Nice guys finish last

[enterthemadness]

I prefer an Old King Clancy myself.

Ah geez...

 

[Master Chief]

you know a scary amount of these phrases.

canadian sex acts.

dot org.

 

[Mr.Webs]

I can never unsee....

 

[WalkingDeadMike]

I prefer an Old King Clancy myself.

I figured you more of a *****er.

 

[Anubis]

I figured you more of a *****er.

Sorry, but I've always felt that once it's in there, It's gone forever.....or at least for the next 6 to 12 hours.

 

[WalkingDeadMike]

Haha

 

[Anita18]

There are so many things that could be said in response to various things in this thread, but I don't think I have the energy

Yeah I've given up hope too.

There's a whole lotta truth in this.

There are many, many truths in XKCD.

I know right? I haven't had much experiences with French or Russian women, but I've had nothing, but good experiences with Austrailian, Canadian, and English gals. I'm not saying they're perfect, but I'll take them any day over a stupid, spoiled American ****e.

That sounds just like the lovely 13-hr trans-Pacific flight I had to Taiwan where I was sitting behind these two creep-o 40-something white dudes who got trashed on wine and talked about how much better Asian women were than white women.

THE ENTIRE TIME. I prayed that they wouldn't look behind them and see me, but luckily the flight attendants were much prettier than I am.

Worst. Flight. EVER.

This thread...

Perfect.

 

[knowsbleed]

I don't get this thread.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

This thread...

Is it a bad sign that even in this gif I can tell he can't do an American accent.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

nope.

I didn't compare the sex habits of hookers to women in general. That would be mysogynist.

What do you mean "sex habits of hookers"? Do you mean most women don't take/ask for money for sex? Yes, I'd agree with that statement. That's about the only "sex habit" I can think of that's foreign to other women (for the most part).

 

[JAK®]

I know right? I haven't had much experiences with French or Russian women, but I've had nothing, but good experiences with Austrailian, Canadian, and English gals. I'm not saying they're perfect, but I'll take them any day over a stupid, spoiled American ****e.

The grass is always greener on the other side.

 

[amazingfantasy15]

I used to think the nice guys finish last rule was true to until I wised up and realized I was actually confusing the women with my nice ways. Women were attracted to me, but I wouldn't "make the move" to show them I was into them as well. Once I started making moves that showed my interest and it's little stuff, like flirting, holding their hand, going in for that first kiss, etc... Things worked a lot better, I got stuck in the friend zone a lot earlier in life because that's what I did, became their friend, I didn't do the things I needed to to become a boyfriend. I'm in a great relationship now, I didn't change who I was when I first started going out with my girlfriend, I just made the bold moves that showed my interest. My girlfriend told me that two things that really made the difference was on our second date we went to a comedy club, on the way to drinks afterward I held her hand, then afterwards we were walking to the corner to get a cab, before we got to the corner, I pulled her toward me and kissed her. If I didn't do those two things there's a good chance our second date would've been our last date.

Stay the nice guy, just make the move and don't wait for the perfect moment, just do it.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

The grass is always greener on the other side.

I think the notion that (insert geographic area here) girls are "better" has more to do with the observer than the actual women in question. When you travel, or at least when I travel, I tend to have a lot of fun with the locals, but at the same time I'm not nearly as measured in my actions. Normally I would care what image of myself I'm putting off, outside my own town, not so much. The lengths I'm willing to go and my attitude definitely changes when I'm on vacation, and I think that opens me up to more experiences. As you say, the grass is always greener...my spin on it would be you're probably greener, it's still the same grass though.

 

[E-Man]

I don't get this thread.

 

[RockSP]

Ron Howard
Tom Hanks
Will Smith
Henry Winkler
Josh Groban
Denzel Washington


I could go on.

How do you know these guys are nice? Unless "rich and/or famous" = "nice" to you...

 

[SpideyVille]

Do nice girls finish last?

 

[SentinelMind]

Being a nice guy is not something to be admired. at all.

You should aim to be a good guy. Be decisive, moral, courageous, compassionate, ambitious, and fight for what's right. Not being appeasing.

There is another option besides being a wuss and a jerk. Nice guys deserve to finish last.

 

[JAK®]

Do nice girls finish last?

Are you implying that girls can have varied enough personalities so that individuals can be called 'nice'?

Because this thread has told us that all girls are the same.

 

[SentinelMind]

How do you know these guys are nice? Unless "rich and/or famous" = "nice" to you...

yeah, seriously..I've read articles of people in the industry calling Denzel a jerk and Howard a revisionist opportunistic snake. I've even watched their interviews.

 

[knowsbleed]

Being a nice guy is not something to be admired. at all.

You should aim to be a good guy. Be decisive, moral, courageous, compassionate, ambitious, and fight for what's right. Not being appeasing.

There is another option besides being a wuss and a jerk. Nice guys deserve to finish last.

http://thesaurus.com/browse/nice

Main Entry: nice
Part of Speech: adjective
Definition: likable, agreeable
Synonyms: admirable, amiable, approved, attractive, becoming, charming, commendable, considerate, copacetic, cordial, courteous, decorous, delightful, ducky, fair, favorable, fine and dandy, friendly, genial, gentle, good, gracious, helpful, ingratiating, inviting, kind, kindly, lovely, nifty*, obliging, okay*, peachy*, pleasant, pleasurable, polite, prepossessing, seemly, simpatico, superior, swell, unpresumptuous, welcome, well-mannered, winning, winsome
Antonyms: bad, disagreeable, horrible, nasty, repulsive, unlikable, unpleasant

 

[JAK®]

'Nice guy' is a different thing altogether though.

 

[SentinelMind]

http://thesaurus.com/browse/nice

Main Entry: nice
Part of Speech: adjective
Definition: likable, agreeable
Synonyms: admirable, amiable, approved, attractive, becoming, charming, commendable, considerate, copacetic, cordial, courteous, decorous, delightful, ducky, fair, favorable, fine and dandy, friendly, genial, gentle, good, gracious, helpful, ingratiating, inviting, kind, kindly, lovely, nifty*, obliging, okay*, peachy*, pleasant, pleasurable, polite, prepossessing, seemly, simpatico, superior, swell, unpresumptuous, welcome, well-mannered, winning, winsome
Antonyms: bad, disagreeable, horrible, nasty, repulsive, unlikable, unpleasant

synonym <> definition

 

[knowsbleed]

'Nice guy' is a different thing altogether though.

synonym <> definition

You say potato... I say itsallthesametome.

 

[SentinelMind]

You say potato... I say itsallthesametome.

maybe that's the source of the problem...

nice does not mean good. Nice means appeasing, perhaps likeable...but good means doing the right thing, having moral standards. Allowing someone to walk over you is nice. Standing up for those who don't have a voice is good. See the difference.

 

[knowsbleed]

It depends on your interpretation of those two words... that's the point I was trying to make. By your definition, a nice guy is not a good guy, but in reality... a nice guy is probably has qualities from both of your definitions... and vice versa. It's not as black and white as you make it out to be.