Dating Bi Chicks

[terry78]

And Terry is a bisexual woman, so his word is gospel on this!

jag

 

[jaguarr]

I got yo' back, homegirl!

jag

 

[kane9321]

two snaps up..with a "z "formation

 

[pavlovs dogfood]

I've heard that same mindset from a lot of gay and lesbian people as well. They date people that are bi and they say it's ridiculous. Cake and eating it too scenario.

How is it so ridiculous to think both males and females are attractive? Like it gives you a greater inclination towards being a ****e and/or a cheater? That's just ignorance, and for people to say bi = wanting attention, that's kind of offensive.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

How is it so ridiculous to think both males and females are attractive? Like it gives you a greater inclination towards being a ****e and/or a cheater? That's just ignorance, and for people to say bi = wanting attention, that's kind of offensive.

Off topic, but nice to see ya posting again PD

 

[terry78]

How is it so ridiculous to think both males and females are attractive? Like it gives you a greater inclination towards being a ****e and/or a cheater? That's just ignorance, and for people to say bi = wanting attention, that's kind of offensive.

I don't want to turn this into a thing, but just from people I've known that have used the bi moniker, that's the impression that was given.

 

[jaguarr]

I don't want to turn this into a thing, but just from people I've known that have used the bi moniker, that's the impression that was given.

LOL! You already did, man! Haha!

jag

 

[terry78]

Yeah, I've already established a love/hate relationship. More hate than love, but hey.

 

[jaguarr]

Whatever works for you, bruh. For what it's worth, though, I have a lot of bi and gay friends and some of the gay people I know look down their nose at bi people. Like some straight people, they have an issue with people who won't "choose a side". Personally, I think it's a little silly to think in such black and white terms. Life is full of a whole lot of "grey" or conditional situations without as much "either/or" as a lot of people would like to believe. There are people who are truly more than capable of enjoying love and/or sex with people from both sexes just as much as there are those who feel strongly drawn towards one or the other. It doesn't automatically mean that they have looser morals or that they are more promiscuous, though. One of the most sexually inactive women I ever met expressed rather adamantly that she was a devout bisexual but that she preferred to really be in love before she would have sex with someone rather than taking sex as something more lightly. Takes all kinds, I suppose.

jag

 

[DBella]

There is no such thing as bi. Either you're into chicks or you're into dudes. Bi people are just screwing around with one gender.

That sounds like an opinion.
Or is it a fact? If it's a fact, can you supply me with scientific evidence?

That's kind of a dick thing to say. Just because a girl is bi doesn't mean she's more likely to cheat on you, unless she would cheat on you regardless of which sex she thinks is hot.

If she's into you, quit whining and overthinking things. Just do her or something.

That's what I thought when I first read that post. He/She is assuming that all bisexuals are cheaters... like gays/lesbians and straight people are less proned to cheating. I think cheating has nothing to do with sexuality but the character of the person.

 

[Ahura Mazda]

Fidelity is not dependant on sexuality but one will factor in on another.

I personaly do not know any bisexuals (at least any disclosed ones) but I would have the same confidence/fear that the person I am with does not leave/leaves with a woman or a man. And if they leave, it may most probably be that the fault was with our own relationship. This of course precludes homosexuality.

In any case, what would I care who my woman leaves me for given if she left me she is gone and who she is with will not affect me, assuming no children are involved.

 

[Mee]

Although we don't date at this moment, I already kind of have the fear that I'm going to having to compete against other women.

And with a straight girl you'd have to compete with other guys so...what's the big deal?

 

[DBella]

And with a straight girl you'd have to compete with other guys so...what's the big deal?

Haha! Good point.

 

[Mee]

Maybe he thinks he's living in Y the Last Man.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

^Aw, that wrapped up this week

 

[Sloth7d]

And with a straight girl you'd have to compete with other guys so...what's the big deal?

I think he means, his competition just doubled, instead of only having to worry about one half of the two genders.

 

[jaguarr]

I think he means, his competition just doubled, instead of only having to worry about one half of the two genders.

If you have to worry about your significant other cheating on you or leaving you for someone else, you already have some severe relationship and trust issues that aren't impacted one way or the other by their sexual orientation.

jag

 

[Immortalfire]

Too bad Tangled Web isn't around much, he'd enjoy this thread.

 

[Sloth7d]

If you have to worry about your significant other cheating on you or leaving you for someone else, you already have some severe relationship and trust issues that aren't impacted one way or the other by their sexual orientation.

jag

Maybe he's insecure. It's hard enough competing with other men but now women as well? Not to mention, being a man, how do you compete with a different gender altogether that has different assets that require competing with? I mean, they're not going to be signifigant others anytime soon. Just girlfriend and boyfriend.

 

[Fran]

And with a straight girl you'd have to compete with other guys so...what's the big deal?

Yeah.

If he's competing with girls, I want pics of them

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

There is no such thing as bi. Either you're into chicks or you're into dudes. Bi people are just screwing around with one gender.

Deeply stupid thing to say.

And uh, I don't wanna make a "thing" of this, but just going by most of the Black people I know, the impression they give off is that they're ignorant, lazy savages...so, I guess we can just go ahead and say that all Black people are like that.

 

[jaguarr]

Maybe he's insecure.

I'd agree, and that's an issue he needs to worry about more than whether the girl is bisexual or not.

It's hard enough competing with other men but now women as well? Not to mention, being a man, how do you compete with a different gender altogether that has different assets that require competing with? I mean, they're not going to be signifigant others anytime soon. Just girlfriend and boyfriend.

You compete the same way; give them a reason to want to be with you more than they want to be with anyone else.

jag

 

[Sloth7d]

I'd agree, and that's an issue he needs to worry about more than whether the girl is bisexual or not.



You compete the same way; give them a reason to want to be with you more than they want to be with anyone else.

jag

So basically, give her tons of money.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Deeply stupid thing to say.

And uh, I don't wanna make a "thing" of this, but just going by most of the Black people I know, the impression they give off is that they're ignorant, lazy savages...so, I guess we can just go ahead and say that all Black people are like that.

WhyIoutta!

 

[guitarsingerguy]

And with a straight girl you'd have to compete with other guys so...what's the big deal?

Um...take a look at your penis and then take a look at any halfway decent looking woman. Your penis loses every time my friend. Let's be honest here...they just aren't very attractive appendages.