So I just got back from my first concert and uh...

pyromaniac said:
Well - would TW do it again under the same set of circumstances, similiar set of circumstances or a totally different set of circumstances that achieve the initial feeling he wants in the first place, or one that benefits both as recognised by one another...?

This is all from an anthropological and sociological base.

Yeah, I'm confusing things even more.
Well, I wasn't planning on that happening. It was a very spontaneous thing.

EDIT- I don't think I did anything wrong, if that's what you're wondering.
 
ANTHONYNASTI said:
Better yet, let's share what our ideal first time would be like? Who wants to first.

Garry - former teacher from a deaf and hearing impaired school I used to go to, role model and best friend would have to be that ideal first time.

Oh god, yes.
 
pyromaniac said:
Garry - former teacher from a deaf and hearing impaired school I used to go to, role model and best friend would have to be that ideal first time.

Oh god, yes.

...
 
Mine would be with Scarlett Johansson or one of the numerous celebrities I find sickeningly attractive, with my Barry White boxed set playing in the background.

I aim too high. :(
 
Me and someone I love, spontaneously, I guess. Doesn't matter where. I actually hope it kind of sucks, so that we can laugh about it. It'll be like a test of our love.
 
Tangled Web said:
Well, I wasn't planning on that happening. It was a very spontaneous thing.

EDIT- I don't think I did anything wrong, if that's what you're wondering.

I don't fault you for anything, it's just that maturity and respect would go hand in hand in the aftermath.

But that shouldn't bear on you in any way: I was just reminded of a prevalent societal male attitude (standard), but I don't know why I brought it up if I knew it wouldn't make for a very good argument in a thread designed to be fun.

But, do as your actions are (which is however you want!), but do as your demeanour is.

I think!
 
pyromaniac said:
I don't fault you for anything, it's just that maturity and respect would go hand in hand in the aftermath.

But that shouldn't bear on you in any way: I was just reminded of a prevalent societal male attitude (standard), but I don't know why I brought it up if I knew it wouldn't make for a very good argument in a thread designed to be fun.

But, do as your actions are (which is however you want!), but do as your demeanour is.

I think!

So what should he have done afterwards?
 
Tangled Web said:
Wait, pyro, you're a woman?

No mate. I'm a guy lol.

Of course that was a long time ago, and am with my boyfriend now.

But will be good to see Garry later this month after six years: he has hands full of newborn babies and toddlers.
 
JLBats said:
Me and someone I love, spontaneously, I guess. Doesn't matter where. I actually hope it kind of sucks, so that we can laugh about it. It'll be like a test of our love.

Good night.
 
Realistically? I'd like it to be with a girl as innocent as I, but at the same time as daring and ambitious about our sexual nature.
 
pyromaniac said:
No mate. I'm a guy lol.

Of course that was a long time ago, and am with my boyfriend now.

But will be good to see Garry later this month after six years: he has hands full of newborn babies and toddlers.
That's cool. That sounds sweet that you'll get to see someone you care about after a while apart.
 
JLBats said:
So what should he have done afterwards?

When I said encouragement, I say along the lines of influence: a male dominated group will cheer on a friend if he is said to have slept with the most gorgeous girl the world has ever seen...

But I'm being a little too rigid if every scenario is the same, or if a few people are the most people and vice versa, and I'm perpetuating the stereotype even by thinking about it.

Herein, I'd say though that TW would not have bragged, but like I said, even if he did, he did so in the name of self-awareness: he knows he is just having fun. In turn, however, that's where encouragement comes in.

And it creates, of sorts, peer pressure, and flexibility in the hands of such double standards.

Does it then define TW's character, and setting it up for the next time?

Even if I am reading it wrong, it's a common situation on a societal level, and is meant not to reference you specifically.
 
pyromaniac said:
When I said encouragement, I say along the lines of influence: a male dominated group will cheer on a friend if he is said to have slept with the most gorgeous girl the world has ever seen...

But I'm being a little too rigid if every scenario is the same, or if a few people are the most people and vice versa, and I'm perpetuating the stereotype even by thinking about it.

Herein, I'd say though that TW would not have bragged, but like I said, even if he did, he did so in the name of self-awareness: he knows he is just having fun. In turn, however, that's where encouragement comes in.

Does it then define TW's character, and setting it up for the next time?

Even if I am reading it wrong, it's a common situation on a societal level.
Hey, I didn't know I'd get such a great response. I just wanted to chronicle it and I didn't know if I was going to get condemned.
 
Tangled Web said:
That's cool. That sounds sweet that you'll get to see someone you care about after a while apart.

That statement alone tells me I should not have judged that harshly: you're a man of selfsame individualism, and I find that important.

Though of course, to me, even for anyone who's 'shallow', I'd like to believe that they still have layers, ie other sides to every character.

If I judged harshly, it's because I've seen many threads that deal with a similiar theme, and I didn't say much before this, because it wasn't an issue and shouldn't ever be unless one makes a big deal out of it.

I brought morality into this but there's no right or wrong morality: just consistent morality. Stay on it as much as you can, and at the same time re-evaluate it as you see fit, or as according to adaptation.
 
Tangled Web said:
Hey, I didn't know I'd get such a great response. I just wanted to chronicle it and I didn't know if I was going to get condemned.

Your concern of condemnation does mean that you had premeditated yourself before typing up your story about some girl and dry humping. ;)

I just weren't sure if you were self-aware 'till now.
 
pyromaniac said:
Your concern of condemnation does mean that you had premeditated yourself before typing up your story about some girl and dry humping. ;)

I just weren't sure if you were self-aware 'till now.
I didn't take time to ponder if I'd done something horrible. I was thinking "I think what I did was spontaneous, I wonder what the hypsters think of it." So I put it on here wondering if it was really as cool as it was for me.
 
Tangled Web said:
I didn't take time to ponder if I'd done something horrible. I was thinking "I think what I did was spontaneous, I wonder what the hypsters think of it." So I put it on here wondering if it was really as cool as it was for me.

I wasn't even thinking about the spontaneous nature of that random encounter (though it does reveal one's instinct! :)), but the problem is that if a lot of people of the same ilk readily agree with you as to what happened, it ups the 'coolness' factor and it gives you something in common because it's an universal topic to talk about.
 
This thread has taken a surreal turn since I was last in it. I'm not sure I like it, yet I cannot turn away. :(

jag
 
jaguarr said:
This thread has taken a surreal turn since I was last in it. I'm not sure I like it, yet I cannot turn away. :(

jag

I'm sorry if I contributed to the death of it. :(
 
So yeah, that chick perspurated as was everyone else in there so I took a shower. :up:

Animalistic in nature.
 
Tangled Web said:
So yeah, that chick perspurated as was everyone else in there so I took a shower. :up:

Animalistic in nature.

You pipe down until you learn how to do a proper reach-around on a lady.

jag
 
pyromaniac said:
I'm sorry if I contributed to the death of it. :(

You didn't kill it. You just made it even more of an abomination. I think they give medals out for that in North Korea. :up:

jag
 

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