Advice and Relationships Again: A Hypester's Tale

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I guess I should clarify that the jeans I wear aren't technically "skinny" jeans, just pretty tight jeans. And I do like to wear v-necks but they're not very deep. I wouldn't consider myself a hipster at all.
 
Considering yourself a hipster is so mainstream.
 
As long as it gets your junk wet, who cares?
 
LMAO that's a great way to get into a girl's heart - diss her friends. :oldrazz:

Unless she's the type to read that book I saw featured at Barnes and Noble the other day, called "Six Weeks to OMG: Get Skinnier Than All Your Friends." :o

Is it bad that I think that would work on me...

Seriously, girls like me who are full of paranoia and think all their friends are hotter than them, would totally melt at that kind of compliment.
 
Yeah, I'm sure a lot of guys say this, but you don't say it in front of her friends or on something like facebook for not only them but everyone she knows to see.
 
Most girls I know want me to acknowledge the attractiveness of their friends, just not find them personally attractive.
 
I guess I should clarify that the jeans I wear aren't technically "skinny" jeans, just pretty tight jeans. And I do like to wear v-necks but they're not very deep. I wouldn't consider myself a hipster at all.

This is the post of a hipster.
 
Is it bad that I think that would work on me...

Seriously, girls like me who are full of paranoia and think all their friends are hotter than them, would totally melt at that kind of compliment.
"Wow, you're skinnier than your friends?" That's a compliment?

I dunno, it's sort of a fact for me. I'm usually the skinniest girl in a room. Doesn't mean I'm the hottest. :oldrazz:

And I dunno, I don't consider the point of having friends as competition fodder. :o
 
If your girlfriends are a bunch of *****es, then I could see how you wouldn't mind hearing that.
 
If you're a hipster, then be proud of it. Do you baby bubba. Do you. :up: :awesome: :up:
 
Ladies: if his internet history is shorter than one week, he's not a keeper.
 
What if his internet history goes back months and it's filled with pornsites, adult chat rooms, and Cute Kitty videos on the youtube?
 
What if his internet history goes back months and it's filled with pornsites, adult chat rooms, and Cute Kitty videos on the youtube?

That would be a normal person I'd say... :o
 
Is anyone else here a bit creeped out by people that have death fantasies of themselves and their lover (Or even an ex they can't get over.) where they both die tragically?
 
"Wow, you're skinnier than your friends?" That's a compliment?

I dunno, it's sort of a fact for me. I'm usually the skinniest girl in a room. Doesn't mean I'm the hottest. :oldrazz:

And I dunno, I don't consider the point of having friends as competition fodder. :o

Who said anything about skinny? :huh:

The original compliment was that she 'shined' over the other girls.

Which just means the guy was saying he finds her the most attractive by a long shot.

Yeah, it's a bit of a weird thing to put on facebook.

But then if I saw a comment on a group pic of me and the girls from uni, and some guy had put 'Wow, attractive group of girls, but you're definitely the hottest of the bunch,' it's not like i'd take that offensively. It'd just be obvious this guy really likes her and is giving her a compliment.
 
How important is age in dating? I was told today to look for women aged 20 to 24, instead of 28 to 32. I am 31 and women younger than 25 seem like kids to me. I was told that women in the 28 to 32 range were more likely to be divorced and have kids, making things complicated. No argument here.

I did join a dating site and got two matches...with 19 year olds. Thats just...yeah...
 
How important is age in dating? I was told today to look for women aged 20 to 24, instead of 28 to 32. I am 31 and women younger than 25 seem like kids to me. I was told that women in the 28 to 32 range were more likely to be divorced and have kids, making things complicated. No argument here.

I did join a dating site and got two matches...with 19 year olds. Thats just...yeah...
Depends on where you are. In more liberal and/or career-oriented circles, I think it's more common to be older and never been married with no kids.

My coworker is the ONLY student in the grad school with kids, I'm sure, considering the crap she gets for being a mother around here. She got married at 20 and had her first child at 23, and she's 30 now. Most of the other students are in their mid to late 20s, still single and no children.

Then again I suspect that most women who are pursuing post-graduate degrees or are career-oriented delay having families for obvious reasons.

If you're in a large city, I'm sure you can find 30-something women with no children. Not being divorced could be another thing, but it depends on the person. My boss has been with his gf for 16 years - she was divorced when she met him and it's caused them no problems.

Whereas, if you're in an area (or entrenched in a culture) where people get married at 19 and have 3 kids by 24, it would definitely be more difficult...I had a housemate whose HS classmates were like that. It boggled his mind, but it happened pretty frequently where he came from.

As for age being a factor, completely depends on the person. When I was in my teens, everyone thought I was in my mid-20s because I'm very level-headed. Whereas I've come across 40-year-olds who are very immature.

Just my thing, but I wouldn't go for someone who hasn't graduated college yet. There's just so much life experience that happens in that time, it would just bother me.
 
It really depends, on what you are looking for, Hobgoblin.

Just because they are in their early 20s doesn't mean they are immature. I mean a lot of them may be. I mean you can have a perfect stable relationship with them.

But if you're looking for "fun", you can do that to.

You have to remember a lot of the women in their late 20s and thirties are looking for more security.

What are you looking for?
 
Single again...happy and bummed at the same time. I know its for the best.
 
I'm single again as well. That one was real fast. So I'm wallowing in my depression by throwing a massive keg party at my house with lots of girls. Woe is me.
 
Been in the city for one week. Went out with my friend and some of the new people who she's met. None of which are straight arrows.

Got drunk, did some other naughty things, and then me and this guy ended up kissing. Actually kind of like him, he was nice and funny and was teasing me (always a plus :p).

Trouble is, I'm supposed to be trying to find a guy who ISN'T in the world of getting wasted!

So my question is - how do non drunk, no drug oriented people meet each other?

How do I make friends without going to the pub and getting messed up with people?

I know it sounds ridiculous, but in my world, it's just how it's done.

Even my uni friends, who never touch any drugs, drink a ridiculous amount. And they all have respectable jobs and are lovely people. But they got the biggest bottle of soco possible and drank it between two of them... Before we went out... And then got on the jagerbombs.

I guess I just don't know how to meet people the 'normal' way, cause getting drunk/other things is the way I've made pretty much ALL my friends.
 
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