Depends on the situation. Was this one person leaving the other? Or years of s**ty marriage that finally, mercifully, ends?
It's tough to say because... well... I get 2 conflicting reports.
From her, the story is that he didn't support her emotionally. She felt trapped. He worked hard to provide, but was content, and never really aspired to improve their situation.
From him, the story is that he worked hard to provide for her, her daughter from another man, and the daughter they shared together. She up and left him, and her 2 daughters, to go - in his words - "explore her sexuality in ways he couldn't follow"
My take? During the time I knew them personally, before they both ****ed me over royally, he took care of her and her daughter. He was more of a father to her daughter than the actual father was. He worked hard for them. I got screwed over royally by both of them, and looking back at the situation, it began to look more and more to me like he couldn't get girls, so he basically did whatever for her, and she wanted someone to take care of her and her kid, so she used him for all she could.
Eventually, they got back in contact with me. Discussions were had, and I accepted them both back into my life - although I was obviously weary of them. After awhile, she started talking to me about how she wanted to leave him - he wasn't supporting her emotionally, she wanted more for her life, and he was content just getting by. She divorced him. He told me that she abandoned them, and then started asking me to essentially stalk her for me and send info about her back to me. I refused.
But since the divorce, she don't talk to me anymore. She used to talk to me all the time before. We'd text, call, facebook chat, online chat, whatever. We talked all the time. Now I can't ever get ahold of her for ****. Which doesn't burn me up too terribly bad.
I just found out that she's been with this other dude now. For how long, I don't know, but the divorce is only a few months old, a divorce she told me she was leaving her husband because she wanted to be alone, she didn't want anyone else.
I'm just getting the big feeling that she took dude for all he was worth and left him. Which again, doesn't burn me up too terribly bad because they both did me really wrong. I had just assumed that she had turned a new leaf. But I don't think she did. I think I'm just glad that I never let my guard down with her. But maybe I'm letting my bitterness towards the 2 of them look at the situation through the opposite of rose colored glasses.