Okay Sava, I watched that scene again over the weekend and Ross's exact words to Betty are:
"Do you know what the worst part about all of this (is)? When I had David Banner locked up and sent that kid away, I didn't give that boy a second thought. He was just collateral damage. [pauses] He isn't anymore, is he?"
It's consistent with what you've been saying... that Ross feels somewhat responsible for what happens to Bruce, "like he should have thought more about the boy when he arrested his father" (post #79). But to me, the statement doesn't evoke sympathy for Bruce, which is what I thought you were saying. Instead, it's an expression of remorse or regret that he IS responsible for Bruce becoming the Hulk. And for that, I have nothing to debate. Again, I thought you were getting at a kinder, gentler General Ross that perhaps Hulk fans weren't seeing.
Since I was already taking notes, I thought it was interesting that, later on (at 1:50:00), when Betty contacts Ross in the helicopter, he says, "I don't have a choice - I have to destroy him." (Betty's response is, "But you can't. You will only fuel his rage and make him stronger. Let me go to him.") To contradict everything I just said above, I thought this clearly WAS an expression of sympathy toward Bruce, the Hulk. It's as if he understands the nature of Betty's relationship with him and, in light of the fact that he's been powerless to stop/contain the Hulk thus far, he now faces the difficult decision to have to
kill the Hulk... something he doesn't really want to do. Was this your understanding also?
Also, I tried looking for the "Hulk: The End" comic, but 1.) the comic store that I was hoping to visit at a mall was no longer there and 2.) Barnes & Noble had almost nothing on the Hulk. Instead, I ended up standing there for an hour reading "Marvel Zombies." Some really twisted stuff in there... superheroes eating each other... sick sort of humor, but it held my attention.

Will try to visit Comic Town sometime... it's in the next suburb over and I'm afraid its open hours are limited. Do libraries have comics?