The Last Crusade of Relationships

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Who cares about a relationship? Why don't you just see if you can bang her and be done with it.
 
He already stated, "She's not that type of girl" and it appears at the very least it's been inferred that he wasn't her type.

Although, I would have tested that theory by taking her out and having a few drinks.
 
She's not that type of girl and she's already told me im not her type anyways.

I did say I would have a fling with her, but Erz asked about romantic compatibility so I addressed it.
 
Eep, it's Valentine's Day! I'm kind of stressed out today for a few reasons. I'm worried he won't like my gifts, I've thought about saying The Three Words today (it's the truth, I'm just nervous about it), and all day long I've been feeling pressured to....you know...because of what day it is. None of that pressure has come from him at all, it's just that because of what day it is I'm feeling pressure, even though I know I'm not quite ready yet. Oye...
 
A lot of couples don't make a big deal out of Valentine's Day. If he's not pressuring you, don't worry about it.
 
My muse has returned. :o

Anyway, my guy is taking me out to dinner, but I'm not sure what to get him for Valentine's Day. We're not exclusive, but we're not exactly casual.

Maybe a tie or boxers. :o
 
I got a two page love letter for Valentine's Day.

Trying to figure out how to respond to it.
 
Erzengel said:
A lot of couples don't make a big deal out of Valentine's Day. If he's not pressuring you, don't worry about it.
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He wants to make it a special day, since it's our first Valentine's Day (of hopefully several), and the first time I've had a face-to-face boyfriend on this holiday
 
Well if he wants to make it a special day, just follow his lead and if something intimate happens and you're ready and you feel it's right then there's your answer.
 
Angel_Faerie said:
Eep, it's Valentine's Day! I'm kind of stressed out today for a few reasons. I'm worried he won't like my gifts, I've thought about saying The Three Words today (it's the truth, I'm just nervous about it), and all day long I've been feeling pressured to....you know...because of what day it is. None of that pressure has come from him at all, it's just that because of what day it is I'm feeling pressure, even though I know I'm not quite ready yet. Oye...
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Well, you should know him enough by now to figure out a gift he'd like. If you're really nervous about saying "I love you" which is what I assume you mean by three words, start out by just saying things you love about him. Don't just list things off though, but use it as warm up over a course of time. As for the last thing, I'm going to assume you mean having sex, and if you can't say that yet, you're not ready and you already know that, so just have fun and enjoy the night and your boyfriend's company.
 
So there is this girl in my class(An Artist, who I found out did nude portraits) who I started speaking with during class at the start of the semester. She is quiet (more than me) and she'd always look into my eyes a little longer than the norm. She'd laugh no matter how corny I sounded (I did that on purpose). I feel like I always have her full attention. By the end of the week I asked her out, something simple. She said "Maybe"

I took that "maybe" as her letting me down easy. So by next week, I was dreading an awkward moment. There was none.

It has been a few weeks now. But, she still gives that extended eye contact and laughs at my lame jokes. Even slows up to wait for me if I'm dragging me feet getting out of class.

So, what's the deal? Did I ask her out too soon earlier. Do I ask her out...again? Or is she just being friendly?
 
Just chatted with a chick from Santa Anna while playing Texas Hold 'Em on Facebook. We hit it off pretty well. I'll get her number next time we chat.
 
Bruce Banner said:
So there is this girl in my class(An Artist, who I found out did nude portraits) who I started speaking with during class at the start of the semester. She is quiet (more than me) and she'd always look into my eyes a little longer than the norm. She'd laugh no matter how corny I sounded (I did that on purpose). I feel like I always have her full attention. By the end of the week I asked her out, something simple. She said "Maybe"

I took that "maybe" as her letting me down easy. So by next week, I was dreading an awkward moment. There was none.

It has been a few weeks now. But, she still gives that extended eye contact and laughs at my lame jokes. Even slows up to wait for me if I'm dragging me feet getting out of class.

So, what's the deal? Did I ask her out too soon earlier. Do I ask her out...again? Or is she just being friendly?
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Doesn't hurt to ask her again. If you get another "maybe" she might just be acting friendly towards you and not that interested in anything else. Might as well show you really are interested.
 
Valentine's Day was a success.

Biggest Valentine's Day success that I've ever had.

Not that that's saying much...

But it was a success, and probably a bigger one that I anticipated.
 
So, um ... I think I'm a little drunk lol .. I went with some people to a bar after our show and my best friend (the girl I've admitted to having a crush on) went to and paid for some shots of tequila for me. I was pretty messed up after that but I have to admit that I did enjoy myself and we did share a moment of some true heart to heart. I really do love her more than anything in the world, but I'm glad to just have her in my life.

And I will say about the whole alcohol thing, I wouldn't have drank if it wasn't for her, and I don't regret it. It was fun and I think with other single, available girls I would've been able to get some kind of action, but tonight was an experience. Our cast party is tomorrow so who knows what will happen then, but all I know is that right now, in my semi-drunken state, I don't give a crap about that other girl I was talking about. I think she's too damn immature, given the fact that she's 18 and she's just stupid. Nice body, but stupid.

Also, what is up with guys who have girlfriends talking about how hot other girls are and how they'll "go after it". I admit women can be very attracted, so much that being in a relationship doesn't stop you from noticing other women. But still, its one thing to notice and another to want to pursue if given the chance and that really bothers.
 
steintym said:
Doesn't hurt to ask her again. If you get another "maybe" she might just be acting friendly towards you and not that interested in anything else. Might as well show you really are interested.
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Okay I'll do that. I just didn't want to cross any line that could make things uncomfortable. This was actually the first time I asked someone that I have to see every week.

Trying to start fresh after my other dating disasters.
 
I agree, SpideyVille finally cut loose a little. Good deal!
 
And you guys thought I never will! :argh:

Actually, I didn't think I would either. I remember talking to some of the people in my cast about how I didn't drink, didn't want to start, and really wouldn't even try if I felt pressured, and they respected it. But when my friend brought me a shot, I figured it would be rude to turn it down, especially since we were there to celebrate. But I honestly think if she wasn't there I wouldn't have because it wouldn't have been as fun.

But yeah, I guess I definitely did loosen up a bit, which is weird to see how different I feel now that I sobered up a bit.
 
Maybe you can give someone an Eskimo kiss at your cast party. :up:
 
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