I don't dress up in costume for anything, I don't care about seeing comic book movies on opening night, I don't collect toys or buy superhero memorabilia, I don't play computer games unless its with people (friends & family never alone), I don't follow every film or tv show an actor does because they were in a nerd favourite movie
I don't judge others for doing those things its just not for me.
I will wear a superhero t-shirt, I do collect comics, I do discuss comic and film stuff and I do own/see superhero films thats it really. oh and I occasionally watch anime but stuff like Akira, Gundam Wing.