Official discussion on why "Nice Guys" have a hard time getting the girl.

[Majic Walrus]

Not to get too close to getting back on topic, but I wanted to throw my two cents in.

Nice guys everywhere. Keep being nice. It pays off in the end. Not many girls are attracted to "nice guys" but the ones that are attracted to us are always a better catch in the end. Girls that are attracted to "bad guys" aren't really girls that you'd want to be with anyway.

Keep being nice, it always pays off in the long run.

 

[DV8]

be a 'cool' guy . . . not a 'nice' guy . . . the 'nice guy' label has a negative connotation in our society . . . but yeah, what Walrus said; it pays off . . .

 

[Erzengel]

Or just be yourself.

 

[terry78]

Or just be yourself.

Well, to be honest, there are some guys that really should not follow that credo.

 

[DV8]

Or just be yourself.

If you be yourself, you're automatically the 'cool guy' . . .

 

[Erzengel]

Touche'.

But in general, like I've said:

Don't use the nice guy speal as a victim card.
Don't claim you are a nice guy if you have an ulterior motive.
Don't sit on your hands waiting for things to happen to you.

 

[DV8]

^And don't forget, dating is a numbers game!

Too many 'nice guys' concentrate too hard on one girl before there's any kind of reciprocity . . . and then the nice guy victim card spiel ensues . . .

 

[piccolo]

I give great advice, but no one ever listens to it

Who to?

 

[AndThePickles]

Who to?

To anyone who asks! Both men and women. I think a lot of why some people don't want to follow it is because it's not letting them take the easy way out/I don't just tell them what they want to hear.

 

[Eggyman]

And th^t's why it's so good

 

[Erzengel]

A lot of people don't want to go out of their comfort zone.

 

[AndThePickles]

It's also why there are some people I've had to stop bothering giving advice to when they come to me with problems.

 

[Erzengel]

Thanks ATP. It no longer burns when I pee.

 

[piccolo]

To anyone who asks! Both men and women. I think a lot of why some people don't want to follow it is because it's not letting them take the easy way out/I don't just tell them what they want to hear.

To anyone? You just give it up like that to anyone who asks?!

Have some dignity and self-respect, you advice harlot! Make 'em work for it!

 

[AndThePickles]

To anyone? You just give it up like that to anyone who asks?!

Have some dignity and self-respect, you advice harlot! Make 'em work for it!

Hahaha. To be fair, it's anyone who asks who already knows me. People don't come up to me on the street. On the internets, I can pick and choose who I bother giving advice to

 

[DV8]

Hahaha. To be fair, it's anyone who asks who already knows me. People don't come up to me on the street. On the internets, I can pick and choose who I bother giving advice to

NO ADVICE FOR YOU *advice natzi*

 

[AndThePickles]

I do look Aryan, after all.

 

[piccolo]

Hahaha. To be fair, it's anyone who asks who already knows me. People don't come up to me on the street. On the internets, I can pick and choose who I bother giving advice to

haha that'd be pretty awesome, some dude comes up to you on the street like "hey you look like a smart girl, my boss's daughter keeps checking me out, how do I rail her without getting fired?" and you're like

me = would pay to see

Hey, that'd be a good reality show.

 

[AndThePickles]

Make it happen, I could use a new job.

 

[DV8]

I do look Aryan, after all.

yes, you DO! And so does Spoons

 

[TheFuture]

Actually I totally think I know why he (blightsbiohazar) went all apecrap on alot of threads here. He posted some pics of him dressed as Joker in the photo thread a couple days ago and was ragged on by just about everyone afterwards. (Not me, I don't understand the 'those who have a Joker costume' hate. I'd love to put one together in the future )

SHH just isn't a place for Batman anymore

Why not???

Not to get too close to getting back on topic, but I wanted to throw my two cents in.

Nice guys everywhere. Keep being nice. It pays off in the end. Not many girls are attracted to "nice guys" but the ones that are attracted to us are always a better catch in the end. Girls that are attracted to "bad guys" aren't really girls that you'd want to be with anyway.

Keep being nice, it always pays off in the long run.

I prefer "unassuming" over "nice" myself but you're spot on all the same.

 

[AndThePickles]

And so does Spoons

Har har

 

[JaD]

or maybe he was just a d*** that craved attention?

Bit of everything perhaps..

 

[Goddessreicho]

Nice guys everywhere. Keep being nice. It pays off in the end. Not many girls are attracted to "nice guys" but the ones that are attracted to us are always a better catch in the end. Girls that are attracted to "bad guys" aren't really girls that you'd want to be with anyway.

Keep being nice, it always pays off in the long run.

Very true, nice guys are appreciated by nice girls. Especially the nice boys who aren't shallow.

 

[piccolo]

Har har

I wonder if your kids will.

*ducks*