Anita18
DANCE FOR ME, FUNNY MAN!
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Friends of friends, although you seem to be doing that and they all seem to be heavy drinkers too. My cousin and my sister met their SOs social dancing - cousin met hubby at a dance class and sis met her bf in her swing dancing circles. Best friend met her hubby in tae kwon do, so it doesn't have to be dancing.Been in the city for one week. Went out with my friend and some of the new people who she's met. None of which are straight arrows.
Got drunk, did some other naughty things, and then me and this guy ended up kissing. Actually kind of like him, he was nice and funny and was teasing me (always a plus ).
Trouble is, I'm supposed to be trying to find a guy who ISN'T in the world of getting wasted!
So my question is - how do non drunk, no drug oriented people meet each other?
How do I make friends without going to the pub and getting messed up with people?
I know it sounds ridiculous, but in my world, it's just how it's done.
Even my uni friends, who never touch any drugs, drink a ridiculous amount. And they all have respectable jobs and are lovely people. But they got the biggest bottle of soco possible and drank it between two of them... Before we went out... And then got on the jagerbombs.
I guess I just don't know how to meet people the 'normal' way, cause getting drunk/other things is the way I've made pretty much ALL my friends.
Classes are another way. Old roommate met her hubby in a teacher's class. Work too, although it'd be more like the "friends of friends" than dating in your workgroup, which can be awkward.
And I met my fiance online.
Anyways, the gist is to meet new people in an environment where you aren't all drinking.
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