortcomings in others. This means the film will inevitably have a certain tone and aesthetic to it. If people have a problem with that particular tone or aesthetic I can understand it and that's too bad, but running down a list of reasons why A/B/C makes Snyder bad or incapable seems like a massive waste of time.
It is what it is, chances are this film is going to feature good renditions of the majority of the characters, and look good doing so. If it can't feature every little nuance and aspect that hardcore fans have incorporated into their "ideal" iteration of a character that's too bad, and honestly no director on the face of the planet was going to manage it either.
The reason I find anti-Snyder's more annoying is that there seems to be an incessant need to attack the validity of somebody to hold subjective preferences. It's like trying to tell somebody they're objectively or factually wrong for not liking beetroot but eating carrots.