Actually I have a very straight answer to this question
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I made this post earlier that day:
"Marriage used to be a way for fathers to pass down property to a suitable male heir, and potentially make a union with a family who's economic stability was better than his own. The daughter essentially had no say. It made a way for families to form their own make shift societies so they could survive through very uncertain and dangerous times. To them, homosexuality meant the end of a bloodline a...nd therefore, at the time, people regarded it with great fear. Now we live in a world where most of us individuals can provide for ourselves better than those entire families, even better than some of the noblemen who lorded over them and practiced the right of prima nocta. So because of our unique circumstance due to the freedom and bounty we enjoy, all of us, straight and gay, have been allowed to change the definition of marriage to something that suits us personally. So excluding someone from that personal freedom is deplorable."
In response to North Carolina. So naturally many, many, many people decided to start commenting. I had this huge debate going back and forth between a very anti-gay Christian and some of my other gay and straight friends. So even though I wasn't commenting in the debate (having made my point in my post) I just would read all the updates. Lol.
I apologized. I said "I'm very sorry, and I will not do it again. If you want to end it over this that's your call, but I really had a nice time last night and I didn't want you to think I wanted you to leave". I'm definitely going to the doghouse for some period of time. I'm going to leave her alone now that I have apologized, and if I don't hear from her in a few days then that is probably that. She's clearly mad right now. I have to let her be mad.
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