Why am I attracted to this person?!?

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  1. knowsbleed Registered

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    Strange question, but have you ever had a dream about some random person in your life and then the next day you have a weird infatuation with them? The person could have little to zero impact on your life, you're not attracted to them in the slightest and then your mind, for whatever reason, decides to create this weirded out attraction that was never there before. So you spend the next few days wondering why the hell you're attracted to this person and why you had a random dream about them.

    After a few days or a week or so the dream induced attraction wears off. Then you're back to your usual self and wondering, "What the hell was that all about?"

    Thoughts...experiences?
     
  2. jaguarr Be Your Own Hero

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    Stop sending me PM's! :cmad:

    jag
     
  3. kane9321 oakland's finest

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    to many mushrooms..eh
     
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    Stop replying to them! :cmad:
     
  5. Logan's Runt Runtmuffin

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    Not necessarily instigated by a dream, but it happens quite often where all of a sudden someone is incredibly attractive/interesting to me for no apparent reason. I'll spend a week or so thinking about them/talking to them a lot and then I'll get bored and move on to another fascination.
     
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    Hmm...mine have never appeared out of thin air like that. They've always been formed due to a dream. It hasn't happened in a while...maybe about a year or so...but yesterday the last person who I had a dream about approached me and told me that she had a dream about ME. Just out of nowhere. I've never told her about my dream. Hell...I don't even speak to this person on a regular basis...but she comes up to me and says, "Hey, I had the strangest dream about you and I last night...isn't that funny?"

    Why is the universe messing with me right before Thanksgiving?
     
  8. Eggyman The Oval Avenger

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    It is trying to tell you to change back to your other avvy. :cwink:
     
  9. Erzengel |-o-| (-o-) |-o-|

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    Well ask yourself this, do you really have other options going for you? That being said, :o.
     
  10. Logan's Runt Runtmuffin

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    Creepy.

    One time, I walked by a guy at work and had an intense image of us having hot passionate sex flash though my head. It was sort of like a dream. He wasn't even that attractive, but I talked to him a lot more after that.
     
  11. jaguarr Be Your Own Hero

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    Haha! :D

    jag
     
  12. knowsbleed Registered

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    In due time.

    I have a permanent non-option.

    I did talk to her a few times after I had my dream last year...but it was mostly curiosity to see whether I felt any attraction in person or whether it was all in my mind. It was in my mind.

    Though she has stopped by my office twice today...that's 2x more than she normally sees me in a month.

    Haha! :cmad:
     
  13. jaguarr Be Your Own Hero

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  14. Eggyman The Oval Avenger

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    Hahahahahaha!

    No, but seriously -- this has happened to me a couple of times. The best thing to do is just have sex with them, Knowsbleed. It is your mind telling you that you should, or that you want to. Just do it.
     
  15. November Rain Single Mother

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    I have this but it's about killing instead...

    it normally doesn't wear off either...until i've at least hit them.
     
  16. knowsbleed Registered

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    I don't think my wife would dig that too much.


    I'll have to ask for permission first.
     
  17. knowsbleed Registered

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    :dry:
     
  18. bullets bang bang

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    this happens to me at least ten times a day
     
  19. Eggyman The Oval Avenger

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    Sorry dude, it was presumptuous of me to think that you were a free agent. Congrats on the successful hostage situation. :ninja:
     
  20. November Rain Single Mother

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    There was this woman i had known all my life, that i never really paid much romantic attention to. She had always been with someone close to me over the years and also had been there for me in times of need. She'd sometimes let me crash at her place and make me breakfast and stuff. I'd help her out by cleaning up abit and maybe mowing her grass when her fella was out. It was good times.

    Then one day I had this really sexy dream about her and i just couldn't get her out of my mind, I never really what a sexy beast of a lady she was. I didn't even care about her dude anymore. I was seeing someone at the time and i dumped them and started this year long fatuation over this woman. Eventually i told her and she wasn't too happy about it. I tried to kiss her and say something but she eventually kicked me out and Told me never to return or call her again.

    That was the last time i saw my mom.
    :(
     
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    WTF?!? You just told a joke :wow: :woot: hahahahahahahaha :D
     
  23. knowsbleed Registered

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    Hey...I was a willing participant. :cwink:

    That is so going to get tivoed.
     
  24. The Original Bamfer Big, Bald and Beautiful

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    ...




    :csad:
     
  25. kane9321 oakland's finest

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    and hmm you just got married..right?:csad: :wow:
     

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