If it's the death and destruction specifically that bothered you then I assume you mean like avengers(which also did a tonal shift at the end), you are in the camp that wanted a from of memorial or someone acknowledging it and that would have been the fix?
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I think the death and destruction was too much. I think a reduced amount would have still been effective like having a small area start to get demolished and people fleeing like when the beam first started drilling. It crossed the line when it cut to just swathes and swathes of buildings being demolished and no doubt thousands, if not millions, dying.
The Avengers whilst not having that much destruction, and having a much more lighter comedic tone, still managed to acknowledge the tragedy in a TV coverage montage, that addressed the lives lost, and how people felt about the heroes.
Now that you said it, yeah, the movie worked for me precisely the manner you described. The Schwarma scene is amazing because it was brilliantly set up by the movie. Man of Steel had "welcome to the planet" as an amazing line to end the movie on -- but I thought it wasn't an amazing scene because it wasn't brilliantly set up in the movie.
This is exactly it. You've hit it right on the head. And it is very much Zack Snyder's biggest flaw. There are moments in his films that I think are some of the best scenes put to film, for example in Watchmen, the Times are a-changin' opening, Dr Manhattans backstory, and Rorschach's death. And in Man of Steel, the first Clark flashback, final flashback with the cape followed by 'Welcome to the Planet'. But his biggest failure is yoking these scenes into a coherent singular film. There is an art to how the pacing of a film ebbs and flows, and I'm just not sure Snyder is ever going to get this right, if he can't find it now.
If you listen to the latest Nerdist podcast, Joss Whedon talks about how he is obsessed with structure. How he must be aware of what the audience is feeling at any given moment during the film, and know the right time for a laugh or a serious scene.
We really should have known that if this was going to be a drama with superhero elements (like Christopher Nolan's films) then Darren Aronofsky would have been the man for the job. When Zack Snyder was hired we should have known this would be very much a comicbooky film. But the teaser and Comic-con trailer fooled us.