why couldnt Jor-el just send byby Kal away to Earth to save him and live. why couldnt Kal alone find a reason to save everyone?
dont you see how you forced Jor-El decision ? why does Jor-El need to tell his son that he should become an ideal of hope and save everyone?
there is a line '' you can save her.....you can save everyone''. why did he need to tell him that? at that moment he should be ready to do this without him. i disagree with this decision from WB and Goyer.
The proper line is (which keeps getting misquoted just like that other one I just fixed) is:
"You can save her, Kal. You can save all of them."
And it's necessary because Kal in his Earth upbringing never really had Jonathan pat him on the back and tell him "You can save her, Kal. You can save all of them." All Jonathan was meant to do was protect him, not make him into Superman - Jonathan's teachings were all about "Someday, you'll have to make a decision on what kind of man you want to become."
He even says that in the movie: his purpose is to keep Kal/Clark safe and protected from the world itself knowing his secret - in time Kal/Clark would have to figure out what to do with his life past the point of Jonathan making those decisions.
Jor-El's purpose is to provide his history, his background, where he came from, but never to directly control his future: that was completely left to chance when the space pod or whatever the hell it's officially known as launched from the House of El. Once it launched, Fate in some ways determined how things would go from there.
Kal/Clark made his own choices, more often than not. He chose to save those kids on the bus even in spite of Jonathan teaching him that he can't do things which might expose him to the world. Kal/Clark made that choice even knowing the potential outcome (being exposed) because it was the right thing to do - TADA!!! Jonathan taught him right from wrong and yet he went against his Dad's wishes and saved those kids anyway.
He does it many times even in spite of us not being able to directly witness it: going against Jonathan's wishes.
And the one time we see him actually honoring Jonathan's wishes that's the time when Jonathan makes the choice to give his life to - AGAIN - protect his son.
Seriously... you either get it or you don't, or you have some other purpose in proposing these somewhat baffling lines of thought.