I feel like after I support Wonder Woman I am done with DC films.
I feel you are letting the meta environs get to you. These are just stories told to entertain or stimulate. If they do that they work. If you were interested in any movie for whatever reason: good trailer, beloved character, respected creators, etc., I think you owe it to yourself to have a chance to enjoy it, and not suddenly feel disenchanted and walk away because other people did not like it.
You disliked BvS so I can understand if you may not feel like watching JL,
because that can be seen as a direct continuation of the work you did not enjoy, but this is a different director, cast, story, etc. So it can certainly be judged it by its own merits.
It may suck, it may rock, I will decide after watching. I may get entertained by later analysis what parts worked and which did not.
The larger external reaction will be an ADJUNT to that, to complement, layer or better contrast my personal experience and reaction and judgment.
I do not think critical environs or even places like the hype should be about shepherding people in certain direction or making sure we all share the same reactions.
Let us be reminded of what Derrida and postmodernism taught us: WE MAKE THE TEXT. The experience of enjoying fiction is highly personal.
So yeah, it can be another Tarzan for us, you know...