Then you know he'd never leave Earth and screw Lois over like he did in SR. If you don't understand this, then you don't understand the character. If you can find a similar instance then please show it to me. (Hint= you can't b/c there isn't one.) This story should have played out like Chaykin's "Son of Superman." That's the way in which this type of story could happen, not Singer's deadbeat dad Superman.
If you can't see how that's being a deadbeat, then you don't understand the full ramifications of being a deadbeat dad- caring more about yourself than your responsibilities of being in a sexual relationship. Period.
No. Superman in SR is not the same Superman from the comics or the Donner films. There's nothing more I can do to explain it to you. Double period.
In Exile, Superman left Earth without saying goodbye to ANYONE, not even his parents, this not only left Earth open to attack from the likes of Luthor and Darkseid, but it also left his loved one's in complete incertainty and worry.
In For Tomorrow, Superman endangers the WHOLE planet by activating the vanishing device, despite not knowing what it does or what it leads to, just because he felt lonely, the risk he took was so great, Wonder Woman felt the need to fight with Superman to get him to stop. Superman activated the device on nothing more than "faith" that it would harm humans, no solid proof what-so-ever. Not to mention in the same story he starts taking orders from a war-lord.
In The Journey, Superman went missing for months on end, WITHOUT telling anyone were he was, including Lois, his WIFE at the time, which resulted in Lois nearly being shot by river pirates, had Superman not been listening at the time and saved Lois she may have been killed, along with Jimmy. Not to mention, had Lois not gone looking for him and knew the location of his new fortress (were he was staying and not saving anyone), and if a group of villains hadnt unleashed a newer, more powerful Blackrock on the planet, he may have been missing for longer, simply sitting in his Fortress rather than saving people.
In Kingdom Come, Superman abandons mankind, because, in simple terms, he loses a popularity contest. I know there is more to it than that and that Superman loses faith in humanity, but is that honestly a good enough reason to abandom humanity completely for YEARS on end without a word to anyone (yes i know Lois was dead, but he still could have addressed others)? Not in my eyes.
I think thats more than enough examples for now, showing that even in the comics, Superman is flawed. Triple period
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