I don't get why so many people believe that a reboot means "origin"!? And for the record: No I don't think Donner got it right! S:TM is a boring 2 1/2 hour movie that just introduces characters and a has a silly ending. So I wouldn't mind an updated and more balanced origin.
Smallville already does it in the form of a big war that annihilated Kryptonians. I bet Darkseid was the main villain in this scenario, teaming with ZOD and Brainiac. Once again showing how much possibilities there are by just changing a tiny bit of the story. No need to redo everything.
Anyway, what I mean is this: Start the movie like Spidey 2 with a comic panel opening that shows the most important steps in Clark's live to the point were he starts working for the Planet. The movie starts with Clark and Lois on their first assignment and just goes from there clashing into a villain plot for Supes in the third act. By the end of the first movie, Intergang will be introduced through the Lois & Clark plot and Supes will defend the US from a villain, with a little help from Lex, which leads to Luthor becoming US President in the second flick. Then he eventually turns against Supes and a new villain shows up and bla bla bla ... there are endless possibilites!!!
Is it really too much to ask for a Superman movie that tells an actual story?